In the picture it is me, I’ll be 21 in October and never had boyfriend. Guys I met or approached didn’t like me, married, had girlfriend, got out of. serious relationship, don’t want girlfriend, busy with guy friends and job. I’m not crazy party girl, that’s not me. I want my boyfriend to love me date me and enjoy life together. I don't know what a relationship is like but I’m ready & Ik it’s not easy but I’m ready. Guys always ask out my mom but never to me. I’m dying my hair brown in two weeks as I’m bored with blonde. I just spend time studying business online, work, and planning to open up my small online clothing store soon. Even wen I meet guys no one shows interest or asks me out or want me in their life. I’m just unhappy stressed yelling , cuz they all treat me bad for no reason when I’m sweet nice caring loving. I’m tired. I’m ready it’s my time to have someone special. I don’t want to get married now but want good 1st boyfriend.
I would say, don't rush trying to get into a relationship, this could attract unwanted attention. I think you need to "get out there more", get more involved wherever you live, whether it's a local program or a volunteer job, just get out there. Show yourself as a person who is approachable and kindhearted, as those will be key in helping you get a keeper guy. Don't feel sad, it's not that "you're not good enough", it's "are you doing the right things?". You seem interesting, and don't be discouraged about the fact that nobody has been asking you out, perhaps they're to nervous! Maybe they don't think they're worthy of you yet!
How many guys have you rejected who have approached you? Their has to be a reason why you can't get a relationship (though your only 21 its not like that is all that unusual, it would be different if you where nearing 30), what is your attitude, how do you talk to them, what do you say or do or act like when you are approached, are you shy, do you tend to keep to yourself etc?
that's not a very flattering picture, tbh. you're veins and neck muscles are bulging, and the lighting makes it look like you're wearing a wig and is giving you a slightly masculine facial expression.
But that said, it's just a picture. I don't know what you really look like.
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Just saw u don’t like me u don’t need to write a whole paragraph
I wasn't talking about you, just the picture. You need a new photographer. Lighting is supposed to be their bread and butter, and yours dropped that ball like murder charges against a white cop.
I think you've asked this question before haven't you?
What jumps out at me in this pic is that you really look unhappy, and if that's anything how you look in person, guys will be discouraged from approaching you- women who appear friendly get approached.
I remember. You're the girl who I smiled at and you ignored me. So now you're complaining that guys don't like you! You're too sexy, I mean guys must all turn their heads when you walk by, I just find it hard to believe no one approaches you.
I guess you're just not meeting the right people, I never had a partner either, but I would date you and I know plenty other would too. You're very pretty hun.
@hihihiihiiihi I’m not being mean I’m just being honest. I don’t understand why she can’t gwt a man. She’s not ugly at all. I just really thought she might have been a tranny.
I don’t have a boyfriend , guys I meet r jerks to me n I’m always miserable , no one treats me right , no one has asked to be my girlfriend or wen I talk to a guy they mention their girlfriend or say they got out of serious relationship n I feel like shit like no one wants me in their life
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