Boyfriends kids have No Manners?

[katkit04]

My boyfriends boys are rude and hard to be around. They are 10 and 7 they have no manners, make huge messes they do not clean up after themselves, burp and fart , smack my butt, and say rude comments. How do I handle this without stepping on toes?

[natasha3012]

Urgh thats difficult... But let's not forget they are still very young... The technique I would suggest is isolating them for around 10 15 mins. Just keep them in their room, their face turned towards the wall. Also definitely involve your boyfriend in this... He needs to know they make you feel uncomfortable by the rude comments and butt smacking

[Satans_property]

Have your boyfriend talk to them, it's his job to discipline and train them how to behave.

[katkit04]

Yes I agree he doesn't discipline at all it's so frustrating

[Satans_property]

Well if he knows what they are doing and saying to you then he obviously approves of their behavior. He is the Master of the relationship, never forget that.

[katkit04]

master of his and kids relationship right? If so, yes I totally agree

[Satans_property]

Then submit to their will and accept your role.

[HEADJAMOKEN]

... START THROWING THE MESS AWAY NOW AND WHEN THEY ASK FOR IT AS TO WHERE IT REALLY WENT TELL THEM AGAIN... I THREW IT AWAY SINCE YOU CLEANING IS SUCH A HASSLE FOR YOU ITS NOT FOR ME I JUST THROW IT AWAY OK... BOYS... IT WORKS ALL IN GOOD TIME... WE ALL LEARNED SOME HARDER THAN OTHERS...☮️