How do you feel about your own sexuality? Is it something you feel comfortable expressing to others, or do you have any particular negative ideas about it?
As someone that can be aloof, sexually cold, trapped inside my head, undemonstrative, at least in the past, and I'm not saying this applies to you. But one theory that I could come up with, is, it's all well and good expecting people to come up to you and to whisk you off your feet, what have you,
But if I, as an interested guy, came up to a woman, and found her closed up, insecure, undemonstrative, then I'd just perceive that as rejection. It's not easy for a guy to approach, when he does, he needs signals and indications that there is mutual interest. What I'm trying to say is, even if you expect the guy to take an active role (which is reasonable), you still need to have the courage to give some of yourself in the whole dynamics of dating and courting. If you won't open up, well, no guy can force you to.
But of course, I just make assumptions. I can't know what is going on without properly getting to know you.
Dating is not easy anyway. Especially not for discerning and romantic people.
Sometimes one can overthink things. To go with the flow, to be physical, to luxuriate in the physical. This can be another strategy.
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They could be intimidated or if you want an actual relationship and they dont they just want friends with benefits they may overlook you. It's not a reflection of how you look but how you carry yourself and if your a strong independent person that makes it harder too
You probably act differently around people you’re attracted to. Get out of your head and treat sexy people just like anyone.
Stop giving a shit how people see you. You just gotta think & know that you are the shit and that you are bomb af.
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Check your Instagram. I guarantee there's a bunch of guys in your DMS wanting to get in your pants, just like every other girl in the planet. Once you see that you'll feel better. But don't let it go to your head either, because a lot of women tend to feel so entitled and superior when they see all those DMS. DON'T LET IT GO TO YOUR HEAD.
Interest knows no bounda8or age. When there is a connection you'll know you can't force it no matter what because it won't work at least not the way it was intended.
Well you are attractive , maybe you need more time or something like that , or maybe you are reflecting something that would make guys stay away from you
Younger guys are just not sure what they want either. You have time to have fun and continue look for the right SO. Explore and if you are not sure about your sexuality then test those avenues also. Relax and live
Its hard to give advice on how little we know about you.
So im just gonna go with that: Dress and behave like people from your own generationYou're not alone, I never have either, it always seems to be one sided. At least you're still young! lol
You are only 20 - Plenty of time - Your age appropriate prince will come :)
Same here.. I too have never felt experienced mutual attraction.
Well every girl has different preference, I dont know What is your age range for a guy? Turn off things etc.
Mental issues or asexuality.
nope l wish
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