Is it ok to dump a cheater on his b-day? (Page 3)

Question

His b-day is this Sunday. I found out but rather than doing a direct confrontation and dumping him now, I want to wait till his b-day. He doesn't know I know. I'm still dumping him. I ain't staying with no cheater.

magic30 · Answer

It's the best day ever !! On every B- Day he'll remember what a scum bag he really.

Anonymous · Answer

I'd say yes it's fine, but for the value I hold for myself I'd just dump him now if it were me so I can walk away with a pure heart still in tack (even if broken by trust).

hasrett · Answer

It's kind of harsh but well deserved. I'd probably want to dump him as soon as possible but it's your choice.

dreamstar72 · Answer

Be cool but with birthday card with a poem something like this; Once I open my door and let you come in, but now I'm shutting that door and saying who are you. So now my door is shut, I'm telling you now get the hell out of my life and stay out.

Streamhopper · Answer

Sure, it's fine to do that. But if he's cheating, he's already shown he doesn't care. So I wouldn't expect it to make much of a difference to him either way.

LohrvsData · Answer

LOL, why wait till his birthday? Dump him next Wednesday on Valentine's Day, MUAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!! Show him that Hell hath no fury like a woman's scorn! >:)

daynamariex · Answer

Only way to dump a cheater is to sleep with someone else (preferably one of his closest mates, or enemies) and make sure he finds out from someone else. Cheating is disgusting, so your revenge doesn't require morals.

KhanOfficial · Answer

We all agree he's a cheater, but so go so far out of your way to wait a week and pretend just until his birthday to dump him is an exaggeration. I'm not defending him in any way and he probably deserves it but doing it just show how far you are willing to go to hurt someone and it's just not nice. Who know maybe within the week he came to his senses and regrets it. You don't know, neither does anyone knows whatt will happen in a week's time.

DeterMind · Answer

Just break up now, don't stick with him till his b day. It won't hurt any more for it to be on his b day. Especially if he is cheating, how much do you think he cares about you?

IncoherentRamblings · Answer

Justified, yes.

Required action, no.

in my opinion get it done and cut the infection from your life now instead of waiting. I operate under the 5x5 rule: "if it's not going to matter in 5 years, dont spend more than 5 mins fretting about it" - it's your call if you think it's worth waiting around for but i would call him on his shit, dump his ass, and move forward in my life knowing im better off

mdfck · Answer

You should not worry about him. But if I was you, I would ask myself the reasons. Obviously you want to ruin his birthday as some sort of revenge and that might get you some relief. But it doesn't make you any better than him. A wise decision is to put this to an end ASAP and leave on top. You do not need to step down to his level.

wassux · Answer

What's the point? Trust me living your life out of spite is not a healthy way to live, just get rid of him and move on with your life. Not for him, idgaf about him, do it for yourself.

butterflyflyaway · Answer

Hell yeah!! I would embarrased him in front of everybody. Why not? He shouldn't hav done that to you in the first place

Finchie40 · Answer

Dump him now and don't tell him why, on his Birthday send him a card with the picture of him kissing the other girl and say I hope she gives you a great Birthday

askmegirlagain · Answer

If you want to dump him just do it. Don't go in this revenge mode. This won't make you happy in long run.

Steve37 · Answer

You should make the breakup experience as painful (emotionally) and embarrassing as possible for him. Make it memorable to save the next woman the trouble.

marijajr · Answer

If I were you, I wouldn't be able to wait, but dumping him on his birthday sounds perfect

Jessington · Answer

Technically you can dump someone when ever you want.

howzit2015 · Answer

he was an asshole. Don't see why you can't be rude right back to him.

genericname85 · Answer

I'd say dumping someone on their birthday is mean. But since they cheated, I think that's fair.

cgregg2010 · Answer

Its ok to dump him on his birthday if you find out on his birthday, but specifically waiting just makes you a vindictive bitch.

Anonymous · Answer

It's his birthday, not yours, so I don't think you should wait. Just end it and be over with it. If it was yours, then I'd say wait until the day after so you can at least get something out of it. But his birthday? Nah, just end it.

Garrett4 · Answer

He may be an ass hole but he's got feelings too. If he's a fuck boy on the other hand, they don't have hearts

Red-Blaze · Answer

I think just get it over Don't wait for his Bday just cast it as fast as you can and move on

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, doesn't matter if you dump him before his birthday or the day of, he'll still get birthday sex from the other bitch. Quit wasting your time and leave his ass.

Logic101 · Answer

If a relation is not working, then it is a burden. The longer the wait, the bigger the weight. Make it less painful for you and her/him

TwatTwig · Answer

Oh that's dirty, I like it. >:3 If I was betrayed like that I would want to do something bitchy like that.

