Should your boyfriend think you're the most beautiful girl in the world? (Page 2)

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So my boyfriend basically said (when I was being insecure) that I am "better than average". I really thought about his words & it kind of hurt my feelings. We got into a fight because I feel like (maybe I'm kidding myself) that if a guy really loves a girl, he will see her as the most beautiful girl in the world.  So he basically admitted that yes he thought there were others prettier than me and tried to pull the "well do you think I'm the best looking guy in the world"? Which I think he is so I was even more humiliated. For example, my dad has said that my mom is the most beautiful woman in the world to him Am I just being unreasonable and psychotic? Would other girls be hurt too?  Cause I'm more hurt and like wondering "Do I wanna be with a guy who feels this way about me?". I know the whole "there's always someone prettier than you" and I definitely don't think I'm all that - I just thought that if you're really in love with someone, you don't even see anyone else. That's how I am. Maybe I've been watching too many romantic comedies...

Dale1982 · Answer

He's not wise your boyfriend lol. Every man knows there's only one answer to that question and your dad got it right first time

Jessicastern · Answer

No. But "better than average"? He should think you're very beautiful. My boyfriend calls me very beautiful. I call him very beautiful.

OlderGuy965 · Answer

He did nothing wrong. You are insecure. I looked at your profile picture and you are beautiful! I have no idea why you feel this way. He's honest and you can't expect that from him, to see you as the most beautiful I the world.

sweetbeesknees · Answer

Quite frankly, I think you're overthinking his words way way too much. If he's a loyal, loving, kind boyfriend then consider yourself the luckiest girl in the world.

mrRedfromFling · Answer

should a guy say you're the most beautiful? probably. is it the truth? nah. any girl I've been with seen hotter

BertMacklinFBI · Answer

obviously, it's more of an expression of feelings towards one another then ACTUALLY being the best looking person in the world... come on.

TheKingofBBC · Answer

lol no. Do you want hypergamy to screw him over?

naraku · Answer

No, however I do take an extremely biased view of whichever girl I am with. Most beautiful in the World no. However, I would not say what your boyfriend did.

cupidXOXO · Answer

I think he should find you attractive, yes. But the most important thing is that he loves who you are not based on how you look. 😊

_Anna_ · Answer

Maybe I am dumb, but it actually bothers me when my partner sais that I am the msot beautiful woman in the world... maybe I am too racional HAHA

martyfellow · Answer

He's jus being honest, even if not very diplomatic. But yes, he should still see you as the best thing going, even if not the most beautiful

Omar5881 · Answer

It's a cliché but your boyfriend must see the inner beauty of you and you're actual value beyond just the physical looks and don't be insecure if he thinks you're ugly he won't be in a relationship with you

HonestGirlAlways · Answer

Are you the most beautiful girl in the world? No. Is he the most beautiful guy in the world? No. That's it.

Nice_Guy_Last · Answer

Unfortunately, my daughter is, so... sorry not sorry.

ladsin · Answer

I would find it strange if my boyfriend thought I was the most beautiful girl lol

Wertime · Answer

He's not being rude. He's being honest. You don't have to think your significant other is the most attractive there is, as long as you don't say (s) he is ugly, 'cause that IS rude.

MoeAli · Answer

Yes he should & if thats what he thinks you really deserve better 😊

fauchelevent · Answer

Nah, I don't think so. I think that expectation is very unrealistic and kinda dumb.

genericname85 · Answer

obviously there is always some hotter chick out there than your girlfriend... but you´re not only with your girlfriend cause she´s hot right?

Deydey12345 · Answer

WHY NOT? This shouldn't be a question in your mind

Kimjongun · Answer

Not really. Beauty can be subjective and so can be ways to look at it. It's not mandatory for him to consider you're the prettiest and same goes for you. With time you'll know that looks fade away.

baby181036 · Answer

Yes, you should feel hurt. I think it would be better for you to leave him

litty · Answer

Sure he could've been more romantic. But then how do you know he wasn't kidding?

StickStickity13 · Answer

I don't believe for a second women think their boyfriend is the most handsome man in the world. I'm realistic there's always someone prettier

sp33d · Answer

So, essentially, your relationship is all about appearances?

El_Shaddai · Answer

Do you think he's the most handsome man in the world honestly?

saeedja · Answer

he must see this and you must see that beauty is not beauty of buy only it is comping title of personality.. humanity.. thinking.. buy.. etc

Whiterecluse · Answer

I think it's better not to bring it up or ask because that may ruin every relationship. All people have wandering eyes.

Monlineb · Answer

You shouldn't even have to ask him if he thinks that. If I was with a guy because they thought I was the most beautiful girl in the world - I wouldn't want to be with someone that shallow.

Seppelson · Answer

I don't think that love makes someone the most beautiful person in the world. I guess you even have a crush in some actors from romantic movies and fantasise about them so why should he be different?

admles · Answer

No.  You want him to lie? Keep in mind he's with you because he loves you, not for your looks.

Nahid1234 · Answer

Here for the answers because I am currently not in a relationship ☺️💕

Liisjak · Answer

Every guy thinks there's better looking chicks out there, stop being delusional or I'd suggest to invest in some cats for when you'll be 30.

Westy616 · Answer

I'm sure nothing was meant to be harsh towards you. I'm sure he just chose the wrong words to say what he was thinking.

sallygal · Answer

the dreams some women have your boyfriend going look at other women its life

dolemite68 · Answer

That's delusional thinking, salma Hayek is the prettiest girl in the world everyone knows that

Anticipation · Answer

yes,, he only has eyes for you!!

cooldude25 · Answer

no, there are a lot better looking... but you are with someone for the reasons you are.

UnlimitedGainz · Answer

Being with a girlfriend is the worst thing that could happen in my life.

abundantlyrich · Answer

Did you ask him for his opinion?

AleDeEurope · Answer

I think honesty is better in a relationship...

Halucinator · Answer

Should or not But I would

Halfbloodprincess23 · Answer

Nope. Not as long as Rihanna is alive

Internet_Monster · Answer

No. Stop being insecure.

vekin · Answer

I think he just has been chosing the wrong words

CT_CD · Answer

No because you're not

almadafie · Answer

No, you are completely right

Ladyslipper · Answer

Yeah

Crankor · Answer

nope

Fk7676 · Answer

NO. WAY.

lcneal69 · Answer

Yes.

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