Could you be a sister wife or have a open marriage?

[Wowgirl10q]

#You though 1 of me irritated you...

[MlleCake]

I have an open marriage. My husband prefers to have me as his only partner. I have three other long term partners.

There are times when I wish we could all live together. But, that's impractical.

[bklynbadboy1]

Wow so how does that work you decide who you want to be with each night

[Coolgirl235]

You lit af.

[MlleCake]

@Coolgirl235 No. I just started getting lit about a half hour ago. I'll be lit AF in about two hours.

I was going to try to explain how it all works in my life, but honestly, it's growing and changing all the time. I usually spend my time at home, by myself though. I don't live with any of them. You'd think it would be a lot to juggle, but it's actually worked really well. I have been in these relationships for 19 years, 8 years, 3 years and 6 mos, respectively.

[Wowgirl10q]

@MlleCake
Yayyyyy good for you👍

[bklynbadboy1]

@MlleCake well can you give me a brief breakdown of how it works I mean it's really interesting do you get to sleep with other people or is it just him and if you do get to sleep with other people how does it work do you pick a day where you're going to be with a certain person or is it something that you just kind of let it happen I'm really curious. I've never been in a relationship like that nor do I think I can being one but it's really interesting to hear about

[QueenofCups]

No!!!

[Wowgirl10q]

Damn

[QueenofCups]

Sorry. I don't share unless I have to, and even then only temporarily.

[Wowgirl10q]

you not your guy lol
I don't want him
That's gross and wrong lol

[QueenofCups]

Ohhhhh ok

In that case, bring it on babe lol

[Wowgirl10q]

Gosh dude I'd never cheat on you
No faith
Ok we can hug it out lol

[QueenofCups]

Hugs :-) ♥

[Wowgirl10q]

Love hugs

[Red_Arrow]

In what case would you feel that you have to?

[QueenofCups]

@Red_Arrow ignore that. Half asleep when I wrote that answer.

[Red_Arrow]

Darn, And here I was thinking I had a shot at you. lmao

[QueenofCups]

@Red_Arrow :-) red arrow, black shield?

[TonyMetal86]

No open marriages, marriage is marriage... getting married and staying together to the end

[TonyMetal86]

Thanks for the mho

[ThePundertaker]

Sister wife?

[Wowgirl10q]

Utah

[Wowgirl10q]

Yes sister wives multiple wives

[Wowgirl10q]

Wife's or wives?
I don't know

[ThePundertaker]

Wives
Also what are they?

[ThePundertaker]

Thank you

[PinkChampagne]

These open relationships and open marriages are just a way to mask your cheating on the one you love... But if you agree to have open marriage, actually do you love eachother? I don't think so... I am highly against these open things and can't accept it

[StingRayxoxo]

I could never. I’m too selfish. I want to give everything to one man and for him to give me everything.
No sharesies!!

[Logorithim]

No way. One wife or girlfriend is plenty.

[WalterRadio]

I would probably have a two or three wives if it were legal and socially acceptable.

In the US, there is no longer any logical reason to prevent polygamy. If the government cannot stop same sex marriage, which had never had any tradition in civilization, it sure can't stop polygamy which was common among nobles until a Pope outlawed it in the west, and was also common among the rich in Asia and still is in Africa.

[Curmudgeon]

"The Suicide Bachelors of Polygamous Islam":
land-of-fruits-and-nuts.blogspot.com/.../...s.html

[WalterRadio]

@Curmudgeon
That article is inaccurate with regards to Western History.

The idea that unmarried men are a threat to society is true. We see that today.

The thing that has changed in the West over the past 2,000 years is that now the median sex partners for women has gone up dramatically, which mitigates the single young man problem.

[Curmudgeon]

Hypergamy is a problem too, but throwing away monogamy is not the answer.

[WalterRadio]

@Curmudgeon
Fewer than 2% of humans in the West are monogamous. The figure is certainly higher where women are oppressed.

[Clo917]

No to both, I like monogamous relationships. If my future S/O isn’t happy with just being with me, then we’re clearly not compatible for anything long term in my opinion.

[Anonymous]

I am in a somewhat open relationship. My boyfriend and I are able to sleep with others as long as we clear it with each other first. I am mostly monogamous, he is polyamorous, but I have made I clear I cannot emotionally be shared. Sexually he can have as many as he likes, but the minute he starts developing feelings either she goes or I do.

[bklynbadboy1]

Wow how do you keep having sex with some one and not develop feelings

[AG900]

I'm the same way. I'm not interested in sleeping with anyone else. However. My girlfriend does and I'm ok with that cause I know it's just sex. No feelings involved. She just likes exploring and I'm ok with that. I'm free to so it if I wish to. I'm just not interested

[bklynbadboy1]

Interesting

[HereIbe]

You need to figure out what you are talking about. "Sister wife" arrangements are not part of an open marriage. Sister wives occur in a polygynous marriage (or fully polygamous marriage). In an open marriage, one is free to fuck OUTSIDE the marriage. Two different things.

