It is kinda rude in my opinion. It's just hair and to me you either except your partner or move on. Luckily arm hair doesn't bother me at all. That being said I know that some women are rude as fuck and won't hesitate to attempt to change everything about you. It just comes down to what kind of person you want to be. Accepting, loving or picky and critical.
Her elbows would be pointed out more if those were her arms. Unless her arms are ridiculously short. Then there’s the person directly behind her who’s shirt we can see. My guess is that your photo is a man with his arms around a girl. Her arms are not that bad are they😏.
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Most women would be offended due to you telling them to change something about themselves, but everyone has preferences, some chicks only wanna fuck a dude with a clean shaved dick, so if she’s one of them, tell her her arm hairs got to go, gotta be fair at least ;)
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It’s not wrong that you don’t like her hairy arms but come on now. It’s just a little arm hair. I’m sure her arms aren’t as hairy as a man. She probably shaves her legs and under arms and bikini area, ugh give her a break 🙄
If she doesn't already shave her arms, then I doubt that's a problem. They can't be that hairy. Some girls wouldn't mind shaving them for their boyfriend, but some would mind. It's only been a week, maybe just try get to know her a bit more before you start asking that.
Look at the hypocritical pinks. They have a list of requirements for men longer than the river Nile... but a guy is turned off about one thing... must be an asshole. Guys, notice how women expect you to have none of your own preferences? Ever notice how some other men will attack you for having preferences too?
Reverse the genders and you'd see an entirely different response. Ones with much more understanding and empathy.
I'd just find another girl that matches what you want. Most girls don't have hairy arms so you just lucked out with this one. Girls that do have hairy arms typically are very aware of it and will shave so if she doesn't do it of her own accord I'd say she doesn't think it's an issue so won't want to change.
I think you need to ask yourself are you willing to have hairy babies, because if they inherit your lack of tolerance to folically gifted and her gift of hair your children could grow up with self conflict issues.
I personally nair pretty much my whole body. But my husband has never asked me too. I think if he asked me too I would be a little hurt. It should be a choice not a requirement
What a weird comment chain. And since when did being from a 3rd world country make you weird @TheDonDada. By your logic, 5 billion people (70% of the worlds population) are considered weird. I thought there was weirdo's in every country, in all walks of life. I mean you guys have the Kadarshian's, Beetlejuice and Tom Cruise and his fellow Scientologists in America... just saying. My country has nutters as well, and I am from a first world country.
You've only been with her for a week and you want her to change her grooming habits. If you believe you guys have this nailed down this early then I don't see the harm in asking her, but if she says no then you can't force her, it's your problem after than.
Set up a wax day for both of you, then say 'you know what would be funny?'if we both were to wax our whole bodies!!!' That way you can trick her into doing it and she won't expect a thing cause you're doing it too. by the way I've waxed/shave my hole body before and looked damn good. P. s. start with getting arms waxed first cause thats the problem area.
That's a little pathetic. Everyone has arm hairs. And if their really hairy then there's a chance that she's going to be insecure about them and you bringing it up probably isn't a good idea. I'm sure your arms are wayy hairier than hers lol
Look man , If you like the girl tell her it throws you off. Dont ask her to do it, but allow her the chance to do it herself. be prepared for backlash because modern women would rather be apelike than lady like.
of you can't stand the hair on her arms then you should probably just break it off. it is the little things that bother us and we pretend not to notice. thet eventually build to a bursting point causing a bad or worse break up than it would already be
Question is, at this stage, is she bound to honor your wish?
Hairy arms could be a real turn off for guys who care; so this can be a deciding moment for you and it better get ironed out "either way" NOW rather than later.
Moreover, if they have that much hair on their arms, there are other places where she may care even less.
so you've been dating for a whole week and have found some part of her appearance that needs changing? After a whole week of dating? WOW! I think you might do better for yourself AND her, to just move on.
Oh man 😂 dude she is gonna hate you no matter what you say I think you need to just be straightforward and ask her Or at least hint that you prefer hairless arms
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Just don't. In case you didn't know, all human beings have hairy arms. So why would she shave her arms if you yourself hasn't? Shave your arms first, and then think about asking her to do the same. That's how it works.
You guys have been dating for a week and you already want to ask her to change herself for you? That’s not a request you make from someone you just got into a relationship with, if at all.
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It is kinda rude in my opinion.
It's just hair and to me you either except your partner or move on.
Luckily arm hair doesn't bother me at all.
That being said I know that some women are rude as fuck and won't hesitate to attempt to change everything about you.
It just comes down to what kind of person you want to be.
Accepting, loving or picky and critical.
Her elbows would be pointed out more if those were her arms. Unless her arms are ridiculously short. Then there’s the person directly behind her who’s shirt we can see. My guess is that your photo is a man with his arms around a girl. Her arms are not that bad are they😏.
