Could you be with someone who doesn't think you're funny?

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xXSaturnXx · Accepted Answer

Nope, absolutely no way. Everyone needs to have a laugh sometimes and if your s. o thinks you aren't funny it would not only kill the mood but also cause a pretty serious rift in your relationship. I guess it might work for a few people but definitely not me.

Dali-chan · Accepted Answer

Nope. I love watching comedy, cracking jokes and making peoples laugh, so telling me that I’m not funny is the same as telling that I’m not pretty

PeanutButterBrother · Accepted Answer

You can please/amuse your woman many ways, but a really good laugh goes a long way. I'd be more so concerned with her deeming me witty or mentally sharp over funny though. People's senses of humor vary widely.

ShadowofRegret · Accepted Answer

I could, but it would probably get sort of awkward... *I try to joke with her* Her: ... Me: Um... I'll be quiet now...

Genie23 · Answer

No. If he doesn't find me funny, then there's no point in being with him as I love cracking jokes and if he can't get my humour or can't appreciate it, then it's a torture for him to have to listen to my jokes and it will get annoying for me after some time, lol. I just want to be with someone who will enjoy my company and my humour and I'll enjoy his.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

Respect and Concern is all I need - I've met guys who thought I was very very funny but didn't respect me.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

That wouldn't last very long, because they would soon think that I was funny!

SuperManiac · Answer

No. I consider a common sense of humor to be absolutely essential. I rely on humor a lot to ease tension, put positive spins on situations, and make people comfortable with me.

I also use it as a transition for moves on dates. I'm not the super smooth type that goes from a serious and intense moment to like holding hands or kissing or being affectionate or even opening up to each other. It's usually laughter from the girl that is my cue for these things. A date without laughter would probably lead nowhere for me.

Aethereal · Answer

Yes, I don't care about that. We can find other sources of laughter. And one doesn't need to tell jokes to get a smile (it would be sad if that were the case). The only problem is if it's some sort of weird issue for her that I'm not funny. If she's fine with it, I see no problem.

Skadoosher · Answer

When you find someone that's a good fit, naturally things they say can be very funny. Intellectual comparability is what its called. Its a very important factor to happiness within a relationship. Even with this, people change and thus so do outcomes of relationships.

bruhimboredbruh · Answer

If they are rich yeah but at the same time like why would they be withme if they dont like me the only thing i could think of is if i was a ugly boring guy who liked a hot girl but she diddnt really like just wanted money or somthing I don't know can't relate

MysteriousDarkness · Answer

When it comes to this there are a few I would not accept which are:
1. Never finds me funny.
2. Laughs only when I am trying to be serious
3. Does not find me funny but expects me to find them funny.
Luckily my girlfriend and I find each other funny at times.

TadCurious · Answer

Maybe. Although I do like to playfully joke and tease (but not in a mean way) and if all that fell flat I'd feel sorta ridiculous. If I had to just be VERY SERIOUS all the time with my partner it would be disappointing.

fishfish126 · Answer

Yeah I mean I don’t really care. But also I think he would just from being surprised by me joking. And the weird things I joke about. Sometimes you laugh at people jokes not because they’re funny but because you’re glad they’re happy.

Anonymous · Answer

Chances are, they would get annoyed by me very quickly and we probably wouldn't have much in common. It sounds pretty miserable to me.

AlienParasite · Answer

Mhhh, I'm not the funniest person in the world but... I like to have as a partner someone whose sense of humor is compatible with me, and therefore we know how to make each other laugh and know how to be funny for each other. Other way it feels sad.

ArrowheadSW · Answer

I have a good sense of humor and I love humor. But if a woman constantly didn't "get it" I'm not sure we'd be much of a couple. And it is not like I joke all the time. I mean there is a time for it.

centerline · Answer

why would someone want to be with YOU if they dont think your funny...   my answer to your question is, NO... not a relationship.  but a booty call, yes... No problem.

slatyb · Answer

If I can't make someone laugh it won't work. I'm not funny in front of a group but I can be pretty funny with people I know well. Inside jokes are the best.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I could be with a girl who doesn't think I'm funny but i like to have some fun in life after living a  miserable childhood and teenage years with no happiness and parents who bitched all time.

Secret6620 · Answer

Yes of course. I don't think I'm funny either. So we have something in common. ♥️

GlitterDragon · Answer

I suppose, but their personality has to have some other quality I like. Me finding myself funny is all that matters though😂

stardust101 · Answer

I’m a woman and I don’t feel the need to be funny plus I’m not really a funny person anyway. However, that doesn’t mean I don’t have a sense of humor

BeMuse · Answer

I doubt it. I don’t even like when girls try to act like they don’t think I’m funny just so they don’t act too interested at first.

aa180 · Answer

I don't think I'm all that funny myself, but it would bother me if she was one of those girls who prefers drama over comedy and likes serious stuff more than things which are amusing and entertaining.

