What would you do if you caught your boyfriend's mom stealing from him?

[kay1523]

I was in my boyfriend mom's car and was asked to look for a pen in the car. Where in the side door i found 3 of my boyfriend's products costing about 200-300 dollars in total. That i know for a fact that they're stolen, and they are his products. What would you do in this situation?

[Creepazoid]

Just let him know the mom has them. They can work it out I'm sure it's not a big deal. Maybe the mom just wanted to use it without asking. My mom does the same stuff and if I ask if she seen the items she'll say she has them and if she likes using them I just let her use it.

[kay1523]

The product is money not an item

[Creepazoid]

"Where in the side door i found 3 of my boyfriend's products costing about 200-300 dollars in total." Sounds like items to me

[Creepazoid]

Unless it was drugs. We're you referring to drugs?

[kay1523]

Your good, and no its not drugs. I worded it that way because i did want to explain my boyfriend job to much on the Internet. His products are actual money valuable coins, the rare expensive collectors kind of money.

[Creepazoid]

Oh ok I see. Still I would just let your boyfriend know. I would stay away from the word stealing but let him know you seen them in his mom's car. Let him make a conclusion

[markscott]

If I had a girlfriend, and her mother stole things from her, I would tell her. But each situation is different, so you would know better than us, what your relationship is like with your boyfriend.

[alance99]

You can ask your boyfriend if he gave those things to his mother

[kay1523]

I know they aren't borrowed because earlier that day i was helping him look for the missing items.

[alance99]

It won't go well if you ask either of them

[kay1523]

Yaaaaaaaaa thats the issue. Who would you confront first?

[alance99]

Boyfriend becoz he would handle it maturely

[myst101]

I would ask your partner before confronting their mother because if they were borrowed or if he left them there it would create some tension.

[kay1523]

I know they weren't borrowed because earlier that day i was helping him look for those 3 items.

[esotericstory]

tell your boyfriend. My family does this too. I hate it so much. I have too keep buying new socks because my dad takes them, its not expensive but its a pain to suddenly see your things disappear.