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most dont, but some do cos of them being insecure and believe that their gf's would leave them if someone notices how attractive they are... the irony is that those who are insecure about things often try to control out of fear and wind up pushing their gf's into the arms of someone else
A woman can wear anything she wants like a man can. There are no rules.
(reminded me of a quote)
"If you can't handle the sass, you can't handle this ass"
I don't know where you got such a silly notion unless it is all based on your experience with only one guy. Certainly a few guys may be like that, but most are not. Of course, you should dress in what is approprate for your age. By your age, you have lost your bloom and you are not the fresh, hot, super sexy young thing you were at age 20. That's when you looked good in a tight-fitting minidress and other flashly and skimpy clothes. So hubbies are not going to like it if their 30 year old wives dress to try to look like sexy twenty-year-olds. Of course if your figure permits it, there are sexy somewhat revealing clothes suitable for older women such as yourself.
Why would a woman get upset that her boyfriend still approaches and chats up women when that's how he got her? Same reason. When you're single you look for attention from the opposite sex to attract them into your life. If you're in a relationship and you're still doing that, something is wrong.
I'm married, and I could care less what my wife wears out. She wears something revealing? Cool beans, imma be distracted most the night. My wife is my wife, and I am her husband. Trust is a big thing in our relationship, and I trust her to make the right choices.
Well, something gotta but open before you enter into a relationship.
If a guy likes flirting with women then you gotta understand that before you enter into a relationship and found he got like 2-3 more girls with him.
On the other hand, if a girl likes to dress up and flirt with guys then her boyfriend gotta understand that this is her style and either he accommodate her or bang another girl.
I guess that men who do what you describe have little trust in their own appeal, and little trust in their girls' doing.
Being dressed to kill, of course will attract a number of predators; I personally don't like the idea of going out together nicely, and leaving behind a number of corpses when the evening is over.
But I'll be prepared...
Otherwise: as long as the clothing is socially acceptable I will not interfere in her choices.
I love it when a girl I’m having sex with dresses that way in the right setting. I’m not thrilled when guys hit on her, but as long as she goes home with me and doesn’t do more than smile and be polite to them I’m cool with it. In fact, it might turn me on a little knowing that they want her, but I’m the one she’s going home with.
If you need to dress provocative when you have a boyfriend you have zero respect for him, value other mens attention more than your boyfriend that makes you Just a attention Whore. Are you seeking negative attention with this question or are you really so twisted? And by the way, hè is not your boyfriend, he is your personal entertainment device the way you talk about him. You are flipping the script. He is rational that he doesn't want his girl dress like a hoe. You act like its normal to dress like a hoe in a relation and your boyfriend nags. You feel yourself entitled and are condescending to him. I thank you for your behaviour because more men become MGTOWS because of entitled prinsesses like you
Well I don't wear provocative clothes, but my husband wants me to take care even if I lean over, because sometimes shirts can drop a little bit when you are leaning down or hunched over or something. But, I guess either way, when you are in a commited and monogamous relationship like I am with my husband, it's for his eyes only. I'm not going to advertise what belongs to my husband. And I wouldn't want him to do so either.
Because they want their girlfriend to probably be the one they show their parents, their friends, and even be the mother of their kids, and women who dress to revealing usually aren't the ones they want to do that with.
I've been told there are two types of women in the world, the ones you play with and the ones you stay with. But again, not all men are the same.
They don’t want other men looking at her. Like I get that, but men need to understand that we like looking sexy sometimes when we go out. We don’t only want to do it for you. But there’s a difference between dressing slutty vs classy. Some guys need to understand that. Like the woman in the photo looks classy. If a guy has a problem with that outfit then he’s insecure.
is it really insecurity?
some guys only want to be the one who see their woman's body.
Dare I say, men who are fine with their girlfriends wearing revealing clothes are 'cucks' they are the same type of men that like to watch their women fuck other men.
By your logic, if a woman wants to go out naked or wants to have sex with other men and her boyfriend says no to her, then he's insecure.
This isn't insecurity, it's called having standards and self respect.
