Hmmm... ok. So. The first thing I notice... is that the two of you became "official" rather quickly. That's fine... there's nothing wrong with that... but still... it IS not what you usually see from two people who met on Tinder a month ago.
That being said, what matters is the COMMITMENT you two made to eachother. So if you two decided to beome "a couple" (in other words... exclusive)... then THAT'S what matters.
So assuming you two DID have that talk at some point... and are both on the same page in terms of "being boyfriend and girlfriend"... then...
No... I don't think you should "give him another chance".
If your situation is...(as it appears to be) that you have a BOYFRIEND who is active on Tinder... than that is clearly unacceptable in every way. He IS NOT on Tinder looking for friendships. That... it utter bullshit.
So... no clearly... you CAN'T trust him... IF he led you to believe that you two were exclusive... but he's still on Tinder.
By that same token... YOU shouldn't be on tinder either. "ugly profile" or not... you being on there is JUST as inappropriate. It's even worse... going on there 'to spy' (essentially). I mean... you DID 'catch him'... and to me... at the end of the day... gives you your answer for "can i trust him"...
But... you were acting pretty 'sleazy' yourself. I urge you not to do things like that in your future relationships. :)
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Alright look, if it bothers you it's important he feels it. you're right to get upset and ask him to delete tinder but then again he did.
I don't think life is all black and white and so breaking up with him over this seems kinda rushed, almost as rushed as dating him in the first place.
If you don't feel like talking today don't but don't make an entire trilogy out of this and just explain to him tomorrow that you were really bother by his tinder account and ask him to specify what the two of you are in his eyes. If you're a committed couple then it's not ok but if he feels otherwise then you need to rethink your relationship status
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create a pretend Tinder account using a very attractive girl that is NOT you. Swipe around untill you find your boyfriend again (swipe right again ) then ask him questions pretending to be this other chick. Arrange a hook-up and you can show up as yourself and see what he says
I dont know if he cheated on you but tinder is a bad place to meet some one everybody on there just want to hook up
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