I think that most of the time when people say things like that, what they really mean is that their last in men isn't limited to what's considered traditionally attractive. Different people are attracted to different things, and people can also become attracted to people over time who they had no physical attraction to at first. They can become physically attracted to people because of things that have nothing to do with their physical appearance. They just come to associate that person physically with other things that they like.
The last guy I really fell for was one that I had no attraction to whatsoever at first. I actually thought that his facial hair was kind of gross. But then I actually got to know him, and he was really sweet and smart. (Admittedly he also got a haircut along the way, and I liked his hair better shorter than I did when it was long, as did he, but he kept the facial hair, which is what I initially found unattractive.) Most of my friends also thought that he wasn't all that attractive. One friend thought he was, but she also saw him on a day that he was dressed really nice. I was very surprised to learn how well he could clean up.
That's the truth for me. I had a guy friend who liked me but he was obese. I loved his company but he was too fat for me. I ended up marrying a underweight guy.
Maaaan, you'd be surprised. If you have a BOMB personality, you're funny af and you treat her right, make good love to her (If it's gotten that far) you'll start to look beautiful to her.. Unless she's super shallow & in that case you wouldn't want to talk to her anyways lol.. I get what you're saying though, usually an initial attraction is physical appearance first. If you look that that dude on the picture, but you're on a stage doing comedy or at a gathering making a whole room laugh and she sees you after, I bet it's more likely that she'll see you in a different light.
i've seen too many girls go for ugly guys over good looking guys because personalities don't mesh. a good looking guy isn't going to mesh well with a good looking nerdy girl. a good looking shy guy won't either. so good looking introverted women choose extro/introverted men.
you're not out of the game to get a hot girl
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I don't care about looks as long as she isn't hairy or obese, but those are still qualifiers so I do care to some extent. When women say that they mean that you don't have to look like Brad Pitt, not that it is okay if you weigh 500 lbs and stink because you rarely bathe.
That is not only applicable to women though. And there are people who are no interested in physical attraction at all. There are people who are attracted to intelligence.
I really don't care about looks. The only exception is when a guy is shorter then me. The only exception is when a guy is shorter than me.
Most women would agree with you. Very few actually think looks don't matter at all.
What kind of a personality does he have? Where did you meet him?
Well my first girlfriend was beautiful and I'm ugly af, but i made her laugh all the time and I'm not rich. So there's at least one.
yes its very annoying
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