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It's the best day ever !! On every B- Day he'll remember what a scum bag he really.
I'd say yes it's fine, but for the value I hold for myself I'd just dump him now if it were me so I can walk away with a pure heart still in tack (even if broken by trust).
It's kind of harsh but well deserved.
I'd probably want to dump him as soon as possible but it's your choice.
It's harsh? Well, no he already cheated on her, to do so that means he doesn't have feelings for her. So yeah he deserves it.
@CaptainLegal Yeah, that's what I said.
I know but I just wanted to reply lol
Okay π
Be cool but with birthday card with a poem something like this; Once I open my door and let you come in, but now I'm shutting that door and saying who are you. So now my door is shut, I'm telling you now get the hell out of my life and stay out.
Sure, it's fine to do that. But if he's cheating, he's already shown he doesn't care. So I wouldn't expect it to make much of a difference to him either way.
LOL, why wait till his birthday? Dump him next Wednesday on Valentine's Day, MUAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!! Show him that Hell hath no fury like a woman's scorn! >:)
Oh, and I almost forgot - don't tell him directly. Send a Valentine's Day card and a box of chocolates for maximum effect!
Oh, and by the way - don't tell him directly. Tell him in a card. And be sure to mention how well he timed his infidelity. And send him chocolates with a note attached like "These sweets ain't going to be so sweet to you after what you've done!"
"Chocolates"... I'd rather make a special recipe for him ;) let him taste what he is, some shit. ;)
Only way to dump a cheater is to sleep with someone else (preferably one of his closest mates, or enemies) and make sure he finds out from someone else. Cheating is disgusting, so your revenge doesn't require morals.
And send faceless picture
We all agree he's a cheater, but so go so far out of your way to wait a week and pretend just until his birthday to dump him is an exaggeration. I'm not defending him in any way and he probably deserves it but doing it just show how far you are willing to go to hurt someone and it's just not nice. Who know maybe within the week he came to his senses and regrets it. You don't know, neither does anyone knows whatt will happen in a week's time.
Just break up now, don't stick with him till his b day. It won't hurt any more for it to be on his b day. Especially if he is cheating, how much do you think he cares about you?
Justified, yes.
Required action, no.
in my opinion get it done and cut the infection from your life now instead of waiting. I operate under the 5x5 rule: "if it's not going to matter in 5 years, dont spend more than 5 mins fretting about it" - it's your call if you think it's worth waiting around for but i would call him on his shit, dump his ass, and move forward in my life knowing im better off
You should not worry about him. But if I was you, I would ask myself the reasons. Obviously you want to ruin his birthday as some sort of revenge and that might get you some relief. But it doesn't make you any better than him. A wise decision is to put this to an end ASAP and leave on top. You do not need to step down to his level.
What's the point? Trust me living your life out of spite is not a healthy way to live, just get rid of him and move on with your life. Not for him, idgaf about him, do it for yourself.
Hell yeah!! I would embarrased him in front of everybody. Why not? He shouldn't hav done that to you in the first place
Dump him now and don't tell him why, on his Birthday send him a card with the picture of him kissing the other girl and say I hope she gives you a great Birthday
This idea I like.
Why he cheated on you is beyond me , you look gorgeous
I'm not the asker xD
Lmao sorry but you're still. gorgeous
Appreciate it.
Nice!!! Good job!!! Sometime he will never forget next time he goes to cheat on someone
If you want to dump him just do it. Don't go in this revenge mode. This won't make you happy in long run.
You should make the breakup experience as painful (emotionally) and embarrassing as possible for him. Make it memorable to save the next woman the trouble.
If I were you, I wouldn't be able to wait, but dumping him on his birthday sounds perfect
Technically you can dump someone when ever you want.
he was an asshole. Don't see why you can't be rude right back to him.
I'd say dumping someone on their birthday is mean. But since they cheated, I think that's fair.
Its ok to dump him on his birthday if you find out on his birthday, but specifically waiting just makes you a vindictive bitch.
So your saying you wouldnβt want to make it sting π you wouldnβt want to hurt the person who hurt you
Hurting them back doesn't take the pain away from you so i don't see the point in waiting to do what you already know you're going to do.
It's his birthday, not yours, so I don't think you should wait. Just end it and be over with it. If it was yours, then I'd say wait until the day after so you can at least get something out of it. But his birthday? Nah, just end it.
He may be an ass hole but he's got feelings too. If he's a fuck boy on the other hand, they don't have hearts
I think just get it over
Don't wait for his Bday just cast it as fast as you can and move on
Yes, doesn't matter if you dump him before his birthday or the day of, he'll still get birthday sex from the other bitch. Quit wasting your time and leave his ass.
If a relation is not working, then it is a burden. The longer the wait, the bigger the weight. Make it less painful for you and her/him
Oh that's dirty, I like it. >:3 If I was betrayed like that I would want to do something bitchy like that.
Yess! *high fives face* :33
O: Such an honor.
Nah it's MY honor to touch your face :o
If he didn't cheat, he wouldn't be getting dumped. However it's very petty and childish to wait until that day to dump him. It makes you no better than him.
Best idea lol you should give him a cake with The evidence picture on it once he opens the package boom 😂😂😂
lol... cool
Savage... I like it.
π π
I wouldn't do it on his birthday. But if you are going to I would make damn sure I know for sure that he did cheat. I'm curious how you know for sure that he did?
