Where does the limit go when it comes to being possessive?

Question

What is too much?

lomimore · Accepted Answer

None! Can't deal with possessivness at all, sometimes showing some jealousy is healthy it somehow shows you love them since if you didn't you'd have no interest on if she is seeing other people, where i go out is if u are starting to tell me things where not to go who not see, family and friends (both sexes) where u try to manipulate me at all in what to do, i mean anything at all

Some_Goof · Accepted Answer

I'm cool with possessiveness as long as he's not making me rot in a room... maybe.  I don't know, I've never been in a relationship.

Snowomann · Accepted Answer

When he poked his nose into my attire

Dchrls78104 · Accepted Answer

When she's got the guy on lockdown, raiding his wallet, going through his phone, screening his friends and family and the time he spends with them, trying to manipulate him into making her everything in his life with room for no one else and no personal space.

Aguysopinion4799 · Accepted Answer

When you're so possessive that you forget you are possessive and think you are simply being protective of your belongings ;)

aialex · Answer

When he made me feel like I'm a drug dealer going down instead of girlfriend hanging out with her friends.

Ki_Wavy · Answer

when you have to second guess what you're wearing or who you're hanging out with.

averyj96 · Answer

In my opinion it's okay to be a little possessive and jealous. A little jealousy could be cute. But to the point of not letting your partner talk to friends of the opposite gender or go out with friends is not okay.

CarlosSantana · Answer

I am not possessive as long as she is in her locked padded room.

mooky06 · Answer

Probably when he doesn’t let you see your parents 😐

Arcenciel · Answer

It's too much if your boyfriend called you more than 3 times when he knows that you're hanging out with your friends

yodiwont · Answer

Its hot when a girl gets jealous or possessive cuz she's asking for you to validate her sexiness and we all know how to do that

Anonymous · Answer

When they don't let you talk to certain people. Or when they manipulate you into thinking that someone is bad and you should stay away. Guys like this are disgusting pieces of shxt pigs

Jokeless_Jake · Answer

When she freaks out anytime you don't spend one night with her because you planned that night with friends in advance.

Shiraa · Answer

When he's trying to make decisions for me and prohibits me from doing stuff

mel1695 · Answer

When I am being told who I can hang out with and who I can’t. Or being told what to wear. That is too much.

AM-205 · Answer

When You enter the body of another. (I get it surprisingly often, mostly at night, and I communicate with my invader) WHO IS THIS WONDERFUL, CUTE NAUGHTY GIRL?

Prankster13 · Answer

When she doesn't let me talk to other girls. When I don't let her talk to other guys.

Anonymous · Answer

I was gonna give a legit answer but the pic made me cringe :(

JohnFrost · Answer

When you forces someone in a position where there not comfortable. For me that's really early. It's nice to be wanted but I'm my own person and will make my own decisions.

torwulf · Answer

Once you're possessive at all. A relationship is a free will agreement to be exclusive to eachother. Removing that free will is toxic.

alice55 · Answer

When he lock me in my room all days I guess

2opaz · Answer

When she ties me up in the basement and threatens to cut my dick off if i leave the house

Smegskull · Answer

I'm not at all possessive and I find partners and I just drift appart over time so I think being a bit possessive is needed in a relationship.

name_is_eric · Answer

When one tries to control the other one's schedule. When and where he can go and with who.

NovissimumVirorum · Answer

Chaining you in my basement,... or your older sister

jlaird61832 · Answer

When you can't even stay at your own house without an argument or complete melt down when you don't stay one night..

bluedreamzzz · Answer

I love dominance and possessiveness but of course it’s possible to cross the line... when they won’t let you see friends or family is way too much.

Iambalanaveen · Answer

Possessive is most dangerous in thing it will kills the relationship very fastly. It's make limit too much

flaviadelatorre · Answer

when he won’t let you go to parties, friend gatherings etc. AND won't let you talk to other guys :/

Moldy · Answer

Checking phones regularly and sharing accounts on things is too much.

imsonny12 · Answer

You shouldn't hold any possesion over your significant other, they are their own person.

Lieseeker · Answer

Any is too much. Drop em' immediately. Don't worry. Because u were righteous..."Who's at the door?"

Fhamator · Answer

You decide on a safe word thats it.

Kureghooghoo · Answer

It depends on you and how much you can relinquish.

stuntbrain · Answer

My free will is not negotiable

britpop · Answer

When it's overbearing

egykimo · Answer

Ass spanking till prostating

harry143143 · Answer

You can't even imagine that 😎🙈😎

Slim57 · Answer

when you dont have a say so on your freedom

FýrdracaDócincel · Answer

Depends on the girl.

Revolver_ · Answer

Somewhere

Dorian_Rodriguez · Answer

Bdsm

Darkboy21 · Answer

Too strong

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