That being said, regarding the whole sister wife thing, NEVER AGAIN! NOPE, not doing the whole polygyny thing. It just is TOO FUCKING MUCH HASSLE!

[Wowgirl10q]

Okie dokie

[SarahsSummer]

While some of it seems interesting, I don’t think I’m a good candudate for that. One of the shows my boyfriend watches has a situation like that and he seems really into doing it but I’m not into sharing... or bi so there’s that.

[Wowgirl10q]

Same

[nishasingh1234]

I am in open relationship before marriage but after marriage I will try but I am not sure how long it will last.

[MasterKey18]

No, I am not like this. I want my man to myself and we would have to be in love and have a love connection.

[DementedCutie342]

Hell no we would end up fighting I'm not ok with sharing my man. But I get that this works out great for some people:)

[DocilexElle]

Only with my current lover... no other guy would be down with that

[Jjpayne]

I wonder how that would play out in terms of guys with brother husband's, that would be an interesting set up, i would love the guys company but I'd miss not having as much time with my wife

[Wowgirl10q]

@Jjpayne
Lmao your great

[tiltback]

Absolutely not would rather remain single for eternity

[SirRexington]

I could not have an open marriage. To me, that defeats the purpose of marriage and is a sign the marriage should end.

[Anonymous]

No, I'm too possessive. If I'm in a serious relationship with a guy, he's mine. Bitches better stay the fuck away because that's my man.

[11110000bbbb]

Absolutely, in the sense that a guy can have upto 4 wives.

[Skateranon]

I could not have any type of open relationship if my partner suggested it I'd feel like we weren't compatible

[LegateLanius]

[hindril]

Possibly. Not too sure about an open marriage until I try it. Lol.

[kingofthellamas]

Nope but I'd happily go for brother husband. Not sure what I would do with the wife though.

[Danxsarah]

My wife and I have a I guess open 🤔 she can sleep with women dont bug me any

Its about safety and trust

[skeetskeetskeet]

I wouldn't want to be one however an open marriage could be cool as long as she wasn't fucking anyone but I could

[Anonymous]

Never. I believe nobody should ever be having sex aside from with their wife and vice versa. I deeply frown upon polygamy.

[nasty4fun]

I could do the open part but now way I could be a sister wife

[LaBrownEyes]

Never say never, but no.

[Anonymous]

When you marry a man you’re going to have to be one anyway. They are thinking of cheating n they want to.

[bklynbadboy1]

Wow so negative

[Belgie]

I could, but it'll never happen.

[Wowgirl10q]

Not with that attitude

[Repa33]

Hell no

[thottttiana]

Ew no. People who do are nasty, idc idc

[Pink2000]

Hell no

[bklynbadboy1]

@Pink2000 Damn why dont you tell us how you really feel? Lol

[Pink2000]

@bklynbadboy1 I don’t like to share

[bklynbadboy1]

@Pink2000 that's okay I'm the same way and I'm sure your boyfriend is to I don't like to share either but I'm really curious as to how this thing works what do they do pick a day of the week where they going to be with the other person or is it something I just kind of happens I'm really curious

[Wowgirl10q]

@bklynbadboy1 she's a bad ass @Pink2000
Scares me ❤️watch her that one is good

[bklynbadboy1]

@Wowgirl10q you are a bad ass too

[Wowgirl10q]

@bklynbadboy1 not like her she would woopy a$$ we are friends but she could

[lovemyirishman]

HELLNO to neither

[Reach500]

No, I’m too possessive

[englisc]

No, I couldn't be a sister wife.

[blubblubblub]

nonononononononononooooo

[clampfan101]

“Sister’s wife”? You mean incest?

[11110000bbbb]

Well there are two ways.
Incest or
A guy having 2 or more wives and the two wives in islam are commonly called sister wives or a co wife/wives
It's not as bad as it seems lol.

[Wowgirl10q]

No piligamist

[clampfan101]

@11110000bbbb “It’s not as bad as it seems lol.” Yes, it is...

[clampfan101]

What does piligamist mean?

[11110000bbbb]

It means Polygamy lol
And no it's not bad

[ultimega]

Hell no. I don't like sharing.

[Anonymous]

I would get a divorce tbh

[Philyouup]

Not sure if I could do an open marriage.

[ChocolateCheesecake]

Hell no

[NightOwl8801]

Nope and that's not my thing

[jenifier_1589]

No i couldnt

[Secretgardenblood]

No never

[inmensus]

It's not for me

[Mitsamono]

Nope

[Frankenstein99]

nope

[LuWe22]

Nope

[Riichy]

Yes works great 👍

[Wowgirl10q]

Your crazy lol

[motownplayer2000]

No...

[Decentguy]

hell no never

[SwagsMcBags]

No. Begone, THOTs!

[Glen68]

Nope

[Slim57]

Never ever

[ShyGuy83]

Absolutely not.

[Razal]

Nope.