When I'm dating someone I usually see her without makeup within the first month.
Waiting 1 year makes me think you never trusted each other, or at least you never trusted him.
If this is going to break the relationship depends entirely on your personality: is he that shallow? Are you so insecure you will never trust him?
I prefer natural, I like the beauty of small details or flaws.
Still loving the same after discovering a flaw in the partner body. Yeah, love is not a statue, it doesn't shatter if something small changes, love should only die because of betrayal
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I would rather see women in general stop with all the makeup, eyebrow plucking, pubic hair removal, extravagant hair styles, excessive weight loss, etc.
I understand still wanting to feel feminine here and there and doing girl things such as shaving legs or putting on some highlights for special occasions. But a down to earth woman as her natural self is beautiful and amazingly feminine.
I Really dislike modern pop fashion and all the fads out there that says she has to "fix things" in order to be beautiful.
You may feel self conscious, but this is your boyfriend. You should be open with your partner, you should know and love each other for the real person they are. He just wants you to take the mask off, to see the real you, the natural person, the person with physical and internal flaws, someone who isn't perfect, yet still somebody with quirks and an amazing personality. Also, hiding your true face from him may make him feel unhappy, since it's like you aren't trusting of him, that you think he may think of you differently.
🙄🙄🙄 this is why I don’t sell lies with makeup.. my skin sucks too!. Why would I sell perfect skin to a guy?
Try this. GRADUALLY wear less makeup over time. By the time you are wearing none it won’t be such a shock.
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Not only would I expect to see you without makeup, I would expect that to happen a lot sooner than 1.5 years into a relationship. One of the things we all look forward to is seeing all the flaws, all the baggage and frankly what you act like on your worst day. Everyone is human and no one is perfect. We date as a rehearsal for marriage (marriage is a lifetime) so if we see the absolute worst version of who you are and it doesn't phase us, it just builds trust and confidence the relationship with last. If you keep putting on makeup and covering up personality flaws and cannot be 100% raw and honest with us, then it will be super hard to prepare for a successful marriage. The simple truth is when you love someone you love all of them, flaws and imperfections.
Most guys don't find makeup attractive, you know? Of course it makes you look flawless and perfect, but that's not attractive when you're in love, your little flaws and differences are what make you diffrent from others, it's the real you, the irreplaceable individual, it's so much better to see the real you than a fake you, after all, if someone really loves you they love you for who you really are, not for who else you can be. Why do you think guys love to stare at their girlfriend after waking up in the morning? Because she's her true self, no changes, nothing fake, just her natural, real self, and there's nothing more beautiful than that
I mean, I've never met a guy who's told me to put makeup on, or said I'd look better with it. Only ever had girls tell me that.
I dont ever wear the stuff, when one guy asked me to come over with red lipstick on (a big turn on for him rather than a suggestion i should start wearing makeup) i legit had to look up a tutorial after going out and buying a tube. By the way there are no lipstick tutorials that dont require you to own a lip brush. It's ridiculous.
I wouldn't ever be with someone who would break a relationship over a few acne scarsI personally don't like a ton of make-up to begin with. If I was in a relationship for 1.5 years and didn't know what my girlfriend looked like without face paint on it'd make me uneasy to say the least. I'd have asked to see you without make-up (or at least little enough make-up that I wouldn't consciously notice it) by end of the first month if I hadn't seen you without it already. If a woman goes around with enough make-up that she looks considerably different than she naturally would I think that counts as lying about her appearance. I get that you're self conscious so adding enough to hide your scars is understandable, but after a while it becomes a trust issue.
Have you never had a bare face infront of him at all? Not even in the morning? Cause that would be make or break. It questions how genuine you think his feelings are for you. Everyone has flaws, and I imagine most people have insecurities about their face/skin. But other people, especially those that love you, don't care about that. When you look in the mirror, you pick out flaws, when you look at others, you pick out qualities. Just don't worry about it. He wouldn't suggest you not wear make up around him if he was bothered by natural skin.
Wow... Once. I had a girlfriend that was waking before me just to put makeup and then she was comming back to bed. This happened after 3 months of dating when we started to spend days and nights together in bed. I woked up, looked at her and asked her what she is doing? And she said nothing. And I asked her about why she did put make up on, and she said to be pretty for me. I asked her if from now one is possible for her not to do that. I get it when we go out and so on, but in the morning I want to se her as herself. She complained and was insecure. But in the end she went back in bathroom and took the make up off and returned to bed.
