My girlfriend is very odd, I know she loves me a lot but has a very hard time being open with me and struggles to tell me the truth at first but is able too once I reassure her it’s alright. She’s done stuff that I haven’t liked and it hurts but we usually talk through It because we love each other. She has cheated on 2 of her exes because they deserved it and always cheated on her but she won’t go into it because she regrets the type of person she was and to be honest so have I. the thing is my girlfriend is very beautiful and has guys always hitting her up on Facebook and Snapchat and luckily she doesn’t talk to them or if they message her she’ll say something back and then not speak to them again which is fine but still makes me uncomfortable for no reason. Like she says she’s never lied to me and stuff and most of the stuff she’s done to hurt me hasn’t been with other guys, just stuff I wish she told me first and not Instagram. Like just recently I asked her because these too guys kept hitting her up and one previously said that he loved her and I said you can talk to them if you want and she said no but when she was on Snapchat I saw that they hit hit her up and I got mad because why’d she lie and she said I didn’t see it as talking because they said something and i answered and left them on read. Also recently when me and girlfriend were together this guy who always hits her up and someone she talked to when we were broken up hits her up while we’re together and he starts talking to her and he compliments her and she gives shitty answers and not talking but still lied about but I know she doesn’t like this guy because he’s an alcoholic and shit. I’m just in weird head space because I know she loves me and won’t cheat and shit but like some stuff she does makes me uncomfortable. How can I deal with this because I don’t wanna break up and feel free to ask questions
Im scared about my girlfriend and our relationship?
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