Should my boyfriend and I have a threesome with another girl and what are reasonable boundaries?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years now and lately we've both had the fantasy of a threesome with another girl. He's told me he's been into this for a while now as he thinks it's hot imagining me with another girl and I have slowly caught on too as we discuss it quite often now. He doesn't care what the boundaries are whether he can just watch to being fully part of it. He respects whatever my decision is and has left it up to me on what my boundaries for him would be. Since he is the one who wants to see me with another girl, he doesn't need boundaries for me as I am happy to just do whatever I'm feeling with her, whereas I want him to also be involved so I have to think of where my limit is with what him and this third girl can do to eachother. Let me know your thoughts on if having a threesome even is a good idea and if so, what are some reasonable boundaries. Thanks! :)

[bluehen46]

Well the first thing is you both are willing. its not like one party is doing it to please the other. As far as boundries go it can go a few ways. I have never really been involved in one and the one i was ( sort of a double headed blowjob) I was not a boyfriend/girlfriend but friends with benefits with the one. Now he could watch and just play with you as it you do things with the girl and he penetrates you while you orally pleasure her and therefore he is not really touching. You also could do both of you on him like one rides his face and other rides mr happy. Often with bi-sexual or bi-curosity it seems the one girl is doggie and eats the other and they take turns with that.

Now I do know guys who have done this for girlfriends and a limit from the boyfriend my be no vaginal intercourse of the other guy with her, or maybe minimal kissing becuase of the intimacy often its no swallowing or oral that i have heard of. One guy did have an issue as his girl ended up swallowing for both guys but she was a semen junkie it seemed. Initially he asked me to be involved but we were very good friends and i feared it would effect our friendship.

[Levin]

What would you like the boundaries to be with him and the other girl?

I don't know, I have a feeling that one person, usually the girl, gets insecure and jealous in all this.

It's one of those, probably better in porn type things.

How do *you* feel about this? Since it is generally accepted that a threesome with two girls is more benefit to the guy. Some girl asked this question a few weeks ago, she was far from sure, and her counter question to her boyfriend was would you be happy with two guys?

[Secret6620]

This is definitely a tough question... I haven't done it myself... But from the questions I have asked on the topic... This could ultimately end up ruining the relationship... You will need to have great communication prior to... And afterwards

[WadeDanielSmith]

So you actually wan tt o lick another girl's pussy and stuff? Are you a lesbian?

Ew... that's so weird.

I watched some fake lesbian Korean porn one time a few weeks ago, but the girls were not real lesbians, they were just pretending to be lesbians, so they didn't do anything together other than kiss and fake orgasms.

If you're really into licking another girl's cunt, that's up to you, but homosexuality is unnatural, I doubt lesbians really enjoy what they do to one another.

Homosexuality is sort of like masturbation, it might "feel good" for a moment, but it's rather unfulfilling and leaves you empty.

[Torari]

Homosexuality is common in all mammals. Its not normal, but it is definitely natural.

Its cause by mismatched hormone levels in the womb during specific phases of pregnancy. Too much testosterone here, too much estrogen there, etc...

[RLovesD7792Always]

well first you gotta ask yourself what are you comfortable with him doing with this other woman in the threesome. are you comfortable with him kissing her? looking her in the eyes when kissing? holding her head and kiss then penetrating her? also you should set up one very specific rule if you go ahead with this threesome that there is to be NO contact with her after it (at least without you present) and he can not have feelings or catch feelings for her. Some very strict guidelines need to be set and put into place before even having a threesome

[Torari]

Threesomes are risky, they can cause jealousy issues even when you think they won't.
But you can minimize the risk by making sure the woman you choose is unrelated. Get a whore, instead of using a girl friend.

Whores know what they're doing as stay detatched.

[BuckWild]

Obviously, the answer is yes! All participants are encouraged to smoke a shit ton of weed and let it go from there. Freestyle.

Happy belated 420.

[imafreak67]

I would never have a threesome with my girlfriend even if it was another girl and she was okay with it later on down the road to bring it up I never would

[NewZion]

Do it when you're all ready. Boundaries should be set among you three think is right, not what people on GAG or anywhere else think. It's not their life. Have fun!

[Drumlin2001]

Why not start with him just watching, minimal touching of her. If you enjoy it then maybe next time relax the rules slighlty. Eventually you'll find your level.

[Anonymous]

I'd say it's a good idea. And, that depends entirely on you. No boundaries would be fine and is pretty normal. Unless that bothers you. That's basically the only factor. What does or does not bother you.

[devil_8888]

Haha... there are chances that he might dump you and go after her if he starts liking her.. don’t let your man fuck another girl...

[codyccc]

Go with the bikini rule wear he can touch her anywhere but wear a bikini goes

[one1wild00]

It would depend on the two of you and how solid your relationship is.

[best_coocm]

You should decide the boundaries

[Xtownsen]

If you have solid relationship it should work

[Smirnoff23]

Just be sure

[Numbnuts89]

Nope