Most women would be offended due to you telling them to change something about themselves, but everyone has preferences, some chicks only wanna fuck a dude with a clean shaved dick, so if she’s one of them, tell her her arm hairs got to go, gotta be fair at least ;)
It’s not wrong that you don’t like her hairy arms but come on now. It’s just a little arm hair. I’m sure her arms aren’t as hairy as a man. She probably shaves her legs and under arms and bikini area, ugh give her a break 🙄
Yeah honestly I find a little arm hair kinda cute , not man arms but a little but
You might be right. But we haven't had sex yet so I'll guess I will just have to wait and see.
Lolz
If she doesn't already shave her arms, then I doubt that's a problem. They can't be that hairy. Some girls wouldn't mind shaving them for their boyfriend, but some would mind. It's only been a week, maybe just try get to know her a bit more before you start asking that.
Look at the hypocritical pinks. They have a list of requirements for men longer than the river Nile... but a guy is turned off about one thing... must be an asshole. Guys, notice how women expect you to have none of your own preferences? Ever notice how some other men will attack you for having preferences too?
Reverse the genders and you'd see an entirely different response. Ones with much more understanding and empathy.
I'd just find another girl that matches what you want. Most girls don't have hairy arms so you just lucked out with this one. Girls that do have hairy arms typically are very aware of it and will shave so if she doesn't do it of her own accord I'd say she doesn't think it's an issue so won't want to change.
Your tripping on her hairy arms?
Is it long enough to braid?
I think you need to ask yourself are you willing to have hairy babies, because if they inherit your lack of tolerance to folically gifted and her gift of hair your children could grow up with self conflict issues.
I personally nair pretty much my whole body. But my husband has never asked me too. I think if he asked me too I would be a little hurt. It should be a choice not a requirement
Why should you be hurt?
You americans are weird
@classicmusiclover You are from a third world country calling other people "weird". That's pathetic.
I'm not from a third world country
You idiot
@classicmusiclover Don't lie to yourself. Where are you from then?
@classicmusiclover By the way that front door on your profile pic is really ugly and makes you look like you are a lowlife third world inhabitant.
😂wth with this unprovoked attack?
Though it is pretty bold saying Americans are weird when there are no doubt plenty of exotic thing you and your kin do...
What a weird comment chain. And since when did being from a 3rd world country make you weird @TheDonDada. By your logic, 5 billion people (70% of the worlds population) are considered weird. I thought there was weirdo's in every country, in all walks of life. I mean you guys have the Kadarshian's, Beetlejuice and Tom Cruise and his fellow Scientologists in America... just saying. My country has nutters as well, and I am from a first world country.
So I just want to understand I am weird for getting rid of unwanted hair?
If you have her shave them, they will come back thicker. If you have the money and really need it to be done, you can get laser hair removal.
But there's no simple way to go about telling this, it may hurt her but let her know it's not a big deal (and I'm guessing it's not?).
You've only been with her for a week and you want her to change her grooming habits. If you believe you guys have this nailed down this early then I don't see the harm in asking her, but if she says no then you can't force her, it's your problem after than.
Set up a wax day for both of you, then say 'you know what would be funny?'if we both were to wax our whole bodies!!!' That way you can trick her into doing it and she won't expect a thing cause you're doing it too. by the way I've waxed/shave my hole body before and looked damn good. P. s. start with getting arms waxed first cause thats the problem area.
That's a little pathetic. Everyone has arm hairs. And if their really hairy then there's a chance that she's going to be insecure about them and you bringing it up probably isn't a good idea. I'm sure your arms are wayy hairier than hers lol
Look man , If you like the girl tell her it throws you off. Dont ask her to do it, but allow her the chance to do it herself. be prepared for backlash because modern women would rather be apelike than lady like.
of you can't stand the hair on her arms then you should probably just break it off. it is the little things that bother us and we pretend not to notice. thet eventually build to a bursting point causing a bad or worse break up than it would already be
Question is, at this stage, is she bound to honor your wish?
Hairy arms could be a real turn off for guys who care; so this can be a deciding moment for you and it better get ironed out "either way" NOW rather than later.
Moreover, if they have that much hair on their arms, there are other places where she may care even less.
so you've been dating for a whole week and have found some part of her appearance that needs changing? After a whole week of dating? WOW! I think you might do better for yourself AND her, to just move on.
Oh man 😂 dude she is gonna hate you no matter what you say
I think you need to just be straightforward and ask her
Or at least hint that you prefer hairless arms
Just don't. In case you didn't know, all human beings have hairy arms. So why would she shave her arms if you yourself hasn't? Shave your arms first, and then think about asking her to do the same. That's how it works.
I wax my whole body.
Manly
You are really pathetic
Who, me?
You guys have been dating for a week and you already want to ask her to change herself for you? That’s not a request you make from someone you just got into a relationship with, if at all.