Why can’t I live without male attention?

[Anonymous]

This question seems so slutty and sad. But I feel like I just constantly need male attention. For instance if the guy I’m dating takes long to reply I can’t go about my day right because he’s not giving me attention. Or for instance if they take long or they’re busy I get really upset and start to overthink things on why he isn’t replying. I constantly just crave to have sex with boys so I do so easily? I don’t know why I’m like this. Maybe it’s because recently I’ve been so bored since it’s been lockdown but it’s horrible is something wrong? I’ve never had a dad until 2 years ago if that’s maybe a reason?

[silvermoon84]

Could be. I was like that when I was younger and I didn’t have a dad either. Mine left when I was young. The good news is that I grew out of it as I got older and more secure in myself. After seeing my mom torturing herself every day of my life because of the divorce, I eventually realized that I would rather have limited attention from men than the wrong attention and I saw that I wanted it for the wrong reasons. Just focus on yourself and make yourself happy. When the time is right, the right attention from the right guy will be all you need.

[Anonymous]

Trust me girl, the inner me is like that too llol ugghh like I just want so much attention from cute guys and want to go out and stuff... but I just try to control it. Lol I'm currently not talking to any guys I'm just doing my own thing even though it gets really boring sometimes. I don't think it's bad thing for you unless it's getting in the way of you feeling like you're living a normal life... you need to love and validate yourself first.

[Anonymous]

Women naturally want male attention that isn't wrong, but as you mature you'll manage your cravings. Some women just binge it, but if you curtail it you'll be more productive and responsible. Lack of a father figure in your life can leave a deeper craving for you, spend some time with male family and your cravings may go down. You'll need to manage them, otherwise you'll become a codependent or needy wife.

[kbharadwaj3125]

Nope you are just alone and have nothing to do on ypir hand. And every one wants opposite gemder craving. We just control it better or we divert it. Having a dad or not doesn't matter that much.

[Mikelaughs]

We all have different levels of Desire. Nothing to be ashamed of.
I have much to say, and some suggestions. Also, we might discuss potential daddy issues.
But it would definitely be better to discuss this somewhere others cannot see.

[Kaneki05]

Daddy issues then? Most likely. No one can really blame you for not having a father so now you want attention given by guys. It's just who you are because you never had it. It's not slutty at all.

[madgoat]

Not a psychologist but seems like a poor way to live your life. I'd work on that before you find yourself alone or with child , and forced to face whatever demons you're hiding from.

[Anonymous]

If this wasn't just a troll i'd inform you that you're a whore. But you're probably not even a woman because no woman is this honest lol

[Asker]

lol no trust me I always get told I’m different and cut from a different cloth I’m very honest 😭

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Of course it isn't. Why bare any hatred towards someone who's obviously weaker than myself? All I feel is pity.

[Smegskull]

Better learn to live without it because you won't get it in 15 years.

[Smirnoff23]

Everyone craves attention so no not a strange thing to do

[Anonymous]

You and literally every other female

[asshole_]

Daddy issues

[Realme7u]

It's not bad thing

[Cjxxx]

Can we talk private?

[ChiTown33]

Lmao subtle, real subtle man.