I have a more private kind of personality, and I don't say anything I don't mean.
I am not the kind of personality who is comfortable gushing their feelings out loud to everyone whether I mean it or not, and sometimes loves to say things just to draw attention.
People know that I love my boyfriend. I have even told some people right in front of him and have even posted "I love you" to him on facebook many times.
I often whisper to my boyfriend "I Love You", because my personality likes to be more personal with my guy then public and to me, it has most meaning this way. I feel that publicly saying "I love you" all the time is not more meaningful then whispering it. To me, whispering it to him is telling him directly, honestly and more intimately then announcing it.
It is so frustrating when my boyfriend always complains about me whispering those words to him. He's convinced that I only whisper them because I am trying to hide that I love him. And that I want to seem available to other guys.
This is driving me nuts! Does anyone agree with me that there is nothing wrong with whispering I love you to your significant other? How in the world am I suppose to help him understand this!?
I am not the kind of personality who is comfortable gushing their feelings out loud to everyone whether I mean it or not, and sometimes loves to say things just to draw attention.
People know that I love my boyfriend. I have even told some people right in front of him and have even posted "I love you" to him on facebook many times.
I often whisper to my boyfriend "I Love You", because my personality likes to be more personal with my guy then public and to me, it has most meaning this way. I feel that publicly saying "I love you" all the time is not more meaningful then whispering it. To me, whispering it to him is telling him directly, honestly and more intimately then announcing it.
It is so frustrating when my boyfriend always complains about me whispering those words to him. He's convinced that I only whisper them because I am trying to hide that I love him. And that I want to seem available to other guys.
This is driving me nuts! Does anyone agree with me that there is nothing wrong with whispering I love you to your significant other? How in the world am I suppose to help him understand this!?
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