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My boyfriend wants a DNA test if I ever get pregnant? (Page 4)
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Get married first. But not to this whiny guy.
There... problem solved. :)
I agree with you if he doesn't trust why should you guys continue in the relationship... he has major trust issues.. Don't over think it makes up your mind... and talk things out... ask him if that's gonna be the situation if he is going to act cold until he has a DNA test... if so just take things into consideration because it would not be a nice environment to bring in a baby
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If you're not getting knocked up from some other guy behind your boyfriend's back, then what's the problem? Got something to hide from him?
The fact is, many more women especially in this era nowadays are getting impregnated from other men and then forcing their original partners to pay for and raise their affair's bastard offspring because of the fucking biased divorce courts. So it's only natural for your boyfriend to make sure his children are 100% his own.
Tell him he will you are not willing to get pregnant until he gets over his trust issues.
That's it!
Then he should immediately dump her.
@heavensgift2girls it might happen. Then she can find a real man.
A "real man" is just a man with such low self esteem that he lets others manipulate him, in an effort to prove his masculinity. Being a real man, is nothing to be proud of.
You shouldn’t be with him. And he has trust issues and the fact that je doesn’t accept this is because he is delusional. You don’t want to be having kids with this d*•*khead. And one adivce for you, start hanging out woth your friends more often. Don’t revolve your life around him if you plan to stay with him any longer.
women do lie you know.
@Sexy_Steve no i don’t know. Thanks for telling
✅ Makes perfect sense. In a world where women are too independent. Marriage is a big risk. Especially when she becomes a partner in your financial life.
Definitely sign a prenup and an agreement to get your baby tested and that if it’s not the mans child he doesn’t have to pay for it.
in many places the husband is forced to pay for a child that’s not his. Men are fucked when it comes to divorce and kids. Women also have more rights.
I wish more men would get their act together like him.
So he has trust issues... try to understand that and be nurturing, all you have to do is prove what is certainly true, and if anything he'll feel guilty when he sees that you have been 100% faithful. Get the test
Smart man. Nothing to hide then nothing to fear.. right? :]
A complete lack of confidence menaces a marriage.
@jacquesvol Trust but verify, especially if inaction can legally bind you to another man's kid. Ouch!
A kid is a kid, a blank slate mostly. The real dad is the MAN who raises the child.
@jacquesvol Eh, I don't wanna be cucked just cus it's rude ask for a DNA test. But even my female roommate agrees with me. She says a DNA test makes sense and raising another person's kid is bullshit.
@jacquesvol
I disagree. Why should someone have to take care of something that's not their's?
People who don't trust each other can't say they have a relationship or marriage.
I think it's indecent most men are calling him smart and coming up with statistics.
You either know the person and trust them - especially if you've been dating for three years - or you don't.
I guess you'd be having 2, 3 patternity tests if you're down with that.
Personally, I don't think I would accept it. Even just the idea of going through pregnancy basically by myself with him always wondering would already be a no go.
If there is so little trust, just what kind of a relationship is possible? Kick him to the curb and find a decent guy.
some people don't really trust other that much maybe he got into bad experience before or his friend? why 're you offended just do the test and show him. you got nothing to be afraid of anyway.
don't think negatively ok. i know it seem harsh. but see it in positive way he even think how many child he want to have and planning for house and all. I think he's ok instead of guys who never marry their girlfriend. XD
This is beyond you. There are so many men who think the kid is theirs, only to later find out that the kid isn't. He is just cautious, and I don't blame him. I honestly think that DNA testing should be a requirement for anyone who is pregnant.
Lol. As usual, women don't see the big picture.
www.theroot.com/i-m-devastated-by-the-news-that-my-son-isn-t-mine-what-1790876594
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/ushome/index.html
www.reddit.com/.../
Happens to men everyday.
The women do see the big picture. It isn't that women don't understand. Women don't like it, because so many of them cheat, and they are afraid of getting busted. Even if the child does belong to him, she can't be certain of that, and they are terrified that she might not be able to trick him into raising another man's child. I agree that DNA testing should be mandatory.
@heavensgift2girls no, women don't like it because we don't like being accused of things we haven't done or even hinted at doing. It would be different if the woman had a history of cheating, then I'd side with the man (but question as to why he's even with her, but that's besides the main point). I'm pretty sure you wouldn't like being accused of cheating, especially if you haven't even done anything that could potentially break your partner's trust.
@lumos Lol. You said:
women don't like it because we don't like being accused of things we haven't done or even hinted at doing
When my mom cheated on my dad, she didn't leave any hints XD! Some people can cheat and be very sly about it.
" It would be different if the woman had a history of cheating"
Most people don't have a history of cheating. Some people may cheat only once. My best friend was engaged to a girl that never cheated in her life. However, she cheated on him with her boss.
Why do you think shows like Maury or those paternity shows thrive? It's because people are uncertain of who the father is, so they need to get DNA testing to prove it. People could save so much money down the line, if DNA testing was a requirement after birth. It would save money, potential child support issues and it would make the girl be upfront with the guy.
A lot of women are taking this personally, but it's bigger than them.
All women need to get a DNA test.
@lumos It isn't an accusation. It is just making sure you get what you are signing up for. When you buy a house and have it inspected, you aren't accusing the other person of trying to trick you. You are just using common sense, because you can never know for sure, and that level of trust is unreasonable.
Never sign any contract based solely on your faith in another person. Agreeing to be the father of a child is just about the biggest contract a man can sign. He would be a fool to not know for sure the child is his, before he agrees to accept the child as his own.
He has a very low opinion of women and thinks that he has the right to do whatever is necessary to protect his own interests.
I wouldn't stay with him if I were you. He doesn't sound like a good boyfriend.
Your boyfriend and his paranoia are the REAL issue. He spends too much time listening to self appointed 'manists'
Well that's the guy you chose if thatsbhis only flaw I would say it's not that bad just that's where he draw a the line if there is a kid I need proof it's mine
So you would also ask your partner for a DNA test if you ever have a baby together?
No never but I can see why a guy can get like this
That is a red flag ! Run !! You should trust the person you marry and honestly this is way worse than a prenup
It does mean he doesn't trust you. But I do understand why he wouldn't trust you, not because you've done anything but that there have been many cases in general of women having men raise children that aren't theirs. This is a serious issue. Either he will have to learn to trust you or you will have to break up with him.
No.
I mean what's wrong with it. Genetic test could actually be benefitial,
Ditch that bitch.
It's that simple. He's an abuser, and if you stay with him, it will get worse. He'll take it out on any kids you have, too.
When womens plays detective on their husband to know if they fcked around its okay, but not on his part? These women...
It is a basic issue of mistrust. No basis for a relationship!