Like do you let the other person run shxt? Do you take turns? Do you do what you want when you want? Do you let them get away with shxt? Do you spoil them? I think Beyonce said everything that describes my mindset šš¤·āāļø Im semi-independent. I want love but dont need it, but want it lol. I think i found it, i kinda have it, but gotta see if i can keep it lol. But as to all the other guys who ever fcked me over, they realized they couldnt take advantage of me as well as they hoped... i mean yea that prick ex #1 actually did take advantage but after him, i was like nope nuh uh never again fck no hell to the naw naw naw #FeelFreeToList#ToughLove
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Unlike most aquarius, i like to be told what to do. doesn't mean im gonna do what u say bt it turns me on to see that you think you can run this. I want us to both be dominant. I want us both fighting to be on top but i dont want us tearing eachother down to get there. You tell me what NOT to do (not WHAT to do) and ill tell you the same. Get it? Got it! Good.
Nonsexually-speaking, would you be the Dominant, Passive-Agressive, or Submissive partner when in a relationship (read more below)?
I am the dominant and i had a good example when we were arguing with my girlfriend over something and she said to me : You want to have "peace" or you want to be right I said of course i want to be right and i won this "fight" later she gave up Im not gonna let her walk onto my head i dont fuck around : when i know im right im not afraid to say it or show it , she has to accept the idea of this
Sounds pretty immature tbh. In a relationship, it shouldnāt be about winning arguments. Itās about compromising and/or coming to a resolution. If you win an argument, youāre really not winning anything. Your partner will feel unheard and invalidated, and that will negatively impact you as well. You might win a battle, but youāre not winning the war. If sheās just too out of line all the time, then find a new girl... simple.
Thereās something called tact, and it should be utilized. My exās didnāt challenge me or ever put me in a position in which I felt I needed to be right. I didnāt have to go out of my way. They trusted my judgement and ability to lead the relationship. Thatās dominance. This false pretense notion that you have to be right in every situation is immature and selfish... and just an annoyance, You donāt sound dominant at all. If you constantly need to prove youāre right in challenges with your woman, then your woman doesnāt submit to you. That means your woman challenges you and therefore doesāt trust your judgement. Youāre trying to reclaim this false dominance by āwinningā and āputting her in her placeā. If you were truly dominant, there would be no need to do that.
@TonyBologna25 ill hear you out but if im right, im not gonna back down. So ig its only fair that he doesn't back down either. I like that weāre both fightinf to be at the top. But if we dont come to a compromise or acceptance of whos actually right by the end of the day, then we have a problem... and someones not getting sex that night šš
I'm laid back and easy going, but I'm still in charge, always. Hell, my last boss rarely did things without asking me (and when he did, it was usually a disaster), and now I have my own company and I run things my way.
I'm the submissive one, I'm naturally quite passive if I had a boyfriend and he told me to wear a skirt and heels I would do so and if he tell me not to show cleavage i won't show any. Too if I say I want to go somewhere and he tell me no that he prefer going somewhere else then I would just follow him, it don't bother me. I'm a chill person honestly.
Iām pretty versatile. I can be dominant or passive when the situation calls for it. Never submissive though. Fuck that doormat shit 😂😂.
Iāll spoil my girl, let her sass me here and there and let her have her way. But I have zero tolerance for disrespect. Iāll check my girl real quick 😂. Leave that little girl attitude outside and talk to me like a woman. Respect me. I respect you. I need your respect or none of you at all.
I do āneedā love. A womanās love. Iām not ashamed to say it. But Iām not desperate for it. Iāll curve anyone who doesnāt know how to appreciate what Iām capable of giving. I can give a woman the whole world and be the air beneath their wings so she touch the sky. But take that for granted and Iāll take that away. The worst thing a woman can do is experience how good I can make them feel and screw it up. Because when you lose me, its almost impossible to get me back
Is that dominance? I thought it was self respect. But if it works I wonāt fix it. Iām not an asshole but I definitely donāt let people walk over me.
I used to have a prob of letting others walk over me but I've been working on it. You sound off the type motivation i like to hear. That inspires me to stand up dor myself. I like it. But yea i take that as a form of dominance.
I wasnāt always like this. It took a couple of bad breakups and then seeing how my dad lets his current wife treat him. Made me realize where I got it from. So now I make an effort ānotā to be that way. I donāt want to pass that to my kids when I have them. I want confident kids with high self esteem.
Yea my mom lets guys treat her that way and now my dad lets his wife treat him that way. So im trying my best to be opposite after what i went through with ex 1
What helps me is imagining a child modeling my behavior. I try to be the kind of person a kid would look up to. Like. I want to be what Will Smith is to Jaden Smith, if you get that analogy. Basically I want to be my childrenās biggest inspiration
You think heās a disappointment? š. I mean I get it acting wise. Heās definitely not Will Smith. But heās still cool. Out here saving the environment.
I donāt have an opinion on any of that first part. I liked Icon and I thought After Earth had a pretty good premise. Pursuit of Happyness is my favorite film.
Dominant but I think I'm slightly sub cause I love doing things for them when I'm with someone cause I like seeing them happy so I spoil them & I think of myself as myself thoughtful/considerate. We certain ex's we kinda took turns it basically depends on our individual mood sometimes she would basically try to challenge me for the dom position sometimes I let her some time we actually got in real arguments over it
I'm not prideful but Leos def don't like being TOLD what to do
Yea thats what i like. I like challenging eachother for the dom spot in a playful way. Not like a verbally/physically abusive way. I mean i had 2 exes tell me i was too much for them because they didn't wanna work for shxt. Like they wanted to get love but didn't wanna give it. It dont work that way.
I'm not gonna lie sometimes the game got tiring & it would turn into a argument... or rough makeup sex sometimes. I think that part about them not giving love is them not being mindful
I'm just do what I want. If she wants to join me good, if not so be it. I like it when she has a similar view. Just live our own lives and the other can join in whenever they feel like it. I loathe being told what so that would be a deal breaker for me.
I like to kinda equally distribute. I like ur update part too! I mean u know that way u kinda make sure u both have enough communication & both take out what's on their mind! So ya, the last one is good too until as u said it gets out of hand & fight.
I'm chill. I do not like controlling or asking people especially adults to do this or that as long it's not important. My woman is a grown woman and she can do whatever as long it's not bad. I let people breathe, nevertheless I will be the leader of my woman.
during relationships i believe in equal partnership however I am only dominant during sex etc... i find this a much better balance of how to conduct a relationship, and doesn't make either feel like they have no voice or doing everything
None of the above. I believe that in a relationship the man is the head and the woman the heart. You cannot live without either and on each depends the other and the rest of the body.
I try to strike a balance. Its give and take. I will only Stan dmy ground on very important issues but normal stuff like groceries and where to eat, I don't really care as long as she's happy
Itās sometimes both but like 60% Iām dominating and the other 40% of dominating is when sheās in the mood but at my current situation itās 0% rn
Like I'm not the kinda guy to forbid you to see your friends (not even the male ones š) as long as you're open about it and as long as you are honest to me. But I ask to stay away from someone, it's 99% of the time for a very genuine reason...
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