Well done, your value went higher in my book! You're too young to be a cougar. The question becomes... why are you head over heels. That is what is worth examining inside yourself and holds wealth of information.
Lightbulb27 thank you π truth be told.. I made some sort of unexplainable connection with him which lead to me falling for him; was not in my hands! I am highly likely to fall in love, find love and be connected.. Because I didn't have any of these with my husband, nor did I have it before marriage.
Your poor husband probably reading the paper having his coffee and you're ho'in around with some younger man - who you foolin you love it just haven't acted on it yet ππ€£ππππ
So you are still married and feeling that? I bet I could help guide you on path to figuring out what is going on. I'm not counselor, but... I am a lightbulb... lol! Point being, that connection you feel, is your subcosncious mind connecting with it's perception of that other person, which is probably accurate. The young man has some attribute that you grew up with, that is why you have those feelings. You want love and aren't getting it at home at this point, for whatever reasons... it's another question why you chose this hubby... and another question of whether either is good for you. But understanding why you feel this way and how to address the underlying emotions attached might be helpful. You are still of "make baby" age, so that is likely twirling around in the background.
I can explain more of how sub conscious works if you don't get that.
Wow you sure a lighbulb man π and very intelligent indeed! Thank you for your help, it is truly appreciated β₯ I am seeing a counsellor, it's been a year, and the conclusion is always to leave hubby- easier said then done! I've suffered a lot emotionally growing up.. I've lacked emotional support, love and acceptance. It carried on to my marriage.. i got married in a month without knowing him just to escape my family life. I met this young guy 3 years ago, locked eyes in a second.. Didn't think anything of it. We fought and disagreed a lot in the beginning till we had nothing to fight over, we accepted each other and became close friends. (my husband doesn't know his my friend but he knows the family). He has a ton of flaws but I have embraced them and see him perfect. It's a lovely life lesson in my opinion β₯
Thank you for sharing and opening up, that's good, hope they are helping you see past the mess. These things are like onions, peel a layer, there's another layer. I have my experiences that got me to this point of knowledge, was life lessons, not books, but now I'm learning and realize... the knowledge was already out there.
Sorry to hear of the childhood abuse, emotions... sub conscious is what is in charge, you know that. In short... those wounds are making decisions... as you sub consciously work out to purify your soul. It's the process of life it seems... be born, be hurt in the world and conditioned... reproduce maybe... then purify the soul. something like that.
Anytime someone is hurting in relationship, and another comes along can talk and open up with, that connection can/likely to spark. So could just be that, or maybe something deeper. With hubby, sounds like the pattern repeated as it generally does until it is broken. I can say in my priors, I learned there was huge value in that tortured mess, but had to work to see it. The soul healing is key. Then get there, and decide if can love that other persona and tolerate them for life... that's the choice part of love:) Not easy to end things with all the ties, emotional, $, kids, life. I honestly don't see how married folks do it... work out issues... I had to get away to think or I'd die. very stressful...
To me, all this is rocket fuel for you to get to a healthier emotional place. Change, is what is required to make better choices, heal the little girl in there that received a lot of lies.
You are absolutely amazing! Yes I'll check out the mytake! I do need a lot of soul healing.. I'm hurting a lot, especially in my marriage. This younger guy has no interference with what is happening with my husband. I had no spark with my husband since day 1 and please don't ask me how I got married.. Its extremely long story! But this younger guy is like a dream fantasy! Like yourself, life has taught me a lot and I'm an empath too so I help other people who suffer too! Thank you for everything you've said! You're just awesome π
Welcome... Peas in a pod! Empaths have "spiritual gifts" to unleash, it's the powers of the intuitive and creative mind burried under those old wounds... ready to grow when set free. Read up on this if you haven't or explore in yourself your intuition. Im reading on how to heal with energy, ability to read others energy... I've experienced and seen enough, it's real, just not understood well. Follow me so I don't lose track of you.. if you like.. so can track your journey.
Sure! My Crush was my GALAXY! She was everything I loved, and more. But what was special was that there were things about Her that I didn't always find amazing and sweet, but as I got to know Her, my Heart quickly molded to love EVERYTHING She was. She wasn't everything I loved at the start. Instead, my heart CONFORMED to Her! It was amazing.
I met the most wholesome person, she is charismatic, a deadpan humour, and we share lots of interests. But I'm pretty damn chubby and nervous if that is something she is okay with. I want to be a better person for her.
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I'm currently fangirling over how HOT my ex boyfriend's brother is.