JMuhammad · Answer

If my job were professional comedian, yes, because a lot of them are not funny and people laugh anyway. In personal life, no, because if I can't make her laugh to feel better when whatever is wrong has gone wrong, what use am I to her?

Jjpayne · Answer

I could live with it, as long as she loved and respected me

Ally247 · Answer

I'm hilarious so that obviously means they're delusional and we can't have that

happyhedgehog · Answer

That would make me sad. I'd feel like he's annoyed with me all the time, since I like to joke around a lot.

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

If she's nice, then maybe, but it would be a little awkward at times, I think.

MissDawn7961 · Answer

no for I have a sense of humor for the bible reads - a merry heart worketh good like a medicine should - ! In this world if you do not develop a sense of humor you may end up so depressed that you may take your own life or others lives

mermaidia_lol · Answer

I think that would be very awkward, so no. And if I don't think he's funny, that's a HUGE dealbreaker. I love to laugh and not take life too seriously... can't be with a Boring Ben.

menina · Answer

Well, I'm not trying to be funny so I would be ok with that. We would make the perfect couple!

MrOracle · Answer

I'm pretty good at making people laugh, so, yeah, that would suck.

luvstoned4him · Answer

well that would put a damper on the chemistry so no

Wowgirl30q · Answer

I'm the only one who thinks I'm funny. I understand this

Jemini_Crocket · Answer

I don't think so. I think it's very important to joke together and such.

Prof_Don · Answer

That sounds like absolute misery. Laughter and humor are what keeps you young.

StephenCF · Answer

Hell no! 😣 In the words of Chandler Bing, “Funny is all I have!” 😨

charlie_all_night · Answer

If you can't laugh together how would you get through hard times without making more problems

elly91 · Answer

Not really... I like to laugh and see people laugh so no I couldn't date someone who's miserable around me..

Kezzz · Answer

I could not do that even if was paid to do so. What is life if not little jokes every now and then. I wouldn't get to tease and it would just suck.

Clarke498 · Answer

No i don't think so. Because i think i'm funny. I very often say things that make people laugh... So if she ain't one of them... That would be miserable.

Swat_ · Answer

I laugh at my own jokes, so I consider myself funny.

Juxtapose · Answer

I can make all my friends laugh with at least some of of my antics, so if she doesn't find me funny at all then she probably isn't for me.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Yep. I'm not her personal comedian. If she wants to laugh she can watch Netflix stand up comedy or funny movies.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah because I'm not a funny person I often say dumb stuff

SydneySentinel · Answer

I have a weird sense of humor

Quidthonian · Answer

Nope. I use humour to breakup tense situations. Humour is needed in life.

Jackieboi · Answer

Seems like most guys are answering no. Why is it so important for you that she finds you funny?

YHL6965 · Answer

Yes because my humor is very particular so I don't expect a lot of people to share the same humor as me.

ivysandy · Answer

Actually, am a very funny person and am fun to with, so I'll consider my boyfriend to be a lucky person

mike19283 · Answer

Comedy is something VERY important to me. Therefore, being regarded as not funny is hurtful.

slurreyboy · Answer

I'm hilarious. If they don't think so, they are stunted. Not interested

Walrus_au · Answer

Nope, because I couldn't put up with someone that wrong!

stuntbrain · Answer

That sounds painful. I'd rather tongue-kiss a rabid wolverine

Slax421 · Answer

Nope. Relationship wise. A fling... We're there for a different purpose so...

Gstacy1989 · Answer

A sense of Humor helps to relieve tension during tough times or during a stressful type of a day

chocochipcookie · Answer

Yes. Why not? In my opinion, being funny is not a good expression. Being fun is way much better

lernulo · Answer

I'm funny to some people. Too serious to other people, I don't mind... Seriously

jc_denton · Answer

only rarely am i funny, so id be more worried about her laughing. I've gotten my crush to laugh at lame jokes before, just a heh tho

SUMAIREBRAHIM · Answer

I don't know but everyone laugh even when I'm not telling anything funny

Slim57 · Answer

I don't understand how you could get with someone you didn't thinks humor was funny, no I wouldn't like that, my ex was kinda like that

Anonymous · Answer

If they have other qualities maybe but I’m not sure I’ve never not been funny to someone at least once

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