Is it ok to dump a cheater on his b-day? (Page 2)
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The best time to dump a cheater is NOW. No waiting, no negotiating, no timing, just do it now. I wouldn't care if the person was at their mother's funeral.
Just make certain he really did cheat on you. Good luck, move on and get back on the horse.
Follow up. Good for you. The shoebox was overkill, no need for that. When you completely removed yourself from the situation it was speaking volumes. Good luck and now you can move on. Now enjoy yourself!
That can be his present.
"hey babe whatchu get me for my B-day?"
"The single life."
"Wait what..."
'Bye dickhead"
Are you dumb? If you wanna break up with an asshole you do it now! Don't need to be an asshole yourself... And everyone else who voted yes have no respect for themselves really.
Totally agreed
I too second this. don't invest time in Trying to humiliate someone... 1 Its NOT YOUR PLACE to do so. 2 Be above Childish game of tit for tat. 3 you run the risk of escalation; in where a bad situation can go from bad to worse, and 3(a) Anyone who who stepped outside of a relationship and went through any kind of trouble to hide the fact of their own Wrong doing may become desperate to prove themselves. 3(b) If they tried to keep The Affair from public view... Then they at the very least deserve a Private break up... Life is hard enough for everyone , Don't add to it. Revenge may only serve to make it harder on the both of you.
My best friend caught him and she even took a picture (unaware that she saw him) of him kissing that girl. That means he blatantly cheated on me, right in public.
Id like to see if you change your mind when it happens to you. JS.
So you don't want to rise above these kind of things by not doing the same? You prefer to join in lol no wonder he cheated on you. If you break up with him by waiting for his birthday, you just prove you deserved someone disloyal and immature coz ur in his same level doing the same thing ^^.
You have every right to dump him, but this seems gratuitous. You are operating on the premise that because he behaved in a beastly manner, it is fine for you to do so. In truth, in a perfect world, neither of you would.
Dump him, but show that you are the better person.
Agreed.. 👍
I say do it whenever. Now or later. They cheated so why should you care in any way how it might upset them. If it ruins his bday it's his fault because he cheated. Plus I don't get why everyone says not to do it on his bday because that's special. Screw that he gets one every year maybe he will learn not to be a cheating bastard next time
Oh hell yes!!
Or any other day ending in y no matter what the occasion... After all.. He (or she depending on your personal preference) was the one who disregarded your feelings, trust and commitment to the relationship in the first instance, so unless you're looking for reconciliation, you are really only required to consider one person - you!!!
I think its the best... because in this way he may be understands that a new chapter in his life will begin without you... and i think you are mure importantthan his birthday... its just a day... the true happiness is in understanding each other together not celeblating together wile the other in cheating.
Of you plan to wait till his b-day then you are part of the problem, that says you rejoice in his suffering and that's messed up, perhaps not as messed up as cheating just like he did but... wow... You either dump him now or you need some help as well.
Why you staying with him if you're against cheating lol.. You're just going to do something to spite him? 2 wrongs make a right nowadays?
A bit like playground tactics. He hurt me so i hurt him... What's wrong with dumping him now and if he asks why, just drop the truth.
Nobody grows up anymore
I beg to differ😬. Everything in life is a choice, even if it's a choice by not choosing 😉
U could! I just I don’t know what u would get from it, but I think u should just dump him right now u know? It doesn’t matter, I know he hurt you but, why would you want to stay another day with him knowing you could just forget about it and he’s not worth all the planning?😊 u deserve better!
YES.
Go for it!
Lol I sound so petty and hateful for agreeing with this but I mean... he cheated so all is fair in love and war. And it'll ruin his day. And you didn't actively do anything to get back him, like ruin his car or clothes or something on that level. It's perfect all around.
Break his heart!
"Revenge is a dish best served cold", don't know who said the quote, but that person is right. He was a cold hearted person, so he deserved a cold dish 'o revenge. Bon Appétit, cheater. I wish you good luck with serving it.
Doesn't matter when it is as long as you are not planning some cruel drawn out plan for revenge. Break up with him as soon as you can, Sunday seems fine, who cares that it's his birthday, obviously single life is what he needs and what better day to be single than his birthday.
Most of us will say yeah or sure he deserve so but think of it is that who u r even if he did the worst thing to u?
U r better than making anger and revenge control u. Karma will do its job. In my openion wait then u can leave peacefully.
U won't feel good if u made his day the worst this won't make u feel better at all.
I don’t encourage retaliation. But on the other hand, you have no obligation to be sensitive to his feelings. If his birthday is truly the best time to confront him and dump him did to extenuating circumstances, then do so. But timing it for his birthday just to hurt him is bad karma for you. Be the better person. If you can confront him now, why not get it over with?
Show no mercy but, have composure. You are stronger than he is
I lost mercy if someone purposely wastes my time or deceives me.
Just be sure to appear like you are in control
He'll probably egg you on and try to change your mind but you are strong and won't budge for someone like this
As someone whose been cheated on, and who has cheated.. tell him now u know about it and make him beg for mercy and then dump him on his bday. U need to take ur power back and he needs to not have one more minute available to make a fool out of you
I think intentionally waiting to dump someone on their birthday is a little vindictive, and I personally would rather rise above that. But it's still not as bad as what they did to you, so if it will make you feel better, go for it I guess.
Choose the high road. It won't make you feel any better in the long run.
Lol, I think you chose a nice middle ground. just read the update
Thanks. Now I'm wondering how to block his calls. I have important upcoming exams and he called yesterday even at 1 am. I was upset to be awaken at that hour and by him.
I can't put my phone on silence because I have important calls from my family, friends and other relatives too.
Bruh expose him in front of everyone he knows I mean every single person he know, he's ex, his parents, his female friends, and his bros ( guys take bros seriously so that would be a big deal for him), and anyone else that super important to him