Is it ok to dump a cheater on his b-day? (Page 2)

Question

His b-day is this Sunday. I found out but rather than doing a direct confrontation and dumping him now, I want to wait till his b-day. He doesn't know I know. I'm still dumping him. I ain't staying with no cheater.

PunishedDragon · Answer

I say wait until after so you can get some cake first but if you don't care about cake then go ahead and dump in.

eziegler81 · Answer

If she guy is a real shit head, he's not going to care about you breaking up with him on his birthday. If you really want to get back at him, do it to him at a party (if he's having one) in front of friends and family. Otherwise I just think you should just dump him and move on, no sense on waiting for his birthday.

Duke1985 · Answer

I voted prematurely. Didn't actually read that you're seriously waiting for his birthday. That's kinda stupid. I mean, only because you've been treated wrong doesn't make it ok to be an ass about it too. How can you wait at all to dump him? Someone cheats, you better let them know right away and dump them. There's no reason to wait, because you've made your decision

RedHigHeels · Answer

Before I read the full caption I was going to say I would wait specifically for his birthday to dump and confront so he never forgets what a shit he is.

Sspaulding728 · Answer

What better way to wish someone a happy birthday than with a big dose of karma. Make sure to really make him look like a piece of shit when you do it so its even mre embarrassing.

Richareens · Answer

I think that's rather pathetic and childish of you. Don't play games, just dump him now.

RussianGal17 · Answer

Yes, he showed no courtesy to you, why should you do differently?

DevilsAngel · Answer

Its a great gift for him for his birthday and a good revenge for you. Make this birthday of his memorable.

Guanfei · Answer

Ok, yes, it's ok to dump a cheater anytime. But it's a revenge you're seeking, and that never bring anything good. And if you wait for that day, I suppose it's for a reason, I guess you weren't planning to spend the day just with him, there will be people and you're planning to tell them what he did?
If so, forget it. Just break up, move on, that's it. No need to involve anyone else in this.

MRMIZO · Answer

Id say unless there's a death in his family any day is a good day

just_tired · Answer

Absolutely, fuck him! He mad his choice..

Browneye57 · Answer

Just dump him. The revenge thing is over-rated. You never meant that much to him anyway, otherwise he wouldn't have cheated.
Consider you likely dodged a huge bullet. Just be done, over, fini, the end. Don't keep it going.

_JobiSan · Answer

Please record! xD humiliate him a bit because it be so little oppose to your humiliation he did to you

Anonymous · Answer

lol I meant to choose Yes but the screen jumped and I picked No, I think.

Dumping him on his birthday will make it a double whammy and perhaps he'll think more next time he's dating someone and gets a wandering eye. What a loser he is!

ambarlee25 · Answer

there's a few people that actually make it a prank and record it. they set up a big surprise and write a card asking them to read it for the camera and it's just about finding out they cheated and break up and etc

Anonymous · Answer

I voted no. It's okay to dump a cheater on their birthday but waiting to do it on their birthday is petty and could potentially give ammunition to people looking to put you down. They might try to excuse his cheating by your poor behaviour. Don't do things that make you weak.

devilman666 · Answer

It's not that I think it's not okay. It's that I think it's a little petty. Don't bother getting back at people like this, just try to move on and learn from it.

unknown-creature · Answer

The more mature action is to dumb hand right now and don't wait for his birthday. This is going to be a waste of time that you could dedicate to someone else.

steveguitar · Answer

Tell him you're coming to the party , don't show up, text all his friends to tell them he cheated, and let them tell him on his bday

Luna26 · Answer

It's ok to dump a cheater on their anytime of the year. Holidays included 😂

SammyGurl · Answer

It's OK to dump a cheater any day! If they can't be faithful they aren't worth having!!

danette03 · Answer

Drink his champaigne , have his cake and dump his ass !

1234lulu · Answer

If someone does bad to you, that don't meet you must too. You must love yourself and move on. You deserve better. Don't let anyone's actions influence your thoughts or action. Be your own queen. Simply ignore and once you move on, don't look back.

idrilcarnesir19 · Answer

My ex broke up with me because he was seeing someone else. It happened on his birthday when we finally ended

Moonchild714 · Answer

Of course, they weren't thinking of your feelings when cheating so why concern yourself with their feelings!!! Payback is a BITCH!!!

Introvert94 · Answer

It's never okay to dump a cheater. But seriously, give him a B-Day card that informs him y'all are over with.

Boromir · Answer

It's vengeful and shallow to wait until the birthday. If you would have found out on his birthday it would be fine to break up the same day regardless of his birthday, but waiting on purpose and pretending all is well? That's childish and stupid.

Talliesea · Answer

Do it. He deserves it. A cheater isn’t worth your time nor should he be treated well just because it’s his birthday. Dump him

Masselin · Answer

If he does it in such secrecy, he can not be trusted. I wouldn't wait personally, but that's a pretty great 'fuck you' if you do.

