Should I give my boyfriend a key to my place? (Page 3)

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I think if he has his own place he should give you a key to his place and you can do it that way.

[sunsetwalker]

No its just not a good idea yet. Till you move in together. Keep safe.

[Pizza_lover159]

If you are not moving in together then dont do it and done. You need some privacy

[Jboogey]

Do you girl. You know what is going to benefit your relationship...

[virendra1234]

Don't give it to him until u move together.
It might become complicated understanding.
I don't see necessity for key if he only come when u r around

[dwiltz]

if you have to ask on here, probably not ready for this step

[DiverDak]

Nah he might get crazy later. I wouldn't unless you guys are moving in, it'll get confusing and might cause more problems

[jimmy2]

Well it's good when you are love. When you fight not so good. What keeps him from making a copy. Can you change your locks easy. I just be careful.

[dennis150]

No. You must trust your boyfriend to give him a key to your place.

[Asker]

Is that a yes I should give him a key or no I should not give him a key?

[alwayscurious247]

I wouldn't give him a key to your place unless he moves in.

[Asker]

Why not?

[alwayscurious247]

How long have you been together with him?

[qwertykeyboardirldub]

The fact your making life decisions based on ppls opinions kinda syas a lot

[Pyrofox]

Do what your comfortable with.

[Salmon4056]

If you fully trust him and feel safe around him

[WWolf260]

That's totally up to you what's your heart telling it will give you answer you seek

[itslily78]

yes if you trust him. I would talk to him about it and see if you're on the same page

[SusanRoseFlower1990]

And what happens if you guys break up or get into a fight?

The only man ill let have a key to my house is my husband.

[Asker]

Take keys back and/or change the locks. It's not that deep

[SusanRoseFlower1990]

Are u getting keys to his place too?

[Asker]

If I wanted them. He's already given me the keys to his car. This isn't about "i do x for you if you do y in return" though. That's not how relationships and love should work in my opinion.

[SusanRoseFlower1990]

But he probably won't give them to u because he wants his space and privacy

[philly509]

Yes it would be easy on you and him but if you guys break up or something like that

[Boginya]

Don't give him the key. He should give you the key instead

[JosyJosy]

Only if he's a normal human being.

[jellyroo]

How long is "a while"?