My boyfriend said if we ever have kids he wants a DNA test when the baby is born. I am so hurt every he says this to me because I feel like he doesn't trust me, why else would he want one? Even when he told his friends this they told him he has trust issues and he said doesn't, he said he has told this to every girlfriend he has had and he doesn't want to raise a child that isn't his. We have been together for 3 years and he always talks about buying a house together, and he said he wants 2-3 kids in the future. We are together constantly and I don't go out with friends very often, I don't have many guy friends, so I don't think he thinks I would cheat on him, which of course I wouldn't. I told him I'm not getting a DNA test if we have a baby because he shouldn't be with me if he doesn't trust me, he threatened to break up with me if I don't. Would you be hurt if your partner said they wanted a DNA test if you ever had a baby together? Would you break up with them over It? I feel like breaking up with him because of this, because it feels like he doesn't trust me. All I imagine is me giving birth to a baby, and him not having any emotional attachment or holding or kissing the baby until the DNA test results are finished, this is not how I ever pictured having a baby.

I would totally break up. I want a trusting and loving relationship

Thats great. A man can never be too careful.

trust is good. knowing is better...

Has the word marriage came up at all?

You never know these days, I don't blame him.

You're right. It sounds like he doesn't trust you.

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Anonymous
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I would totally break up. I want a trusting and loving relationship

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Thats great.
A man can never be too careful.

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Toxic relationship. Run away

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- Opinion Owner
  
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  And omg the others comments.
  
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trust is good. knowing is better...

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Has the word marriage came up at all?

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Some dudes are just paranoid.

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Break up with him now

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You never know these days, I don't blame him.

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You're right. It sounds like he doesn't trust you.

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- SuccessfulHornDog
  
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  You should give him one to ease his mind and allow him to relax and love your cild
  
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- Asker
  
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  Im not pregnant by the way, I'm on the pill, I don't plan on having a child for the next 4-5 years but he was saying if we do ever have one together, he wants a DNA test.
  
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- SuccessfulHornDog
  
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  I understand. He has some trust issue which may be unrelated to you. If you do get pregnant it would be smart to give him his DNA test and eliminate his fear so that he can love and bond with your child.
  
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Nowadays sexual liberation has guys on edge!

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He has trust issues for sure

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He's an ass..

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sounds fine to me

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He is right

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He's paranoid

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- WiggleWasser
  
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  Just because you're paranoid it doesn't mean they aren't really out to get you.
  
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were you a slut?

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- Asker
  
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  No I'm not, he's the first guy I've ever been with.
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  you may have a notion then to go out and "experience other men"
  
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Ummm trust issues.

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