What do you think they mean when they say they are a "nice" or "good" guy?
When a guy says "im a good guy", what do you think that means?
What do you think they mean when they say they are a "nice" or "good" guy?
It means they're not as nice or good as me lol.
For me, it means that I believe I have strong ethics & morals, my priorities include caring for family, friends, loved ones and sometimes complete strangers. I'm fiercely loyal and protective, but a big teddy bear at the same time. I care more about a persons character than their personality. I stand by my beliefs, even if it means I'm the only one standing. I have given up everything for those I love and would do it again without question. I have no interest in seeking attention by posing, flexing, 'mirin, dabbing, nae nae'ing or collecting likes on social media. My self worth isn't affected by the attention of others, or the number of women I've dated, and I'm often alone but never lonely. I don't find it hard to meet women, I just don't try. I don't care for sex, I'm only interested in making love in a relationship that's got potential.
would you be a guy that says that you think you can't get women because you are "nice"
I've been told by a friend that I'm "too nice to fuck", and I'm ok with that because I don't want to just fuck.
There's a difference between feeling unable to get women, and waiting for the right one, but to answer your question, no. I have options, they're just not the right ones for me long term.
i wouldn't describe you as a nice guy... i would describe you as a person that knows what they are about...
If you mean submissive rather than nice, I'd agree with you.
I'm a single Dad who gave up everything to fight for 4 years in court for shared custody of my 6 year old son. I was a bouncer/bodyguard/security officer for 14 years because I believe in looking after those who can't look after themselves. I practice random acts of kindness, often. I'm now a residential youth worker specialising in a therapeutic model of care for traumatised kids, not for the money, but because I genuinely care. My retired, disabled parents live with me in my home so I can look after them in my spare time, and so my son has a strong bond with his grandparents.
I believe I'm nice, and that nice guys (and women) do exist =)
So, you might have many nice qualities... but as a woman, i wouldn't describe you as "nice"... based on your words here, i would describe you as responsible, caring, determined, motivated... when a guy describes himself as nice, i generally dont associate those things with him... to me, nice in that context means something other than the four words i would use to describe you... if that makes sense...
Thankfully you're not making Santa's yearly lists for him! =P
I'm not sure that I understand.
I'm curious to know how you determine if someone is nice, can you explain further please?
Im not saying you aren't nice... im just saying that thats not what comes to mind when i would think of things to describe you. The four words i used, would you not find all of those things complimentary? In fact, i would say that any of those four words are so much more meaninful than the word "nice".
Do you feel that saying someone is nice is better used to describe their personality?
Nice to me is ambiguous when used in context of how a person might be in a relationship
It is for me also. I only tend to think of someone as nice if they're at least pleasant towards me and others, and have what I consider to be good ethics and morals,
ie. the two need to go hand in hand. I think it's interesting that the victims of the bank robbery that spawned the term "Stockholm Syndrome" said that the perpetrators were nice to them, and actually helped and supported them.
I think it can mean that they are boring and have no interesting qualities. That's why they brag about something as basic as being a good person, which honestly should be the absolute minimum requirement when you're looking to date someone.
Says the selfi mirror white knight 😂😂🖕
@thatguywithakeyboard so what do you think it means when this is said...
@thatguywithakeyboard I'm the opposite of a white knight. Why would you give a shit about my picture anyway, you need a hobby.
Only a tool would assume someone does not have a hobby, frankly my username is a rather nifty giveaway, and frankly I can make $80/hour from my hobby on my free time. Food for though there, Mr. White Knight :)
It's simple. There is no such thing as "nice" anyone claiming to be "nice" usually has alternative intentions, some people still assume "nice" is the easy path to girls pussy. Frankly the so called "nice" people are often bigest fuck tards I have ever met. I on the other hand never claim to be nice, I openly admit to being a "decent guy and a sarcastic asshole". I don't hite what I'm not under the "Nice" bullshit mask :)
@thatguywithakeyboard You are socially inept.