I meant either. A lot of people are not comfortable saying stuff like this, even behind avatars and pseudonyms so I mentioned anon too. Plus, a lot of my questions now Iβm not offering anon responses. Trying some different strategies here. I want to make the community better. .
I want to date my girlfriends sister as well, at the same time. I bet weβd like it. 😔
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My current "crush" is a married woman. Something I try to ignore but I think it's mutual as sometimes I catch her staring at me and she's touched my arms sometimes in conversation. But hey ho never mind
I would never have even considered letting it be known, much less acting on it. I still wouldn't even now. But she is very sweet, beautiful, and has a magnetic personality. I'd never stoop to that kind of level, but I'll admit there was always a crush in the back of my mind. That's where it shall stay.
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I have a huuuge crush on my boyfriend lol I love that man β€οΈ
Same :3
I'm head over heels with a guy who is 10 years younger than me.. I know it feels wrong.. I wish i can jump him 😍 😍 😍
Hot!!
Hey are you from Australia π π me toooo
you'll make his day if you do...
Oh i can not.. Im married.. Unhappily too π©π©
Hey opinion owner... send me a pm :)
If you want... no pressure
Go for it it might be just what you need you never know
Nope! I don't wana appear like a desperate unhappy cougar lol.. If it's meant to happen one day, I'm sure it will
Lol yes you do just message meπ€£π
I ain't messaging no one βΊοΈβΊοΈβΊοΈ thanks for your input π
Well done, your value went higher in my book! You're too young to be a cougar. The question becomes... why are you head over heels. That is what is worth examining inside yourself and holds wealth of information.
Lightbulb27 thank you π truth be told.. I made some sort of unexplainable connection with him which lead to me falling for him; was not in my hands! I am highly likely to fall in love, find love and be connected.. Because I didn't have any of these with my husband, nor did I have it before marriage.
Your poor husband probably reading the paper having his coffee and you're ho'in around with some younger man - who you foolin you love it just haven't acted on it yet ππ€£ππππ
Lololol I'm a human with needs thank you very much Sydneyboy.. Now go away I'm busy at work
So you are still married and feeling that? I bet I could help guide you on path to figuring out what is going on. I'm not counselor, but... I am a lightbulb... lol! Point being, that connection you feel, is your subcosncious mind connecting with it's perception of that other person, which is probably accurate. The young man has some attribute that you grew up with, that is why you have those feelings. You want love and aren't getting it at home at this point, for whatever reasons... it's another question why you chose this hubby... and another question of whether either is good for you. But understanding why you feel this way and how to address the underlying emotions attached might be helpful. You are still of "make baby" age, so that is likely twirling around in the background.
I can explain more of how sub conscious works if you don't get that.
Wow you sure a lighbulb man π and very intelligent indeed! Thank you for your help, it is truly appreciated β₯ I am seeing a counsellor, it's been a year, and the conclusion is always to leave hubby- easier said then done! I've suffered a lot emotionally growing up.. I've lacked emotional support, love and acceptance. It carried on to my marriage.. i got married in a month without knowing him just to escape my family life.
I met this young guy 3 years ago, locked eyes in a second.. Didn't think anything of it. We fought and disagreed a lot in the beginning till we had nothing to fight over, we accepted each other and became close friends. (my husband doesn't know his my friend but he knows the family). He has a ton of flaws but I have embraced them and see him perfect. It's a lovely life lesson in my opinion β₯
Thank you for sharing and opening up, that's good, hope they are helping you see past the mess. These things are like onions, peel a layer, there's another layer. I have my experiences that got me to this point of knowledge, was life lessons, not books, but now I'm learning and realize... the knowledge was already out there.
Sorry to hear of the childhood abuse, emotions... sub conscious is what is in charge, you know that. In short... those wounds are making decisions... as you sub consciously work out to purify your soul. It's the process of life it seems... be born, be hurt in the world and conditioned... reproduce maybe... then purify the soul. something like that.
Anytime someone is hurting in relationship, and another comes along can talk and open up with, that connection can/likely to spark. So could just be that, or maybe something deeper. With hubby, sounds like the pattern repeated as it generally does until it is broken. I can say in my priors, I learned there was huge value in that tortured mess, but had to work to see it. The soul healing is key. Then get there, and decide if can love that other persona and tolerate them for life... that's the choice part of love:) Not easy to end things with all the ties, emotional, $, kids, life. I honestly don't see how married folks do it... work out issues... I had to get away to think or I'd die. very stressful...