MissLogical · Answer

He apparently thinks it's okay to cheat on you, so why would it be bad to dump the prick on his lame ass birthday?

Butthole1234 · Answer

Some people cheat when blackout drunk and truly regret it, or some people willingly and 100% sober will go behind your back several times and cheat. Each isn’t okay. But the second one in my opinion is worse and if it’s like that, do it girl yesss.

mandrin · Answer

If you are sure about he is cheating.. then it's your wish whenever you want to break up... but if he is not cheating then you won't even forgive yourself for doing this...

Blueberry_Spicehead · Answer

You can dump him on his birthday no problem, but if you're going to dump him then just do it. Waiting for his birthday to dump him is kinda childish.

gokusongod · Answer

It depends, do you have kids? I ask only because if you end up going back with him later instead of dealing with the cheating then there will be more girls he may date as well you will date and create a situation that may not be repairable. If no kids are involved and you want out then I say play that song To the Left by Beyonce.

AG900 · Answer

If he was dying of terminal something, you could still dump him in his last bday. Fk that. And thanks for loving yourself

ryancg · Answer

It'll certainly be the funniest way to dump the cheating bastard. I say go for it. Cheaters deserve to be shamed and humiliated and defaced. And maybe, but probably not, ruining his birthday will teach him a lesson.

gavacho2014 · Answer

It's ok to dump a cheater any day ! Even Christmas !

GuysConfuseMeMan · Answer

Do it on his birthday, who tf cares. give him a gift that let's him know that you know what he did. Fuck up his day.

Goodonestaken · Answer

Dump him now not his birthday haha your giving him more time to cheat again he obviously doesn't care otherwise he wouldn't doit. i believe in loveing more than one person because that does happen but don't act on it without concent, but that's clearly not the situation other wise you would know because he'd of came to you first.

madhatters4 · Answer

so you want to wait til his birthday? what you are describing is not ok  just do it now. don't do something low character just to get some sort of revenge.

lumos · Answer

This is the kind of pettiness I live for. Go for it girl!

SongBird3 · Answer

Yes girl. Make his gift something savage like a bag of shit and say “were done u cheating shit”

Shavvy876 · Answer

When someone has cheated, nothing about the cheater's life and times have significance. The sooner you throw out garbage the less it stinks up the place. Choose how much you're willing to endure and for what reason.

skimando · Answer

Revenge is best serve cold. Stopping down to his level is wrong but these people need to learn. 2 wrongs don't make a right but on a personal level I would dump him and make him feel bad.

selfloveworth · Answer

Dump him now, drama won't help you or serve your best interests love. Just let go and move on into your new life. Vengeance is sweet until it is done onto you. Have the campassion to realise he's a lost soul just doing the same thing everyone else is. Rise above it.

440SuperCharged · Answer

Talk him up good first leave his ass blue balled. Perfect because that shit hurts for hours.

azzntittiz · Answer

Yes, do it and ruin his birthday forever, that will show him.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

My only objection is that the longer you stay while knowing the more probable you'll stay in general.

Theatrebelle · Answer

The cheater hasn't considered you're feelings. You don't owe them your consideration. That being said I wouldn't do it to be vengeful, but if it happens that you find out on their birthday they've made their own bed.

Sparrow22 · Answer

You should dump him immediately. Why would you prolong it until his bday. If he cheated do you really think he is going to be butt hurt today or on his bday when there is someone else that he is seeing? Think about it.

LordSnuggles · Answer

Seems vindictive. Being wronged doesn't make what you do in response good. If someone steals from you and you rob them in retaliation, you're still a thief no matter how justified you felt. You don't get a moral blank check.

Jesslin412 · Answer

Depends on how he cheated I guess but I wouldn’t wait

Raymond_Reddington · Answer

Yes. That’s so cruel I love it. They totally deserve it.

BlueWaffleLover · Answer

Here's a better idea: let him get whatever side trim he wants and you look the other way. You just be a good and dutiful girlfriend. After all, if you were better in the sack, he wouldn't need to find supplementation.. so in reality, what you call cheating is just him trying to keep you on as a girlfriend even though you aren't doing the job. You should be thanking him.

Idontknow092 · Answer

Put some laxatives into his drinks/beer or whatever and then just leave.

bellbuzz_7 · Answer

I absolutely condone this decision. People who are cheaters are awful, but tip the scale even more when they keep it a secret. Waiting for the right time is always encouraged. If you believe his birthday is the right time, then go for it. :)

effyourfeelings · Answer

Yeah Dumping is a good birthday present you could give to a cheater

AudreyB88 · Answer

You shouldn't wait. Dump him and move on with your life. You deserve better.

Madirashed · Answer

Ask him to buy you something sexy so you can wear at his birthday... and then send him a photo of you wearing it for somrone else at his b-day... you can ask one of your friends for a favour... hv a sweet revenge

Voider · Answer

Do it when you find out. He's in the wrong. Don't join him by plotting to ruin a specific day. That just makes you sound like a sociopath.

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