What do you think about revenge cheating? (Page 2)

[MotoNik]

If someone cheats on you. Clearly you deserve someone better for you. Dont stoop to their level. You got your whole life keep your morals. Youl love. Youl be heart broken. But one day youl find someone who makes you feel 100x happier and secure in the relationship.

[crazy8000]

Childish.
Only proves the one doing revenge cheating is as low as the one cheated even lower in some cases.

If you're considering to do it. yeah. we can take it this way. If I was you I would drop my cheating partner and move on with life.
Life is to short to do small minded thing's like revenge or for that matter hate.

[BeMuse]

That sounds pointless. They already cheated on you so they have no emotion in the mix. Trying to hurt their feelings when they don’t care doesn’t do anything.

[Unit1]

2 wrongs, that make a right. Cheat on a cheater and you'll stoop down on their level and in effect this is 2 cheaters in a relationship! Win-win!

Or you can be the better person and just leave.

Your call!

[Unirocks]

Sounds awfully toxic and silly.
If someone cheats on you, you walk away. Is it even cheating any more if the relationship has ended after they cheated? You’re just doing something to spite them. That’s extremely juvenile.

[wankiam]

its pointless. if your guy has sex with a girl he likes behind your back and you find out you should dump him rather than having sex with a guy you probably dont like that much just to get your own back

[NYCstreetPhotog]

There is no excuse for revenge, cheating or otherwise. I used to hold grudges, and get revenge, but as I've lived and learned, I've realized it doesn't do any good, and only degrades societal and personal relationships.

While I can't abide cheating, I would never act in a way in order to get revenge on the person that cheated on me.

[BrittBratt2416]

Kinda pointless, won't change the fact that you got cheated on then lower yourself to their level only gives them an excuse for you to longer be upset about being cheated on since you did it to them too.

[Daniela1982]

It is just lowering yourself to their level, so what good does that do?

[Vesuvius87]

I think you're wasting more time with someone worthless; too much plot and drama. That's more time, effort and stress your body is generating when you could easily be single and seek someone better.

[ShadowofRegret]

Never let them drag you down to their level, just because they did something like that does not mean you should too.

If they cheat on you, just leave them.

[ZELLxoxo]

If my partner cheats on me then it would become clear to me that they don't care about me. There would be no point to cheat but rather to break up asap. That's what I'd do.

[Cactusqueen]

Seems quite immature. If you’d be so willing go slip into another’s bed, clearly there’s little respect for each other

[angelgirl7]

I wouldn't even stoop to that level. You're just as bad as the person who cheated. And I truly doubt that it would help you feel better, in the long run.

[Heathnotae]

If you are hurt by being cheated on because you actually care about the person you are with, it does not make sense that you would want to make them hurt too.
I wouldn't ever want to see my love in pain. It would just hurt me more to see them hurt.

[g0sunnyg0]

I think that is very childish I would rather leave someone who cheats on me than going as far as cheating that person back

[roland77]

Why leave because of cheating? Take her aside and talk to her like real adults do. What was the real reason behind the cheat? Is she unsatisfied with you or can't she "connect/dock" her feelings with yours?

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

@roland77 it's usually very simple explanation: she wanted new dick, and figured she'd get away with it, and didn't respect her partner enough to keep her damn pants on.

[roland77]

@SomeGuyCalledTom Relationship coaches will tell you otherwise. But if she *really* was only after your penis, then yes, time to quit her because she wasn't after you at all.

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

@roland77 relationship coaches vary greatly in their ability to give legit advice. "just talk it out" sounds logical to the guy, but the girl often will take that as a kind of permissiveness on the guy's part. Like, if the worst thing that happens from her cheating is that she gets to tell her man how inadequate he is, then why WOULDN'T she keep doing it in future? There's literally no downside, there's nothing to lose. She'd probably respect him more for dumping her outright. Maybe if they're married 30+ years with multiple kids it's different, I'm not that far into my life journey to comment on that kind of longevity in a relationship.

[roland77]

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[boumka]

Useless. Better revange is ingnoring and going on happier.

[boredguy01]

I think it's extremely idiotic and immature so I'd never do it

[boredguy01]

The best way to get back at an unfaithful partner is to move on and be successful in life

[ShadezMcgee]

I wouldn't stop that low. That's pretty shit in my eyes.

[Ogopogo]

The point is not to get back at them, but to be just as terrible. If you're both terrible then you get to stay together.