It's like he's emotionally stingy. I am almost at the end of my rope?

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I've been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now. I knew how he was before I got involved. We've been living together too. He has gotten more mean. It's like he's emotionally stingy... he withholds affection from me all the time. Never gives me sex hardly... he says he just doesn't "feel" like it and that it makes him tired... blah blah blah... but yet, when I'm at work he will jerk off. I always want sex, too! Anyway... he acts like I'm just here. He'll ignore me and do his own thing, which is fine with me, but sometimes I want to feel closeness or a hug. It's almost like he's emotionally abusive... I love this man. My heart doesn't want to give up but my mind does. Any advice on what I should or could do? I try to talk to him about how I feel and he doesn't listen. Just says I don't wanna talk about it or just shut up. I cry and he ignores me... He says he loves me and all that but I don't feel loved... please help? Thank you
It's like he's emotionally stingy. I am almost at the end of my rope?
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