I'm bitter af cause sex is easy but the only relationship I'll find is with an obese feminist #westcoast I mean unless I actually try to date one of those batshit insane chicks who are really hot and have fucked 1 million guys but im gooooood
I've never had a problem getting pretty girls for some reason... usually the bitter ones get only table scrap pussy and they get all bitter because they can't for the life of them figure out why their nice guy bs isn't working
No. Not bitter. Never bitter. Just cautious on who deserves my time, effort and investments and who is trying to drain it. Yeah, can get that fairly easy... if I flashed some money around.
The opposite gender is filled by billions of unique individuals who are in way way responsible for any negative actions I have suffered by others who happen to share their gender.
At times.. I ask the validity of the 2nd part of your question. I get they both intertwine, to a certain degree, but not to a point that separates your own initially.
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I can and do get relationships easy, I am not bitter against women but I am bitter against feminism/feminists and also would never date a feminist (again)
I’m bitter towards the opposite sex because they’re generally mean and so picky You have to have perfect looks and personality for them to even consider dating you
I’m also bitter cos I’m ugly and no girls like me (in that way)
@Armourdillo No i mean something like "earn my respect", "win my respect " You know some people are so nice that you willingly respect to them. Its not about that attraction.
@Armourdillo When I don't know about them, I'm always polite. I will not be rude or aggressive if you mean that. But some of them lose my politeness because of things they do. Suppose they try to irritate you or they have some serious personality flaws. Respect is too much i just try to not be rude to them unnecessarily.
@Armourdillo I said I'm always polite. A narcissistic abusive and a healthy personality can't have same amount of respect. You can play with words as much as you want now.
@Armourdillo Now I realise we're talking about two different topics. When I see a waitstaff in a normal everyday situation, I do say hello. I do say good morning /afternoon. I do help them if they need it. I smile. We're two people. Then, suppose this waitstaff is my friend, and I figure out she's a racist😐 well, I won't jump on her belly. I might do the same I always do, but she doesn't have my respect as an individual, not as a waitstaff.
I'm not able to get female attention and I do want some pussies but I'm not salty to women. I'm just, meh. Tis what tis.
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It's a reminder that it's a fact that people can't deny that being bitter will destroy a man's chances more than a woman's chances of getting into a relationship
Only solution is to literally go out and socialize. I was far worse than you I can guarantee. You can do it too, trust me it’s worth it. Though it does get annoying when guys try too hard to be my friend. I’m still a loner and like to be alone so too much socializing can be a curse. But it’s nice to be around women and have tons of female friends. Go out and make friends. You’ll get there eventually. Keep trying it works I promise you and there is no other option. Go out, socialize, keep practicing. Sorry that is the only truth.
For me, the first time I talked to someone was a homeless guy. I talked to him because I felt like “well, this homeless crazy weirdo surely won’t judge me?” I was in line at McDonald’s and he was in there just being weird.
He told me all about his kids and their lives. His adult daughter who was whatever... I don’t remember lol.
Just start somewhere. That’s what I did. At college, I would ask people how they did on their projects or exams lol. I felt like it was innocent enough that people wouldn’t think I was a fuckin weirdo.
Well it’s been like 5 years since that day at McDonald’s with the homeless guy but nowadays I’m flirting and making friends with women all the time. I hope you can do it too man it’s worth it! Just go little by little. Bit by bit and don’t give up.
Now I be crying alone and shit. I’ll think about these friends I have that I never had in my life. And I appreciate and love them so much just for being my friends. I never had friends my whole life and now I do. I’m crying right now. It’s nice to have people who give a shit about you and want to talk to you and get upset when you don’t talk to them. Like wow that’s amazing I can’t believe it I have people who like me finally it’s an amazing feeling.
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I have a healthy level of skepticism, but I'm not bitter.
I'm not looking for sex. I am looking for a relationship. Whether or not I will be successful in that remains to be seen.
I'm bitter af cause sex is easy but the only relationship I'll find is with an obese feminist #westcoast I mean unless I actually try to date one of those batshit insane chicks who are really hot and have fucked 1 million guys but im gooooood
I've never had a problem getting pretty girls for some reason... usually the bitter ones get only table scrap pussy and they get all bitter because they can't for the life of them figure out why their nice guy bs isn't working
I am married to a good woman, and I don't hate women.
I just asked a question in DATING how to help the peoples that answer in the negative to your poll!
No. Not bitter. Never bitter. Just cautious on who deserves my time, effort and investments and who is trying to drain it. Yeah, can get that fairly easy... if I flashed some money around.
