For the same reason girls still watch chick flicks and have female mental fantasy (most common being force fucked by a stranger) while in a relationship. Your fantasy has nothing to do with your partner, how happy you are, or how much you love them. It’s fantasy. Men are visual and women are mental.
Have him his life and move on with yours, if you aren't happy and emotionally unsafe then why would we stay in someone else's life that we know isn't compatible with ours. just saying. good luck girl.
Because they don't bother unfollowing them. And it doesn't mean that they'll stop finding them attractive. You don't stop lusting over other guys if you're in a relationship with one, do you?
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but I don‘t go on their page and like every picture
This is a hard thing. Men are visual and we may enjoy looking it does not mean we think of them more than just the image. Let him have his freedom on these small things or it may become a bigger issue later. Good luck and try to relax.
You know what, I been thinking about this and if he is not willing to stop something that bothers you then is he really for you? Maybe step back and think if this is a situation that needs to be an or else result.
It goes both ways. Everyone really just want to fuck around.
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Yes you are trying to blame him for your insecurities. Are you really going to try to control him that way? Would it be acceptable for him to demand you cutoff contact with all men on social media?
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For the same reason girls still watch chick flicks and have female mental fantasy (most common being force fucked by a stranger) while in a relationship. Your fantasy has nothing to do with your partner, how happy you are, or how much you love them. It’s fantasy.
Men are visual and women are mental.
You're not a crazy, just an idiot. Stop being it and you'll be fine.
Cause we know one day your gonna leave us, so just preparing a back up ✌️
Have him his life and move on with yours, if you aren't happy and emotionally unsafe then why would we stay in someone else's life that we know isn't compatible with ours. just saying. good luck girl.
Because they don't bother unfollowing them. And it doesn't mean that they'll stop finding them attractive. You don't stop lusting over other guys if you're in a relationship with one, do you?
but I don‘t go on their page and like every picture
This is a hard thing. Men are visual and we may enjoy looking it does not mean we think of them more than just the image. Let him have his freedom on these small things or it may become a bigger issue later. Good luck and try to relax.
You know what, I been thinking about this and if he is not willing to stop something that bothers you then is he really for you? Maybe step back and think if this is a situation that needs to be an or else result.
Make him jealous. As men we don’t want to lose or be shown up
Men are visual creatures and haven’t been taught to keep that shit under control.
When you have been bullied enough you don't even have to control it. It stays hidden all the time
Would imagine it’s mostly fantasy.
However there could be more to it.
It goes both ways. Everyone really just want to fuck around.
Yes you are trying to blame him for your insecurities. Are you really going to try to control him that way? Would it be acceptable for him to demand you cutoff contact with all men on social media?
Girls add me on Facebook all the time and I don't know them, they also have boyfriends.
Think of it as the male equivalent of the female maintaining a string of friendzoned guys as backup options.
Some of them they watch their YouTube videos as a subscriber and know that they may never meet them in person and just enjoy watching them from afar.
Its because those girls provide him with something that you can't give him.
May he know them from work or school. Then it's normal. If it's just a random or multiple random girls it's pretty weird
Because we're visual creatures and we like looking at pretty girls lol. And, if they're gonna put it out there for me/us to see we're gonna look
Guys are visual creatures and we like looking. I don't think its a big deal. But if your partner says don't do it. Don't do it.
He doesn’t treat you well. He doesn’t give a fuck about your feelings
he shouldn't be doing that if he in a relationship with you... his attentions should be on you