To me, all this is rocket fuel for you to get to a healthier emotional place. Change, is what is required to make better choices, heal the little girl in there that received a lot of lies.
I'm going to post a question or mytake on this soon, but thought you'd get a kick. I see this as very helpful: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_b93ZLw_Ra8
last thought... you talked to this other guy and emotionally bonded. That may make it hard to click with husband... if there is any spark remaining...
You are absolutely amazing! Yes I'll check out the mytake! I do need a lot of soul healing.. I'm hurting a lot, especially in my marriage. This younger guy has no interference with what is happening with my husband. I had no spark with my husband since day 1 and please don't ask me how I got married.. Its extremely long story! But this younger guy is like a dream fantasy!
Like yourself, life has taught me a lot and I'm an empath too so I help other people who suffer too!
Thank you for everything you've said! You're just awesome π
If you're busy at work you shouldn't be on GAG hahaha. I'm in western sydney if you're nearby let me know. I just want a small chat lol
It's OK hehe I'm in my family owned business.. I got on when I feel the slightest stress and need to destress.. Im from brissy! Sorryyy very farrr lol
Very good for destress. I can come to brissy for a coffee ;)
Lol and my husband would kill you π
Welcome... Peas in a pod! Empaths have "spiritual gifts" to unleash, it's the powers of the intuitive and creative mind burried under those old wounds... ready to grow when set free. Read up on this if you haven't or explore in yourself your intuition. Im reading on how to heal with energy, ability to read others energy... I've experienced and seen enough, it's real, just not understood well. Follow me so I don't lose track of you.. if you like.. so can track your journey.
Omg you're awesome! Yes I can read other people's energy! I'm highly sensitive aaaghhh! I will follow you βΊ π
How do you read my energy?
Lol i don't do this over the net
I have a crush on someone on here but I will wait to write it down because we don't know each other yet lmao
Lol creeper...
Sure! My Crush was my GALAXY! She was everything I loved, and more. But what was special was that there were things about Her that I didn't always find amazing and sweet, but as I got to know Her, my Heart quickly molded to love EVERYTHING She was. She wasn't everything I loved at the start. Instead, my heart CONFORMED to Her! It was amazing.
I donβt have any βcrushesβ right now but I have more than that 😊 a boyfriend
The person I'm crushing on already knows and since we started dating she has lived up to the hype my mind set for her.
I do it using my username. Wusses do it anonymously.
@ariadneR will you marry me? <3
She knows I love her and respect her and wish her and her boyfriend the best and knows I respect her wishes.
I wouldn't use the word "crush" but I think @anmari2001 is pretty and funny. I don't like being anonymous so I will just post it regularly.
Hello there π
Lol howdy
I met the most wholesome person, she is charismatic, a deadpan humour, and we share lots of interests. But I'm pretty damn chubby and nervous if that is something she is okay with. I want to be a better person for her.
I'm currently fangirling over how HOT my ex boyfriend's brother is.
Alright, I do have a crush.. Don't tell anyone!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S_t8CySI-UwBy "anonymous" I thought you meant a crush from GAG. People are answering from their lives elsewhere.
In any case, we do not know anyone personally or even truly on GAG to hold a genuine crush.
I meant either. A lot of people are not comfortable saying stuff like this, even behind avatars and pseudonyms so I mentioned anon too. Plus, a lot of my questions now Iβm not offering anon responses. Trying some different strategies here. I want to make the community better. .
Understood. Fair enough. Thank you for a nice reply.
I want to date my girlfriends sister as well, at the same time. I bet weβd like it. 😔
My current "crush" is a married woman. Something I try to ignore but I think it's mutual as sometimes I catch her staring at me and she's touched my arms sometimes in conversation. But hey ho never mind
I don't do crushes, I like a girl named Heather and she knows it, but she doesn't know that I know that she knows it, she is my friends ex wife
My ex girlfriend's sister
And I suppose that is 'no man's land'?
I would never have even considered letting it be known, much less acting on it. I still wouldn't even now. But she is very sweet, beautiful, and has a magnetic personality. I'd never stoop to that kind of level, but I'll admit there was always a crush in the back of my mind. That's where it shall stay.
I'm developing feelings for a female coworker
Tell us about her.
Do you think my coworker likes me? β
I already have and got hated for it so I try not to do that anymore
I don't really crush to be honest with you, I have people I like though and they're pretty cool people.
Dont know her name but some mom at my sons daycare!