The opposite gender is filled by billions of unique individuals who are in way way responsible for any negative actions I have suffered by others who happen to share their gender.
At times.. I ask the validity of the 2nd part of your question. I get they both intertwine, to a certain degree, but not to a point that separates your own initially.
I can and do get relationships easy, I am not bitter against women but I am bitter against feminism/feminists and also would never date a feminist (again)
Men are attractive, only the mature ones though. Don’t get stuck with a manchild.
I love women 👩❤
but I'm not getting any sex or relationships
I’m bitter towards the opposite sex because they’re generally mean and so picky
You have to have perfect looks and personality for them to even consider dating you
I’m also bitter cos I’m ugly and no girls like me (in that way)
I mean some men really attract my respect, but some of them are total opposite lol I don't get bitter to someone based on their gender
So you don't respect men you aren't attracted to?
@Armourdillo
No i mean something like "earn my respect", "win my respect "
You know some people are so nice that you willingly respect to them.
Its not about that attraction.
So you don't respect people by default.
@Armourdillo
When I don't know about them, I'm always polite. I will not be rude or aggressive if you mean that.
But some of them lose my politeness because of things they do. Suppose they try to irritate you or they have some serious personality flaws.
Respect is too much i just try to not be rude to them unnecessarily.
So you don't treat people with respect normally.
What's your opinion on red pill guys who say "I don't respect women unless they earn it" ? Seems like a similar mindset.
@Armourdillo
I said I'm always polite.
A narcissistic abusive and a healthy personality can't have same amount of respect. You can play with words as much as you want now.
I'm not playing with words. Typically when people are polite without respect, it's very disingenuous.
Do you respect wait staff, or service people? Or are just polite to them?
@Armourdillo
Now I realise we're talking about two different topics.
When I see a waitstaff in a normal everyday situation, I do say hello. I do say good morning /afternoon. I do help them if they need it. I smile. We're two people.
Then, suppose this waitstaff is my friend, and I figure out she's a racist😐 well, I won't jump on her belly. I might do the same I always do, but she doesn't have my respect as an individual, not as a waitstaff.
I'm slightly bitter towards women BCS of how I got treated by them in the past.
I don't get sex or relationships because I have no women in my life
I'm not able to get female attention and I do want some pussies but I'm not salty to women. I'm just, meh. Tis what tis.
It's a reminder that it's a fact that people can't deny that being bitter will destroy a man's chances more than a woman's chances of getting into a relationship
Context is important in the first, and the answer to the second one is no
I dont crave sex, but can get a relationship with the oposite gender, and im not bitter towards the oposite sex.
I'm asexual but women aren't a gender, they are individuals. I don't like them all, some I wouldn't give the time of day.
I'm bitter out of frustration, but I wouldn't say I "hate" women.
I have trouble making male friends too since I have social phobia and extreme shyness. I'm thinking about just using some sort of drug to get over it.
Only solution is to literally go out and socialize. I was far worse than you I can guarantee. You can do it too, trust me it’s worth it. Though it does get annoying when guys try too hard to be my friend. I’m still a loner and like to be alone so too much socializing can be a curse. But it’s nice to be around women and have tons of female friends. Go out and make friends. You’ll get there eventually. Keep trying it works I promise you and there is no other option. Go out, socialize, keep practicing. Sorry that is the only truth.
@Kaazsz It's a bit harder right now because I'm in community college, I'm hoping when I transfer to a four year I'll be able to join clubs.
For me, the first time I talked to someone was a homeless guy. I talked to him because I felt like “well, this homeless crazy weirdo surely won’t judge me?” I was in line at McDonald’s and he was in there just being weird.
He told me all about his kids and their lives. His adult daughter who was whatever... I don’t remember lol.
Just start somewhere. That’s what I did. At college, I would ask people how they did on their projects or exams lol. I felt like it was innocent enough that people wouldn’t think I was a fuckin weirdo.
Well it’s been like 5 years since that day at McDonald’s with the homeless guy but nowadays I’m flirting and making friends with women all the time. I hope you can do it too man it’s worth it! Just go little by little. Bit by bit and don’t give up.
Now I be crying alone and shit. I’ll think about these friends I have that I never had in my life. And I appreciate and love them so much just for being my friends. I never had friends my whole life and now I do. I’m crying right now. It’s nice to have people who give a shit about you and want to talk to you and get upset when you don’t talk to them. Like wow that’s amazing I can’t believe it I have people who like me finally it’s an amazing feeling.