Neh bud, I work as a plumber and make my $150000/yr so don't know about the inept part you dip shit white knight 😂😂😂
@thatguywithakeyboard Yeah you clearly have no social skills whatsoever.
They mean that they're passive, usually. They don't want to take risks, so do small favors trying to get sexual and romantic attention. When it doesn't happen, they get frustrated.
Some want a big reward for little effort - their very own HotChick without having to hit the gym, style their hair or pick out clothes that fit, much less flirt and make conversation. Shouldn't not being "a musclebound bad boy" (by which they mean any attractive guy, even nice ones) get them 10's?
Some are nice and just lacking in confidence or social skills and just need a boost to meet a nice gal to have a nice relationship.
Still others have a rescue complex and only go for the most troubled, damaged women.
Though I had a guy friend who was really arrogant and mean spirited who drank a ton and slept around who whined about being "too nice guy" ... so it could mean anything.
Last time a guy told me he was a "nice guy", he was trying to lure me and my friends into his car to drink vodka and then he tried to rape one of my friends. I told him I didn't trust him right of the bat, and it turns out I was right not to trust him
Anytime a guy tries to convince you he's a nice guy, he's lying. That's like when girls try to convince you they're not bitches. Girls who aren't bitches don't get called bitches and nice guys don't have to tell you they're nice
He's either sincerely trying to assure you he isn't an asshole or a player or he's playing that slimy nice guy card which is worse sometimes meaning he's a bitchy vindictive prick. Men are generally self-serving and have an angle and you have to careful to watch for red flag behaviors. If you find a good man, hang onto him☆♡☆
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They dont cheat and think they will treat you right (like a gentleman). They shouldn't really complain or announce they are a good guy tho. Its pushing the blame on women and off of themselves. They may be nice but they may not get girls because they are boring or other reasons.
I think generally if you need to tell people you're a good person... you probably aren't.
Actions speak louder.
guys who are doing good usually show it in action, they don't have to toot there own horn but they can show it by their stances in life, their actions and their proven responses in situations.
*their not there, sorry :)
I wouldn't trust a guy who goes around saying he's nice and good
Hmm. White knight much?
It depends. But typically guys that say that mean that they are the kind of guys that they think girls would be interested in, compared to the "bad-asses". However, players tend to say that too, to get sex. So, it depends on the guy's intentions.
He means that he actually isn't. I've bumped into these sorts before and they were disasters.
why do you think they seem so confused about why they dont get the girls?
When someone says that they're a 'good guy' it usually means that they do things that are considered normal and decent but expect special praise for it because they see it as going out of their way
Translation "I'm not a up front asshole. I'm a asshole in sheep's clothing"
They see themselves as nice and caring guys. Also, they think that how nice a guy is actually matters.
Bad boys are more appealing to the adolescent girl's mind. They are more adventurous. A nice guy is someone who tries hard to get good grades, doesn't do drugs, and is just a good person.
They're don't fall under the usually guy but this can also mean they lack confidence or a dominating presence.
It generally means they are full of themselves and think they're better than other guys.
He's not a nice guy. Nice guys don't advertise
It's like being hot. Actual hot people, don't go around announcing their hotness. They don't have to, it shows
Haha. I get what you're saying, but disagree.
I'm a single Dad with a shared care arrangement for my son. My ex wife left with him and did everything she can to push me out of his life so she can settle down with her new boyfriend and forget I exist. She launched an assault in Family Court consisting of allegations that were completely unfounded, and after being tested, psychoanalysed, alienated, defamed and degraded, I proved myself to be a good, loving and reliable Dad. I had to learn to stand up for myself and my son.
I'm now a residential youth worker, specialising in therapeutic care of traumatised kids.
My point is, sometimes good people DO have to stand up and say "hey, I am nice, and I deserve better than this crap".
People are cynical, sceptical and inherently negative by nature, but not all sheep are wolves
I think theyre trying to say they are good
that he's a pussy
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