There was one guy that became my best friend in a short amount of time always making me laugh,but he really wanted to date me. I kept saying no because he was such a good friend and I said I wasn't attracted to him. And honestly I was attracted, but all my friends thought he was stupid and pathetic (for openly telling everyone he wanted to date me and only me) and he wasn't cute but what I saw in him was so much love and he could make me laugh and to me he was adorable. Point is, so I lied to myself and antagonized over dating him and so on and so forth until about half a year later when he told me that he was going to start talking to another girl and I got mad. I told him he couldn't do that because he is my Name and I don't want to share him. He told me that I didn't have any claim on him, its not like we were dating. So suddenly I was begging him to date me and begging him to not talk to her. Then he did date me and we fell in love and had this drama filled high school romance and then broke up.
So point is. Yes, I have changed my mind once I pulled my head out of my friend's asses and decided that I didn't care what they thought of him, he made me happy AS WELL AS him not being so there for me all the time. Him pulling away allowed me to see how much I would miss if he was gone and the threat of him leaving was too much.
Also, yes I recognize this makes me sound like a bitch (I don't want him until someone else does) and it makes me sound stupid (I didn't like him because my friends told me not to) But it was high school and I was a stupid bitch so it is okay.
yes. back in high school, Ryan looked so goofy BACK THEN. But when I saw him again in college, damn I almost didn't recognize him. he became hot. we went out for a bit but it didn't really work.
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This one guy asked me out for homecoming in my freshman year in college. I've never seen him before and he came out of nothing. I was so surprised that I said know. I had only been there for a few weeks and hadn't tought of dating yet. I was kinda cute tho, he seemed really nervous but like a nice guy.I really regret not going out wth him tho I never told him. I probably should someday
I saw him around more often since then, and he seems kinda quiet but nice. I think he's majoring in sth engineering, because every time I see him he's coming out of the engineering building. I never talked to him again, and I do have a boyfriend now
I just graduated from high school and there was this guy who asked me out so many times our FFA advisor kept tally marks on her board. I turned him down because I felt he was too emotional and just wanted to have sex with me. We were good friends and had a lot of fun together until he ended up ditching all of his friends and dating girls who are considered "Easy". I feel that my original reasons for saying no were proven right but I also feel that he would have probably be the best guy for me in highschool. It's hard to explain. I haven't talked to him since graduation.
Yesssssssss.
I moved here a year and a half ago, in my second week this sweet boy came up to me, told me that he liked me and thought I was sweet and pretty, and asked me out. He seemed really sweet but I didn't really know him so I told him that its just that I barely know you and I just moved here and everything but id like to get to know you and maybe just be friends. Today he's my best friendand we tell each other everything and do stuff together, and I kinda regret saying no. Cause now that I know him I do kinda like him and think he's sweet:) but I feel like its sorta too late
Well I often don't go out with guys and its not necessarily I am not attracted to them. I don't know what your situation s but sometimes people just don't want a relationship , which is good for you in the sense they could change their mind when things are more conducive to a relationship. i.e.
-It literally is them -not you.
Yes, when I reject a guy but then other girls find him attractive, like I see him going out with a hot girl. Now I'm all jealous because he's supposed to love only me... and what does that hot chick see in him anyway?... you know he IS kind of cool, I think I'll go flirt with him and make him like me again... oh now he's asking me out again and I just remembered how uncool he is.
I know this is cruel but I'm being honest and this is how my psyche works.
Yes, really I think I was just lonely but also I would talk to him a lot and actually found out we have a lot of thing in common and like all the same things and a year later I had my first child with him
My best (guy) friend asked me out, but I said no because I didn't see him that way and I didn't want to lose him as a friend.
I changed my mind a few months later when he kissed me and it felt perfect :p
It can happen. There was a guy I rejected because I thought we'd never work, wasn't my type etc. He continued to talk to me and we became friends. After a while I realized that even though he wasn't what I thought I wanted, he ended up being what I wanted. I guess getting to know him helped.
yes, it happened to me, the reason I changed my mind it was because he became a christian, and no, I didn't go out with him anyways.
honestly yesss , and the thing that changed my mind is that he asked me out , but then it looked like he moved on too fast , almost like he didn't care which made me like him for some reason heh
usually not. the only reason why I would change my mind is if I was really lonely and wanted any guy
yes...totally and still kinda do, but I think it was for the best
yes :) and he was 1 of the nicest men I ever met love grows
I said no because I was scared that I'd lose him. Ever since then I have hoped he would ask me out again. Yes I know this sounds complicated.
Yeah,and still regret it:(
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