What girls sometimes do not understand is that some guys love them not because how good they are with makeup but for how they look without it. Makeup is always just a cherry on top to make things interesting, but for morning sex and cuddling... No makeup pls.I am a girl and I never wear makeup. My skin isn’t perfect at all either. I get breakouts as well but I still get a lot of guys pursuing me. So girl, nothing to worry about. Just be yourself. You’ll feel way better and the relationship can only get stronger as you know each other bettee and there is a trust. If it pushes him away then you were dating a kid. Anyways I highly believe every guy will accept you and think you are even prettier without it. Don’t be afraid of being yourself, love yourself.
You've been together for 1,5 years and he hasn't seen you without makeup? 😳 How is that even possible? I look like shit without makeup and prefer to always wear makeup, but my boyfriend saw me without makeup even before we started dating.
If you haven't heard yet, men hate makeup and would always prefer women without makeup.I think of this as an a similar circumstances to women wanting men to be comfortable enough to open up and cry. She still wants him to be a strong man, while also being comfortable enough to open up to her with important shit. A guy wants you to be comfortable enough to go without, while also regularly putting in effort into your appearance.
Doesn't want to to feel like you NEED it.I'm sure he won't mind the flaws as much as you think.
You can reduce makeup gradually one thing at a time. Try using concealer on spots only or bb cream and make it even lighter with lotion. It will give minimum coverage until you are ready to take it off completely.
Ps Guys don't notice as much as you think specially when it comes to their partner. I once came home after hair color and cut 20 cm off with new bangs spending 5 hours at the salon and he was like mmm what did you do? lolOMG every single girl I dated so far had the same problem with showing herself without makeup. 1. Makeup doesn't make that much difference anyway 2. If a guy likes a girl, it won't really matter if she has a couple pimples 3. Guys usually have more skin problems on their face, and we're quite aware of that so we don't expect girls to look flawless. 4. If he asks you, he probably already expects to see a significant difference. He expects you to have those imperfections when you take makeup off.
So yeah, it's fine. If he likes you already it won't make a difference in how attracted he is to you. But he will be happier cause you were open to himPeople said the same thing to my ex when she got braces, that she didn't need to impress anybody because she had me. But that's the wrong thinking, she got braces because she wanted straight teeth for herself. Make up is the same way. You want to look presentable and you know the best way to do it. Let's hope we are never comfortable lest the day comes when we stop trying
Hun makeup is great but it can't be the base of your confidence. Ik it's scary but try going without makeup more, not only will your skin clear up but you will become more confident in yourself. Although I do wonder how it's his first time seeing you without makeup for over a year. Like do you not sleep over or shower at his place ever?
I can't forget this one guy who shared about having this girl for quite some time and he said he liked the girl a lot... but then the first time they woke up next to each other in the morning, i remember him saying “she looks so ugly i literally ran and almost barfed”...
So, he clearly didn't have true feelings for the girl. I believe if the guy truly loves who, he’ll love you for who you are... and he will be the one to love your flaws and teach you to do so too.I worked with a girl for about 5 years... thought she was real cute... Saw her for the first time without makeup because she was in a hurry one day...
media1.tenor.com/.../tenor.gif?itemid=5306812I don't know why women worry about this so much. Your relationship will be fine, definitely by a year and half probably even after 6 months. It all depends on when you first slept together. Girls think we don't know, but we realize that you didn't wake up looking that flawless
I think it's safe to say after a year and a half that your boyfriend cares more about you than just the way you look. So no, I don't think you wearing less or no makeup at all around your boyfriend is going to have any sort of negative effect on your relationship.
If I'm going, to be honest, I think a little makeup goes a long way. But I would never dump someone over something silly like an acne scar I had never seen before.
I think you're safe, little mama.Honestly I got a bit lucky because my girlfriend has amazing skin apart from the once in a while pimple and such
But in my opinion I don't think how you look without makeup should matter if you're really into that person
Unless you go into the relationship purely based on looks it shouldn't be a big deal
And I would hope that dating for one a half years would mean that he loves you for more than just your looksLol my boyfriend has never seen me in makeup. I haven't worn makeup since i quit ballet at age 8. So when i finally wear some on wedding day, it’ll surprise us both
If my girlfriend were so insecure she couldn't even go without makeup around me after 1.5 years together... I would be moving on. Do you wear makeup to bed every night?
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