Is it ok to dump a cheater on his b-day? (Page 4)

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His b-day is this Sunday. I found out but rather than doing a direct confrontation and dumping him now, I want to wait till his b-day. He doesn't know I know. I'm still dumping him. I ain't staying with no cheater.

amidoingthisright · Answer

What better time? And I love the fact that you're plotting it lol! I think you should get him going, tell him to get ready for his bday present, then laugh and leave him hanging👍

anmari2001 · Answer

Yeahzwhats the point of pretending its okey, if he has cheated he doesn't deserve your patience

DJH86 · Answer

This scenario seems odd. When I meet someone I often ask early on when their bday is. You sound like you just learned it. How long have you been seeing this person. My answer is no.

Naruto_Uzumaki · Answer

You were probably just looking for an excuse to break up with him or else you wouldn't have waited for so long

tychi3400 · Answer

End it right away if you're not willing to get past it. Being petty does nothing and likely will feel like an empty win soon after

apple24 · Answer

It's a lot of work for a jerk. If I were him. I wouldn't care. I would just call about the other girl. Literally your the only one who will be punishing yourself.

Jane26 · Answer

I wouldn't do it on his birthday. Dump him now and let karma get him as karma always comes back around.

Superbdiamond1981 · Answer

A cheater is always a cheater. A forgiver is always a forgiver, if you can't forgive then a word goodbye can do it.

PondyPand · Answer

No. Just dump him and move on! Why is everyone so petty? You'd be a bad as he is by being a b*tch about it.

Veronica101 · Answer

Fuck him and his feelings. Dump him on his birthday. (Sidenote: if he continuously cheats on you, he may not even care though)

Katierose · Answer

If you know he’s having a big party to celebrate his birthday, dump him before it begins so he’s miserable the whole time

Farz_aneh · Answer

Yes do it on his birthday he needs to learn he can't do stuff behind your back and take you as an idiot thinking you don't know anything!

otrinityo · Answer

Dumb him on his b-day if he was willing to cheat on you you shouldn't care

GrimThatFox · Answer

That's the perfect time to dump him. The bastard deserves it.

yeahyeah26 · Answer

Yup and I'd take the present too... give them a birthday to remember

Fap_pa_ap_pap_paper · Answer

Whilst yes it is fine, is it going to make the impact you want maybe not if he didn't care enough about you not to cheat.

Greaver · Answer

Dump his sorry ass 😂 I want to kick his ass because cheaters piss me tf off what did he do anyway

azure81 · Answer

You can dump any one at anytime. If you aren't happy in a relationship your choices are to work on the issue, or end it so it is no longer an issue.

Fauzillic_Bolt · Answer

He deserves a kick to the nuts on his birthday. If I were you, I'd break up now but if you want to hurt him more and wait until Sunday, go ahead.

Juxtapose · Answer

Vindictive huh? I can't blame you but as others have said, if he cheated on you then you probably didn't mean much to him in the first place. It'd be better to publicly shame him.

SamoBomb · Answer

Bit of a dick move unless he's done it multiple times even after you talked to him about it, but also take a look at yourself how often are you guys having sex? Is it often enough, or is it just because a pretty face came along and started to flirt?

Cody01 · Answer

Just do it now. You're wasting your time not doing it.

wise1answersall · Answer

Wouldn't wait, i would drop them the moment i found out

psychosam · Answer

Its absolutely ok. It's the perfect time to do it. Make sure you laugh all the way all the way to the door out too

Arabian911 · Answer

Wtf is B-Day, at first i thought he is going to invade France

jacquesvol · Answer

" I ain't staying with no cheater.' is a double negation.

nevermoregirl7 · Answer

There never is a great time to break up with someone. But why not now?

ooderman · Answer

He obviously didn't care about you when he did it so why should you show compassion for him on his birthday?

meohme71 · Answer

If it gives u some sort of solice eye for an eye a dish best served cold maybe u'll save the next person some trouble

DarrenJr · Answer

Two wrongs don't make a right. Be the better person.

tlgannon · Answer

With that attitude, you're not likely to do any better. Guys who will communicate and respect you don't tend to enjoy petty revenge.

onxue · Answer

I mean it is okay. But you shouldn't act like a child because he did. Makes you just as bad for waiting.

tickitytaco · Answer

I think it's preferred you do it that way. I can't stand unfaithful people. Serves him right. Id even be willing to help you get back at him. Give him a taste of his own medicine. Lol

Gingerbread-Man · Answer

I think waiting until his birthday is rather petty. If you're going to dump him, dump him.

Aquarius90 · Answer

I don’t care... I am just leaving his ass and not looking back

_乃尺OЩ刀_TITI · Answer

It is your right to end your relationship. Do if you want.

1derfulguy · Answer

Lol that is cold. Sociopath shit. But fitting, I guess.

Flower-petal · Answer

If you know for a fact he's been cheating, any day is fine to dump him.

NiGHTSintoMemes · Answer

Dump the fucker. Most people over the age of 12 don't give a shit about their birthday. "Woo, I successfully made it another 365 days without offing myself".

CheekyPaws · Answer

If he's a cheater, feel free to do it at anytime you want regardless of where he's at in his life, I bet he didn't take your feelings into consideration when he cheated on you.

motownplayer2000 · Answer

Yeah it's completely fine. He fucked up... he deserves what he gets

Anonymous · Answer

Don't fall to his level, just break up with him now. Why do people always seek revenge? It's stupid.

heartbrained · Answer

It anyways doesn't make difference to him that you dump him on which day. Because he is already cheating on you!!  Honestly you don't matter to him.

Alfanso · Answer

Ya not. If he didn't care about your feelings why should you care about his.

skytatoe · Answer

Weeeell you could. Id recommend you do it as soon as you can though.

love_conquers_lust · Answer

Do it now. Don't wait. Be sure. No need to be vindictive.

9th_lyfe · Answer

You have mental health problems if that's what makes you happy.

Kawabanga1 · Answer

sounds like a plan , I have to warn you though if you do ruin his birthday and embarass him infront of people he will want revenge, you dont want to make an enemy like that when you dont have to , better to not do it , but its your life.

Francheeseco · Answer

Why wait, that's just petty and you're steeping to his level by doing it on his birthday.

chadi3269 · Answer

Even if u got hurt. Dont try to hurt him more. Just brake up with him. Be a better person than him

Unesjomajo · Answer

YESSSSSSSSS! DUMP THAT ASSHOLE!  And stay strong, dont let him fool you with his words!

buttercupupup · Answer

Definitely. It's an appropriate level of vengeful without veering into Crazytown.

madnesso · Answer

waiting for his birthday is super cruel in my opinion , Ofc he has done a terrible thing and he doesn't deserve you but you don't have to be like him

Tushnim · Answer

Don't stop to see how he reacts though. Not worth it.

BrittBratt2416 · Answer

why wait until his birthday? Just break up with the jerk as soon as you can.

HitGirl_4680 · Answer

Leave a cheaters ass always! Waste of time and space! So many more fish in the sea 🐠🐟

leanwolf35 · Answer

If you know he cheated on you don't wait break up with him now

katy97 · Answer

Little harsh, but his fault for cheating, make him pay

Tron5678 · Answer

Dump him before his bday. He cheated so whether you dump him on his bday or not won't matter much to him and it will only make you look like a fool.

Guialdereti · Answer

I voted "yes", but I wouldn't wait for his birthday to dump him.

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