Saw your update and I wanted to say right on. You deserve better.π
As much as it looks like a good idea, do you really want to stump down to a low level break up move like him? While what he did was wrong on many levels, I suggest you dump him now within a few days prior to his birthday.
He cheated. Heβs dirt. Dump him now. Or wait until his birthday, get your revenge, sink to his level and come off as an insecure petty bitch. Youβre better than that. Take my first suggestion.
I donβt think thatβs being an insecure petty bitch. Itβs revenge.
Why get revenge at all? Drop him and move on.
To make him feel the way he made her feel. Not that what sheβs doing is anything like he did though. Why not?
Question to the asker why spare his feelings if he doesn't repesct you or yours? Fuck him you shouldn't take that from anyone unless he has a terminal illness then in that case stick it out.
I think it's funny & really great revenge type shit. A lot of people will say revenge won't make you happy, sometimes it does! I wish I still got revenge on my cheating, ex husband.
EXPOSE THAT MOFO TO HIS MOTHER & ALL HIS FRIENDS WHO THINK HIGHLY OF HIM!!
If you now should sink that low. when you at it invite the one or one's he has cheated with π
Yes... don't forget his " You Are Dumped " card... handmade of course. My daughter would be good at making one !!
If he cheated on you then he is a sleazy jerk and deserves the worst you can do. I can't stand cheaters.
That should be his birthday present. Just act like you have gotten him something amazing and then it's just a breakup. Honestly if I were you I'd get creative with it lol they deserve it!
You don't need to make an occasion out of it, just do it ASAP. You frighten me and probably other guys reading this because it makes you come off as a vengeful bitch
If he cheated on her.
She should be a vengeful bitch haha
I don't mind if she's mad, she has every right to be. But there's no need to turn it into a dramatic performance piece. Just do what needs to be done when it needs to be done and he can suffer then
She didnβt say dramatic
She just wants to ruin his birthday. He cheated on her. I say sheβs fine
Oh that's not dramatic at all? Dump someone on their birthday and make an event out of it, that's not at all dramatic... Yeah he cheated but if she's gonna go way out her way to wait for his birthday, that's just plain sad. Just dump him ASAP, he'll still feel bad during then
Nah birthday is better. Every year heβll remember it as the day he got his ass dumped.
Truth be told, he voluntarily chose to cheat on her. He's not really gonna give a shit at this point π
At this point, dumping him on his birthday is only gonna make OP feel a little bit less sad
If she feels less sad it wasnβt a waste of time then, shrug
It would honestly make her happier to do it on the spot. She'll grieve for him for a while but it'll be over sooner
Someone's vengeful Lol! Just dump him now and get it over with unless you really enjoy planning out his end.
But it would be better if you just dump him now, don't wait
Don't wait until his birthday. Just dump him now. Do u really want to be with this fool until his birthday?
Question is. Are you waiting until his birthday just to be mean about it? Not everyone cares about their birthday so if that is the reason it might not make a difference.
Don't sink to their level, don't be petty. Just leave them now.
Yes but why wait? I understand the need for reteibution so I'm supportive. However, why do you need to spend more time with him if you don't want to already?
Cuz it'll ruin his birthday :) and in my opinion that sounds beautiful
in my opinion guys would try to brush that off as it doesn't kick in until they're lonely a few days or weeks later. I suppose the destruction of his reputation is enough retribution for some
Cheating is worse than destroying someones b day I think
Yes it's okay to dump him on his birthday especially you already know about him.
Lol my ex cheated on me, and today is her birthday.
Of course it is. Cheaters are garbage people who deserve 0 respect whatsoever. Get rid of that scum.
Lmfao I can't believe someone downvoted this π€£
i think you should just do it now and get it over with
I want to make it more of a surprise. lol
well i guess that will work then but make sure you do it with other people around so he gets properly hummiliated
exactly and that's what I've been thinking of doing. I got nothing to be ashamed off. I'm not the lowlife cheater.
i guess revenge can be sweet
Go ahead. A cheater doesn't deserve to have their feelings spared
When we are over considerate about our feelings we are wrong. He is bad but hope you are not. Why to create a lifetime mental scar for this reason? Somewhere it is your fault also for getting cheated as you were blind in his relationship.
Dump him but not on his birthday. You're just looking to stick it to him and it will stick in his head for years to come. Dont Do that. Dumping him is bad enough anyway it's not like you're married but it is still bad
sounds like the plan🙂
just make sure to invite his family and friends.
happy birthday homie😂👌🎈🎉
Ruin his birthday! Make him feel like your feeling right now. Maybe even though him a party and do it publicly
Dump him on his birthday, at his birthday party, over the speaker system. Naming and shaming cheaters is the most appropriate retaliation.
Depends on your perspective on revenge. Personally, I like to think about which outcome I'd regret more. Helps bring clarity.
Honestly go ahead and dump him now, It seem petty to wait, you can be better than that, and better than him.
Why dump him Sunday? Dump him today. Why didn't you dump him yesterday? Or just dumped him when you found out
*he walks in the door* You say "Happy b-day im breaking up with you."
That's what i would do anyway
Damn you got me to laugh π
@Greaver lol
will someone please dump his sorry ass in a lake please?
It will humiliat (?) him and serve to teach him a lesson he (hopefully) won't forget so soon