I was watching some YouTube clips of Teen Mom and I saw one where Gary was angry with Amber for allowing her then boyfriend to change their daughter's diaper. Amber's boyfriend is not her daughter's father, Gary is, and she was I believe a baby, not even a year old. But he tried to take his daughter (Leah) from Amber. I didn't see what happened though because the clip cut out.
But if you had a boyfriend/girlfriend change your child's diaper if they were not the biological/adopted parent? Or should only the biological parent do this?
Only the biological parent should change their child's diaper/clothes.
It's okay for a boyfriend/girlfriend to change the child's diapers/clothes.
It's only okay for a boyfriend/girlfriend to change the child's diaper/clothes if the biological parent is there to witness it.
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By the way, I think Gary didn't like the idea of a grown man being near his child's private areas with how prevalent molestation has become. I don't think it was the actual diaper changing but when you factor in the entire process like wiping the private area, I think that's where his concern was.
Would you let your boyfriend/girlfriend change your babies diaper if they were not the biological parent?
omg what the heck!!! that is so stupid, like it's a baby who cares? its not like its even old enough to feel awkward in front of someone, and I dont think that there's anyone whos only ever been changed by their parents, there's always babysitters or relatives or someone who hleps out occassionally, you dont have to be its parent
I get why he may be defensive, it is statistically shown that more molestation happens in step parent homes, but he also has to be reasonable. He chose to have a baby with this woman, he should have some trust that she wouldn't allow that to happen. He could voice his concerns without getting angry.
I don't see a problem with it. If you had a baby and left it with a babysitter to go out on a date night would you expect the babysitter to not change the baby's diaper while you were out since they are not the biological parents.
Who the fuck cares! About who changes diaper.. The baby needs cleaning! Whoever is free and willing to do it first should go for it.. You are worried about the right to change diaper and I am worried about the baby..
Im just 16 and i don't have babies yet 👶🍼 But like if i had a baby than my awnser to this question is of course!! She better be helping me haha, like if im dating this woman & can't trust her with my baby? Than i wouldn't be with someone like that in the first place 😂 If my ex had a problem with that, we could sit down all 3 as adults and talk but if im together with someone i love and share my life with finally no matter what my ex thinks im doing what is best for my relationship.
It's okay to take care of a baby when needed and give a helping hand, whoever happens to be there. I mean I wouldn't even mind a baby getting breastfed by another mother if the biological one is not available for a time.
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