Is it okay if I ask my girl to shave her arms? I've been dating my girl for about one week now. And I went round to pay her a visit and she was in the middle of baking some cakes for her sister's wedding so I thought I'd join in and show-off my cooking skills and prove that I am a caring and loving boyfriend. But before we began she rolled up her sleeves and I thought "ewwwwww! Hairy arms". But to not cause a scene I quietly helped her finish and promptly decided to make my way home soon after as she wanted me to stay a bit longer for lunch but the hairs on her arm were bugging me. So I told her I had to pick up my jacket from the dry cleaners and left. She seemed puzzled but I was bothered. Anywho, I am currently thinking about asking her to remove the hairs but I don't want to come across as insensitive or rude. But how do I do this?

When I asked my first girlfriend to shave her apit she broke up with me. So, it is dangerous to ask such things

You’ve only been dating her for a week dude! How you gonna ask her to do that? What a dick

ewww thats disgusting , why even date such dirty girls to begin with? tell her to shave or break up with her and find real women who knows how to take care of herself.

If you want to make it to two weeks , rethink your position

You need to take your time to know a lot about her, tolerate her as much as possible and make her trust you then you may be able to change somethings about her.

Girls just can't have beards, mustache, monobrow, back hair or chest hair. Anything else is fine

you probably make her mad better be carefully said or find a way to ask friend to say it to her

It's ok but girls aren't really supposed to shave their arms..., until the early 20th century women never shaved. It's not natural

If it's an arm like this in the picture, I don't think it's a problem at all.

I think you should wait a while before you ask her, it's too soon

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standardguy Follow
Yoda Age: 47

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When I asked my first girlfriend to shave her apit she broke up with me. So, it is dangerous to ask such things

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- TheDonDada
  
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  Woah seriously? She dumped you for asking her to shave her armpit?
  
  That's kind of extreme.
  
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- standardguy
  
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  Well she dumped me because I turned sad after her no.
  
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Anonymous
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You’ve only been dating her for a week dude! How you gonna ask her to do that? What a dick

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- Tunde1984
  
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  You are awsome
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  It’s true though
  
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PrinceOfAljazeera Follow
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ewww thats disgusting , why even date such dirty girls to begin with? tell her to shave or break up with her and find real women who knows how to take care of herself.

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Philyouup Follow
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If you want to make it to two weeks , rethink your position

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Tunde1984 Follow
Xper 3 Age: 42

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You need to take your time to know a lot about her, tolerate her as much as possible and make her trust you then you may be able to change somethings about her.

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buttcrackjoe Follow
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Girls just can't have beards, mustache, monobrow, back hair or chest hair.

Anything else is fine

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pizzalovershouse Follow
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you probably make her mad better be carefully said or find a way to ask friend to say it to her

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Nadim171 Follow
Yoda Age: 21

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It's ok but girls aren't really supposed to shave their arms..., until the early 20th century women never shaved. It's not natural

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MrSun Follow
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If it's an arm like this in the picture, I don't think it's a problem at all.

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- TheDonDada
  
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  Are you kidding? Her arms are not that hairy, but stil kind of hairy.
  
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GreenGold1992 Follow
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I think you should wait a while before you ask her, it's too soon

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ivysandy Follow
Xper 5 Age: 27

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You can help her shave it, I mean, she's your girlfriend for crying out loud

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Polaris117 Follow
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That’s a lot like masking who she is. If she had a weird eye color, would you ask her to constantly wear colored contacts?

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distressedanonymus Follow
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I don't know man this could backfire like hell

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- TheDonDada
  
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  You're right. That's what scares me the most.
  
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- distressedanonymus
  
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  Just a bit of hair shouldn't be a big deal as long as she's hygienic
  
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Sabretooth Follow
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it's funny how women are calling him names-but how many girls do the same damn things?

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MoscowMitch Follow
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No, but it is okay to dump her and date someone less hairy.

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R_Cakes91 Follow
Yoda Age: 34 , mho 37%

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This is a troll question, right?

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- TheDonDada
  
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  No you idiot.
  
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- R_Cakes91
  
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  Haha ok
  
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nerms123 Follow
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Date a girl with no arm hair

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Hai_tis_E Follow
Xper 6 Age: 29

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Break up with her because she deserves better.

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- TheDonDada
  
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  Yeah well I won't. And she finds me attractive so she won't either.
  
  On a side note you look exactly like a young Boy George. LMAO!
  
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- Hai_tis_E
  
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  A girl shouldn't feel like she needs to change her appearance for a guy. If you don't like the way her arms look either get over it or don't date her.
  
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- TheDonDada
  
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  I won't "get over it". And that's your opinion. But there are plenty are girls who "change" their appearances to make their man happy. It's not an anomaly.
  
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- Hai_tis_E
  
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  Those girls are definitely not happy. What if she doesn't want to change her arms? Perhaps she likes them? Then what?
  
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- R_Cakes91
  
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  @TheDonDada grow the hell up and get over it or breakup with her. You’re obviously selfish for expecting her to change her appearance for you.
  
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- Hai_tis_E
  
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  @R_Cakes91 wishing I could like comments
  
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- TheDonDada
  
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  You assume they are not happy but you don't know that for sure. Maybe they want to make their man happy. Plus attraction plays a part in a relationship. And I know that she likes me enough that she'll compromise with me.
  
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- Hai_tis_E
  
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  If she told you that she didn't like men with hairy legs, would you shave your legs everyday to please her?
  
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- TheDonDada
  
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  Yes I would.
  
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- Hai_tis_E
  
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  You have very unrealistic ideas of what a relationship is 🙂
  
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- BrittBratt2416
  
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  that girl looks nothing like boy George.
  
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- R_Cakes91
  
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  This relationship is definitely going to last through the ages...
  
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fluffyassunicorn Follow
Xper 6 Age: 26 , mho 43%

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Like long long arm hair? Orrr🤔

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- TheDonDada
  
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  No not that long actually. But definitely visible enough for me to notice.
  
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TripleAce Follow
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dude, we can see those are his arms not hers lol

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Katerina_Belle Follow
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It depends how hairy they are tbh

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OjosOscuros3 Follow
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Just ask her to. See what she says.

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ACupOfFrosting Follow
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Why don't you do it? Like... what

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MlleCake Follow
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Nope.

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- EleanorRigby
  
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  Short and simple. 👍
  
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hasankhan24 Follow
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Yes.. its fine.. in a relationship

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GhettoGirl Follow
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I would not do that.

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BeHappy1985 Follow
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Horrible idea, I think you should go for it xD

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- MlleCake
  
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  Lol.
  
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bamesjond0069 Follow
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Just ask her. No big deal.

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eavin144 Follow
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Yup tell her its hygienic

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Anonymous
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just dump the hairy bitxx

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yourfavperson Follow
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soooo rude

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- Tunde1984
  
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  Yeah it may sound somehow rude but we can't change who we are but a bit of tolerance might change the story.
  
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- Tunde1984
  
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  Yeah
  
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luvor3ki Follow
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Absolutely not.

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senthiltnp Follow
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Nogffg

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Hawthorn18 Follow
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Yes it is

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Anonymous
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Omg 😂😂😂

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