Have been seeing a guy for 3 months now, but he still only wants to meet once a week- male perspective needed?

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A week and a half ago we discussed whether or not we'd been seeing other people. Apart from one other gal he saw for about 2 weeks after we first met, he hasn't, and neither have I. He asked how I'd feel about deleting tinder/bumble and I was fine with it- I really like him and when I'm seeing people I don't go on other dates anyway. But as we continued talking, I brought up the idea of us seeing eachother more than once a week. The way I see it, there's now an unspoken agreement between both of us that seeing other people isn't ok, and while we aren't 'boyfriend'/'girlfriend', it's not exactly casual either (I didn't say this- literally just asked if he'd want to see me more than once a week). He replied saying not really- he likes to look forward to seeing me and our 'scheduled' call once every 3 days is fine. Bit of background to the scheduled call- over Christmas we'd met up and I brought up how he doesn't really text or anything/we don't speak when we're not together, so jokingly he said he'd set an alarm for every 3 days to schedule in a call and that's actually what's happened. I understand as a 3rd year student he needs to focus to get a first. He has also started his own business which I get will be taking up time. He's pretty chilled out about the uni stuff but does spend mondays to fridays on campus in the library, and also does work things there too, and he has a close knit house who he needs to spend time with as well. Do you understand where he's coming from when he says he wants to look forward to seeing me, or would you say it's a little bit of a cop out- not so much he wants to look forward to seeing me but he doesn't want to make the time? I'd genuinely be happy for just 2 nights a week, but even that wasn't considered (he giggled and said no to that as well). I'm the longest relationship he's ever had, but I've been in more long term things, and I feel like around this kind of time we should be stepping it up if he's taking this seriously?
Have been seeing a guy for 3 months now, but he still only wants to meet once a week- male perspective needed?
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