I can thank my first wife for the cautious trust of any person, She was a liar, thief, cheat & a whore. She also caused a rift between my family & I that never healed,.
I think that's absolutely true. While trust issues form from hurt. Some people can sense distrust from within, almost instinctively, but that fear build from experience.
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That's the cause of my trust issues. My ex boyfriend cheated on me and I have severe trust issues in relationships. And two of my best friends (now ex ) betrayed me and I have trust issues in friendships as well. And I'm working on my issues these days. So, yeah I don't trust anyone 100%. If someone says they will always be there for me, I don't believe it because the ones who said they will be there has left me when I needed them the most.
That's one possible reason. The other (and at least as common, if not even more common) reason is they grew up in an environment without any proper trust. Abusive and/or neglecting parents of any kind, usually.
Very often, very true. Many who say that they are atheists are so because they have trusted a churchman or religious organisation (too much) and were betrayed. Many a simp has been betrayed by the woman he'd been enabling, and the resulting disillusionment turned him into an Incel.
Yes, but theyve probably been betrayed more than once if they "trust nobody" versus someone who had one bad experience would probably be more along the lines of cautious.
Yeah, I would say so, otherwise they would trust somebody.. Either that or they were taught not to trust anybody.. Butthen they would have to trust the person who told them that in some way..
EHH! for me its diffrent do to my childhood and other recent expiriences long story short i was abused by my brothers, my childhood friends went against me started bullying me, some girl i was with only dated me to use me to get her ex jealous.
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I can thank my first wife for the cautious trust of any person, She was a liar, thief, cheat & a whore. She also caused a rift between my family & I that never healed,.
Either that or they're prone to be paranoid due to mental issues.
Mental issues will always cause issues in many different aspects of their life.
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This is true, yes. Take me for example, I used to open my heart to everyone, not I open my heart to no one.
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True. I that's the case in a lot of cases. Its hard to fully trust someone, because no matter who they are, they can change in a blink of an eye.
No matter how much I've been betrayed, i still trust easily until you give me a reason to no longer trust you
I think that's absolutely true. While trust issues form from hurt. Some people can sense distrust from within, almost instinctively, but that fear build from experience.
That's the cause of my trust issues. My ex boyfriend cheated on me and I have severe trust issues in relationships. And two of my best friends (now ex ) betrayed me and I have trust issues in friendships as well. And I'm working on my issues these days. So, yeah I don't trust anyone 100%. If someone says they will always be there for me, I don't believe it because the ones who said they will be there has left me when I needed them the most.
That's one possible reason. The other (and at least as common, if not even more common) reason is they grew up in an environment without any proper trust. Abusive and/or neglecting parents of any kind, usually.
Very often, very true. Many who say that they are atheists are so because they have trusted a churchman or religious organisation (too much) and were betrayed. Many a simp has been betrayed by the woman he'd been enabling, and the resulting disillusionment turned him into an Incel.
Good question. Tough to say, although what you say in your question can be a possibility though.
That is 100% accurate. And they were burned badly by it.
Yes, but theyve probably been betrayed more than once if they "trust nobody" versus someone who had one bad experience would probably be more along the lines of cautious.
I trusted too easily and it got me hurt to the point of almost committing suicide. I have a really hard time trusting people now
Yeah, I would say so, otherwise they would trust somebody.. Either that or they were taught not to trust anybody.. Butthen they would have to trust the person who told them that in some way..
I trusted someone so blindly that when I found out. I haven't been the same. I find myself pushing people away
Probably true, but I don't think that's an excuse. We all get hurt sometimes but we gotta keep moving forward :) That's what I try to do anyway.
EHH! for me its diffrent do to my childhood and other recent expiriences long story short i was abused by my brothers, my childhood friends went against me started bullying me, some girl i was with only dated me to use me to get her ex jealous.
I would say not necessarily but it definitely makes sense... and I'd also like to add, anyone can learn to trust again. :)
I recently found out that the girl I trusted too much cheated in our 3 year long relationship with the guy she used to call her friend.
You lay your life in someone's hands and they twist it DONE