Hmm... Let him know it's not fine to do that, but don't make it a huge thing since it just happened once. I do think we do get treated how we allow ourselves to be treated, and we get the relationships we allow, and I don't think this is one of those things we should expect or accept in a longer term relationship.. so nip it in the bud now. If he continues to do things like this, that's really bad, if it's just this one time and you speak to him and let him understand why it's not good and he can see your point of view, let it slide. If he does it again after all that... Well...
By what you said in the comments it sounds typical of him, it was a sudden plan and he was just focused on getting there. He also is a "bad communicator" he goes days without texting or calling. Its expected he would do this in that scenerio. If you aren't happy with it let him know in a calm easy going manner since this was the first time he did it.
If you aren't happy with his communication in general let him know that too.
Yes, that was not a right behavior on his part and it can be quite disrespectful but nothing to be too angry about it. If it happened only once then you can forgive him, but just let him know that you will appreciate it if he lets you know next time when it happens.
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no you shouldn't be mad. unless you are his girlfriend / parole officer i don't think he needs to call you before he leaves the city limits
He should have called or sent a text to say family thing come have to get there.
but then again it may have been an emergency or he may have just been to exhausted to think straight?
... Does it matter? He probably didn't leave forever.
He just wanted privacy. Are you worried that he was lying to you about what he did? Worried he try to lie and cover something up such as cheating on you?
This is strange. Not mad but concerned would be a better way to be. Like why didn't he tell you
It's the sort of question you can never really know the answer to
That is kind of weird why would he leave and not tell you anything.
Unless you two had something planned, no reason he couldn't tell you later.
you shouldn't make a big deal out of it because he may have some private things that needs to be solved.
maybe he was doing something that he didn't want to tell you about
I think it wouldn't make a minor difference to you knowing it a bit earlier than to him having to pause that sudden plan.
Dude I wanna do this so bad. I wanna get ina relationship with a girl then move to a different state without telling her
Yea that's kinds suspicious..
could be nothing
honestly
He probably would have
Don't worry
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