No man wants a boe that likes to dress for other guy's attention.
@ThisGuyDucks women always want to be desired because they always want better deal
@Mamamialetmego but when a man desires any other woman other than their girlfriend, behold the hypocritical tantrums and misery thrown your way.
Or maybe we dress up to feel better about ourselves lol. Not everything we do is about men. I wear sexy bras and underwear all the time under my work clothes because it makes me feel confident. I don’t wear it for a man because I’m going to work. I wear sexy dresses and outfits when I go out not because I’m necessarily trying to get a man, but I like looking good.
On conscious level yes, on subconscious level you want male desire. It just human nature don't need to be denied
On conscious level i want to feel confident and look good when i build some muscle also want to get healthy but i can't deny on a deep level i want to be desired and looked by women.
If you dress to feel better about yourself? why do you only dress when you go out? Shouldn't you be dressed in your own home if you're dressing for yourself?
what the fuck?
Why the fuck do women dress casual inside, then?
Lol, I love how men on here are telling me, a woman, that I'm wrong about why I dress the way I do. The egos are insane lol. You can believe what you what, but that's why women dress the way they do. They do it to feel good about themselves. Despite what so many people with penises think, our appearances are not based on our desire to 'please you'. Please get over yourselves.
Hahha but we are telling the truth
If you are only dressing for yourself, then it wouldn't need to be revealing. You can dress up and looking good, without the clothes being revealing. You KNOW that revealing clothes will attract the stares of men. Oh sure, it IS about you, and not them. You don't really care about them... you just care about you... you care that men are looking.
Because we know that guys will stare and if she wears revealing clothes she knows that. So why would she dress in a way that would get looks from other guys when she has someone? I dont want some dude staring at her ass and cleavage that's popping out because it's the girls responsibility to make sure she isn't inviting other guys to look when she has someone.
Then get a girlfriend who already dressed in a modest way.
Yea but the question is if she doesn't dress like that. You can always change your clothes.
If she starts dressing that way I certainly will.
What's wrong with him having an opinion on how you dress?
Either take his advice or don't, if you don't like his opinion, or him having an opinion, then dump him.
You're just passing the buck by trying to say he shouldn't have an opinion in the first place. Well, too late, Toots, it looks like he has one, so NOW WHAT? Now what are you going to do about it?
Something? Something else? Nothing?
The ball is in YOUR court. YOU make a decision now.
I wouldn't date a guy who is possessive and insecure. Oh sure they can check out women when we aren't around and chalk it up to "its just biological " well women loving to dress up is our nature then. Who gives a damn.
Revealing more private, sexual part of your body is an intimate thing.
Her taking it off and showing it all to me, revealing herself is very pleasurable and intimate.
Showing it off for everyone... for other men's pleasure is an offence to me and a breach of intimacy.
I would never stay "upset"... I just would no longer date that type of girl.
This is a silly question. If you are open for attention and relationship you do but now you find a man that you desire why keep getting more extra attention. You need to have balance also we don't go for revealing clothes. I think women die for attention and just her man's attention isn't enough they want always more they always want to be ready for a better deal and knowing that knowledge pisses us off because it doesn't feel like relationship it feels like we are just steps for women to step on. If she has to wear she has to wear beside me but if she wears all the time it looks she's looking for more adventure.
Also would you be okay if i look other beautiful women constantly and if other hot women flirt with me all the time? Would you say okay no problem. Humans are possesive creatures.
Also even a lot of conservative type of girls tried to flirt with me even they had boyfriends. I mean i lost my trust to women. I can fuck hundreds of women but sometimes you need relationship and now days it's impossible.
My boyfriend encourages me to wear revealing clothes when we go out for fun since he likes staring at me. I don’t always but he doesn’t care. That’s not all guys.
Hmmm. If she was single and dressed provocatively to attract men to approach her why would she want to dress like that now. It would bother me. Dressing sexy is a different matter entirely. To me dressing sexy and dressing provocatively are two very different things.
Well said. It's very much a case of control where he obviously doesn't want any other guys looking at his girlfriend.