Ripper_E · Answer

If he didn't cheat, he wouldn't be getting dumped. However it's very petty and childish to wait until that day to dump him. It makes you no better than him.

BagoFit · Answer

Best idea lol you should give him a cake with The evidence picture on it once he opens the package boom 😂😂😂

PinkMichae · Answer

I wouldn't do it on his birthday. But if you are going to I would make damn sure I know for sure that he did cheat. I'm curious how you know for sure that he did?

landon40 · Answer

As much as it looks like a good idea, do you really want to stump down to a low level break up move like him? While what he did was wrong on many levels, I suggest you dump him now within a few days prior to his birthday.

Blackwolf82 · Answer

He cheated. He’s dirt. Dump him now. Or wait until his birthday, get your revenge, sink to his level and come off as an insecure petty bitch. You’re better than that. Take my first suggestion.

Sorathevilone · Answer

Question to the asker why spare his feelings if he doesn't repesct you or yours? Fuck him you shouldn't take that from anyone unless he has a terminal illness then in that case stick it out.

Smart_Girl92 · Answer

I think it's funny & really great revenge type shit. A lot of people will say revenge won't make you happy, sometimes it does! I wish I still got revenge on my cheating, ex husband.

FatherJack · Answer

Yes... don't forget his " You Are Dumped " card... handmade of course. My daughter would be good at making one !!

drummerguy27 · Answer

If he cheated on you then he is a sleazy jerk and deserves the worst you can do. I can't stand cheaters.

Dannyboiiii · Answer

That should be his birthday present. Just act like you have gotten him something amazing and then it's just a breakup. Honestly if I were you I'd get creative with it lol they deserve it!

sc15022 · Answer

You don't need to make an occasion out of it, just do it ASAP. You frighten me and probably other guys reading this because it makes you come off as a vengeful bitch

KingZeus · Answer

Someone's vengeful Lol! Just dump him now and get it over with unless you really enjoy planning out his end.

jimeniux36 · Answer

But it would be better if you just dump him now, don't wait

Random_Guy99 · Answer

Don't wait until his birthday. Just dump him now. Do u really want to be with this fool until his birthday?

Ghost_Woof · Answer

Question is. Are you waiting until his birthday just to be mean about it? Not everyone cares about their birthday so if that is the reason it might not make a difference.

dragonfly6516 · Answer

Don't sink to their level, don't be petty. Just leave them now.

IMainHanzo · Answer

Yes but why wait? I understand the need for reteibution so I'm supportive. However, why do you need to spend more time with him if you don't want to already?

Kevinnnn · Answer

Cheating is worse than destroying someones b day I think

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yes it's okay to dump him on his birthday especially you already know about him.

IGotFlabs · Answer

Lol my ex cheated on me, and today is her birthday.

ravedave · Answer

Of course it is. Cheaters are garbage people who deserve 0 respect whatsoever. Get rid of that scum.

wankiam · Answer

i think you should just do it now and get it over with

Kylesar · Answer

Go ahead. A cheater doesn't deserve to have their feelings spared

LXC9098 · Answer

When we are over considerate about our feelings we are wrong. He is bad but hope you are not. Why to create a lifetime mental scar for this reason? Somewhere it is your fault also for getting cheated as you were blind in his relationship.

Iron_Man · Answer

Dump him but not on his birthday. You're just looking to stick it to him and it will stick in his head for years to come. Dont Do that. Dumping him is bad enough anyway it's not like you're married but it is still bad

false · Answer

sounds like the plan🙂 just make sure to invite his family and friends. happy birthday homie😂👌🎈🎉

KII-NGH · Answer

Ruin his birthday! Make him feel like your feeling right now. Maybe even though him a party and do it publicly

terrible-pun · Answer

Dump him on his birthday, at his birthday party, over the speaker system. Naming and shaming cheaters is the most appropriate retaliation.

knownsqashed · Answer

Depends on your perspective on revenge. Personally, I like to think about which outcome I'd regret more. Helps bring clarity.

NatePsychologyMajor · Answer

Honestly go ahead and dump him now, It seem petty to wait, you can be better than that, and better than him.

Canadaman99 · Answer

Why dump him Sunday? Dump him today. Why didn't you dump him yesterday? Or just dumped him when you found out

RedRoses18 · Answer

*he walks in the door* You say "Happy b-day im breaking up with you."  That's what i would do anyway

Ventra · Answer

It will humiliat (?) him and serve to teach him a lesson he (hopefully) won't forget so soon

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