My girlfriend tells her best friend everything that goes on between us.....

[snowmn98]

My girlfriend and I are good except for little really annoying things...

1. She always tells her bestie everything that goes on between us like its her friends business to know, and then her friend offers "relationship" advice about what she would do, and I know for a fact she does not like me because I steal time away from her best friend. And it really peeves me that her bestie knows pretty much anything that goes on between us, except when me and my girlfriend hang out on the weekends (the only time we actually hangout for more than five minutes) she can't tell her bestie because she will get mad that they can't hang out. I feel like our relationship is in between three people, what should I do?

2. My girlfriend always "cowers" or sucks up to her bestie all the time, and it is most apparent when her bestie wants to hang out with my gf, even though we (my girlfriend and I ) were supposed to hang out, and she blows me off like its nothing. And when I complain about it and try to talk to the Bestie about it, she says that my girlfriend and I always spend time together. This is not true on the average week day we spend about 40 minutes together total, while my girlfriend and her bestie spend the entire day together plus the afternoon. What should I do?

[Gregs]

Listen, firs here are some things you need to know about women

They have a much harder time finding friends, especially good friends that they can trust. I only being real here when I say that women are mostly back stabbing bitches especially to each other and often even the "besties" relationships women have are love hate relationships where the girls are constantly fighting!

All you have to do is be a jerk back about it. If her best friend calls while your lying in bed together tell her to ignore it, if you girlfriend says she is meeting her friend but you want to go out with her tell her to blow her friend off. It sounds harsh but that is exactly what this bestie is doing and there is no love lost between you two.

If everything goes well the girlfriend will choose you, just make sure you LIKE THIS GIRL, because YOU will need to become her best friend, if your just going to dump this girl the just let her go, only do this if your serious about her, but one of you will need to go and if you play nice with this girl then she will ruin the relationship for you, trust me, it happoned to me before.

Also I'm not saying being restrictive of your girlfriend by stopping her going anywhere. If she really wants to go let her go without any jealousy or hate but do your best in a fun way to drag her away from her "friend"