Could you be with someone who doesn't think you're funny?

[beebella]

Yeah, I don't care about that

No, that sounds miserable

I'm not funny

[xXSaturnXx]

Nope, absolutely no way. Everyone needs to have a laugh sometimes and if your s. o thinks you aren't funny it would not only kill the mood but also cause a pretty serious rift in your relationship. I guess it might work for a few people but definitely not me.

[Dali-chan]

Nope. I love watching comedy, cracking jokes and making peoples laugh, so telling me that I’m not funny is the same as telling that I’m not pretty

[beebella]

My sentiments exactly.

[PeanutButterBrother]

You can please/amuse your woman many ways, but a really good laugh goes a long way. I'd be more so concerned with her deeming me witty or mentally sharp over funny though. People's senses of humor vary widely.

[ShadowofRegret]

I could, but it would probably get sort of awkward...

*I try to joke with her*
Her: ...
Me: Um... I'll be quiet now...

[Genie23]

No. If he doesn't find me funny, then there's no point in being with him as I love cracking jokes and if he can't get my humour or can't appreciate it, then it's a torture for him to have to listen to my jokes and it will get annoying for me after some time, lol. I just want to be with someone who will enjoy my company and my humour and I'll enjoy his.

[jennifer_bloom]

Respect and Concern is all I need - I've met guys who thought I was very very funny but didn't respect me.

[OlderAndWiser]

That wouldn't last very long, because they would soon think that I was funny!

[SuperManiac]

No. I consider a common sense of humor to be absolutely essential. I rely on humor a lot to ease tension, put positive spins on situations, and make people comfortable with me.

I also use it as a transition for moves on dates. I'm not the super smooth type that goes from a serious and intense moment to like holding hands or kissing or being affectionate or even opening up to each other. It's usually laughter from the girl that is my cue for these things. A date without laughter would probably lead nowhere for me.

[SuperManiac]

Actually I had one date long ago with a girl who did not seem to find my jokes funny at all, let alone anything funny at all. She was just a very poker-faced type in general. And I made no moves whatsoever. I even took her to Karaoke and sang my silliest and goofiest songs which usually gets lots of laughter, and she was just looking serious the whole time. It was the most awkward feeling. But somehow after I sang a few of those songs, she just started kissing me out of nowhere, but it felt all wrong to me, like we're not connecting at all even though we're kissing.

[Aethereal]

Yes, I don't care about that. We can find other sources of laughter. And one doesn't need to tell jokes to get a smile (it would be sad if that were the case). The only problem is if it's some sort of weird issue for her that I'm not funny. If she's fine with it, I see no problem.

[Skadoosher]

When you find someone that's a good fit, naturally things they say can be very funny. Intellectual comparability is what its called. Its a very important factor to happiness within a relationship. Even with this, people change and thus so do outcomes of relationships.

[bruhimboredbruh]

If they are rich yeah but at the same time like why would they be withme if they dont like me the only thing i could think of is if i was a ugly boring guy who liked a hot girl but she diddnt really like just wanted money or somthing I don't know can't relate

[MysteriousDarkness]

When it comes to this there are a few I would not accept which are:
1. Never finds me funny.
2. Laughs only when I am trying to be serious
3. Does not find me funny but expects me to find them funny.
Luckily my girlfriend and I find each other funny at times.

[TadCurious]

Maybe. Although I do like to playfully joke and tease (but not in a mean way) and if all that fell flat I'd feel sorta ridiculous. If I had to just be VERY SERIOUS all the time with my partner it would be disappointing.

[fishfish126]

Yeah I mean I don’t really care. But also I think he would just from being surprised by me joking. And the weird things I joke about. Sometimes you laugh at people jokes not because they’re funny but because you’re glad they’re happy.

[Anonymous]

Chances are, they would get annoyed by me very quickly and we probably wouldn't have much in common. It sounds pretty miserable to me.

[AlienParasite]

Mhhh, I'm not the funniest person in the world but... I like to have as a partner someone whose sense of humor is compatible with me, and therefore we know how to make each other laugh and know how to be funny for each other. Other way it feels sad.

[ArrowheadSW]

I have a good sense of humor and I love humor. But if a woman constantly didn't "get it" I'm not sure we'd be much of a couple. And it is not like I joke all the time. I mean there is a time for it.

[centerline]

why would someone want to be with YOU if they dont think your funny...

my answer to your question is, NO... not a relationship.
but a booty call, yes... No problem.

[slatyb]

If I can't make someone laugh it won't work. I'm not funny in front of a group but I can be pretty funny with people I know well. Inside jokes are the best.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I could be with a girl who doesn't think I'm funny
but i like to have some fun in life after living a
miserable childhood and teenage years with
no happiness and parents who bitched all time.

[Secret6620]

Yes of course. I don't think I'm funny either. So we have something in common. ♥️

[GlitterDragon]

I suppose, but their personality has to have some other quality I like. Me finding myself funny is all that matters though😂

[stardust101]

I’m a woman and I don’t feel the need to be funny plus I’m not really a funny person anyway. However, that doesn’t mean I don’t have a sense of humor

[stardust101]

I forgot where I was going with saying “I’m a woman.” Being a woman has little to do with whether or not you’re funny. However, men take greater pride and priority in being funny. I think they rely on this type of charm for when their girlfriends and wives want to kill them 😂

[BeMuse]

I doubt it. I don’t even like when girls try to act like they don’t think I’m funny just so they don’t act too interested at first.