But if you had a boyfriend/girlfriend change your child's diaper if they were not the biological/adopted parent? Or should only the biological parent do this?


omg what the heck!!! that is so stupid, like it's a baby who cares? its not like its even old enough to feel awkward in front of someone, and I dont think that there's anyone whos only ever been changed by their parents, there's always babysitters or relatives or someone who hleps out occassionally, you dont have to be its parent
I get why he may be defensive, it is statistically shown that more molestation happens in step parent homes, but he also has to be reasonable. He chose to have a baby with this woman, he should have some trust that she wouldn't allow that to happen. He could voice his concerns without getting angry.
I don't see a problem with it. If you had a baby and left it with a babysitter to go out on a date night would you expect the babysitter to not change the baby's diaper while you were out since they are not the biological parents.
Who the fuck cares! About who changes diaper.. The baby needs cleaning! Whoever is free and willing to do it first should go for it..
You are worried about the right to change diaper and I am worried about the baby..
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LOL, yes, of Course. What do you think happens when the child is in a child care facility?
Im just 16 and i don't have babies yet 👶🍼 But like if i had a baby than my awnser to this question is of course!! She better be helping me haha, like if im dating this woman & can't trust her with my baby? Than i wouldn't be with someone like that in the first place 😂 If my ex had a problem with that, we could sit down all 3 as adults and talk but if im together with someone i love and share my life with finally no matter what my ex thinks im doing what is best for my relationship.
It's okay to take care of a baby when needed and give a helping hand, whoever happens to be there. I mean I wouldn't even mind a baby getting breastfed by another mother if the biological one is not available for a time.
Geez, who cares if someone else changes your kid's diaper? Most people have to pay someone to do that.
whjy on earth wouldn't you allow someone who is acting in a role of responsibility to change a childs diaper?
That's so weird that it would be a problem, like, I know there are some real monsters out there but that sounds like real trust issues.
If theyre someone you trust and want to be with long term.
As you saw Ambers boyfriend at the time did not last a minute lol.
I'd be okay with my partner doing it even if he wasn't the biological father.
If you have reservations about having a boy/girlfriend changing a baby, especially you baby... You should not be with them. <3
I think it depends if for some reason mother the father couldn't do it then yes I could see the boyfriend or girlfriend doing it otherwise if 1 of them is available and able to do it then they should do it
I have changed diapers all the time on kids that are not related to me, and never once did anything sexual related.
Yeah I think that's fine.
Why wouldn't you let them?
It's okay, it's just changing diapers
Yeah definitely why not
Yes I would
Of course
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