Some people are really uncomfortable with affection. Some guys can feel like they are being mothered if you cuddle with them too much. Obviously not all but some. Especially if you are doing it in public.
If nothing else has changed I wouldn't worry about it. He may just feel uncomfortable with affection outside of sex.
And he doesn't seem to interpret physical affection as love like you do. If he says you are "too" affectionate, he isn't going to be upset if you cut back on it. He is actually telling you to cut back on it.
I'm a physical affectionate person too so I know it's hard to rein it with someone who doesn't feel comfortable with it all the time. But think of it like if your boyfriend showed affection by spending time with you. And he wanted to spend every waking second with you. Or if he showed love by wanting to talk on the phone and so he called you 5 hours a day. Or anything that just seemed like way too much. It would make you feel uncomfortable.
I would ask him how much affection he feels comfortable with. He isn't going to see it as you not loving him. But I would also let him know that it's important to have some affection. That it's necessary for you.
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I feel the same with my new boyfriend. I’m super affectionate but he’s made some comments that show he’s not into too much and likes it only sometimes. I’m planning on talking to him about it and seeing what he’s comfortable with. I think that’s the best thing you can do. Communication and understanding is so important to find that balance
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