In a relationship, would you rather be the less attractive partner or the more attractive partner?

[lolaaf]

In a relationship, would you rather be the less attractive partner or the more attractive partner?

I'd rather be the less attractive partner

I'd rather be the more attractive partner

[sugarchateau]

I say i'd rather be the less attractive partner.

My friends look at the guy I love and tell me that I'm way out of his league, but I look at him and see the love of my life- I can't see him any other way, he is absolutely beautiful to me physically, mentally, emotionally and soulfully. I hate how I look a lot, becoming confident was a 2019 thing i'm trying out- despite how i feel and think about my physical appearance.

But it makes sense that I would want to be more attracted to my partner rather than to myself.

[Miss_Savanna_Dry]

I'd rather be the more attractive partner. Because a more attractive guy partner will pay attention to lots more girls because of their big ego and eventually leave u for a "newer model" . Guys that are the less attractive partner tend to focus more on their own partner because they think they hit the jackpot with her. Just my theory. Please no hate from the guys 🤷‍♀️

[LuWe22]

I'd rather be with someone on my Level

[dantetheexplorer]

From my experience living across four continents, the one consistent observation is that the majority of people tend to have partners that have a similar level of attractiveness. Whether that translates to having a more stable and/or successful relationship though, is a very different question altogether.

[Sonorous]

I'd rather look less attractive than my partner. I'm already not that attractive so it leaves a big space for potentials. 😂👌

[pervertedjester]

Doesn't matter as long as I look younger.

[Marrry]

I've read an article recently that indicates that the most happy couples are the ones that the woman is more attractive than the man. becasue women are more antagonistic by nature and they feel that if they are more pretty they have higher chances to keep the guy while guys don't really care ... at least that's what the article said... I will trust this study I think.

[Anonymous]

Less attractive. (Only towards serious relationships not short term) So, If I’m the less attractive one that obviously means he’s attractive. Which means I can admire him, Making my love stronger. I can also brag about how somebody unattractive like me got somebody so attractive.

[lifelearner011]

I dont know what to think. Beauty in appearance terms is overated. I like guys that dont "fit in beauty media standards", would that make me the less or most attractive partner?

[MrOracle]

Given my ugly-ass mug, I hope to hell I'm the less-attractive partner! LOL.

[MissKittyz]

I'd rather be the less attractive. And that's how I feel in my relationship right now even though my boyfriend disagrees lol

[Larajeanfake]

As a girl, I want to be the more attractive one. I guess just cause I'm a girl lol.

[EmbraceThePain]

I don’t really care, but I’d like to be on somewhat of the same wavelengths of attractiveness.

[Mikhaelpax]

Most people will pick (more attractive) so I'll pick the opposite 😊✌

[chriscdi]

this is a very good question but as im always the average i wanna be the better looking one for once lol

[SuccessfulHornDog]

Studies show that couples were the women is more attractive than the man are the happiest

[lolaaf]

nah couples are happiest when they're in the same league

[up_64]

leagues are stupid

[SuccessfulHornDog]

No, you're wrong. The studies aren't opinion, they had findings that you don't happen to agree with.

[lolaaf]

That was only one study's result. Studies' findings aren't always accurate because of flaws in the experiment design and they say attractiveness is subjective especially when the person in the question is average looking. There are many more studies that showed that people usually end up with people in the same league.

[SuccessfulHornDog]

You're just making shit up

[lolaaf]

no dude you just have confirmation bias

[lolaaf]

and that study you brought up was only about attractiveness of the body types, and there are many overweight people have attractive faces. that study had nothing to do with facial features. it was only rating attractiveness based on the body, and apparently many insecure women like dad bods because makes them more comfortable with their own bodies.

[Question_Everything]

Is there a less or more attractive person in this photo? Because they are both so beautiful, they must be siblings children from the gods. So probably Greek, very much so Greek. Or game of thrones.

[genericname85]

i don't care as long as she's good enough in my opinion xD

[Wolframium]

If I'll ever be in relationship, I will be the less attractive one, for sure.

[Anonymous]

Less attractive. I'm the dude. That's how it's supposed to be. Women are the more attractive sex.

[Thatsamazing]

Well... kind of. *Attractive* girls are the more attractive sex. Sadly, as a whole entire group, females really aren't automatically more attractive because so many of them are fat and unfit. So are a lot of guys, but the point is that females aren't automatically more attractive like they should be.

[jessicarosen]

I have never thought about this, but honestly I do not care.

[WhoDatGuy]

I've been both. Definitely easier being the moth rather then the flame.

[WhoDatGuy]

Haha messed that saying up. Other way round

[keshainlove]

More attractive but kinda the same amount of attraction though.

[DarkAngek]

If I am the more attractive then my partner should be uglier than Quasimodo.

[Nahid1707]

Nine times out of ten, the guy is the least attractive between him and the girl jaja.

[Mh1999]

Not true lol

[Nahid1707]

Okay