Why do some people think seeing and talking to your crush/partner daily is a bad thing? (Page 2)
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It depends on where you're at in the relationship. In the early stages, a little bit of distance isn't a bad thing. You don't want them to feel crowded and start running like a scared rabbit. You don't want to become something they can't get rid of. You pull back every so often just to see if they keep reaching out. This is how you maintain interest.
Well, I can sort of see the crush thing, because if we ain't together then they can get tired and move on real quick, Although it depends on it y'all have established they y'all like each other.. But with a partner y'all already together, and live together so I agree.. I guess that also depends on the relationship..
I find I have to make an effort to remain grateful for the relationship when talking is happening everyday. Unless I really attracted to the girl and she's worth marrying. Never been in a relationship where I see the girl everyday so don't know for that one.
Hmm why do u have to make an effort to remain grateful
It's just like the laws of the universe. Happiness does not exist without it's opposite. Sadness sparks the desire to be happy. Abundance vs scarcity. When something is abundant you naturally don't feel gratitude for it as much unless practiced. We all have not eaten for a while and then felt so thankful for food once we get it. Or water. If you're consistently being feed you will never feel gratitude in the same way unless you practice it or once went long without it. My experience with seeing someone everyday is the opposite though. I think. Not enough examples in my life.
But once again if it's the girl i want to marry then i feel grateful without practicing it and i for sure would love to talk to them or see them everyday. Ofc I haven't been in that type of relationship long enough to truly know if it ever fades but... yeah. But everyone should be practicing gratitude anyway. I'm speaking from the heart. My mind has other answers to your question.
I think the only bad part is realizing that there is a possibility that they might not feel the same way. They may like you, but not romantically. It’s unhealthy if they don’t like you the same way, you’ll find yourself feeling pretty terrible over it. As with a partner, I don’t think people realize what they’re getting into. You better love every second with that person if you’re planning on marrying them because you will be living with them every single day. Think it through.
So many answers. But I remember a girl who liked the guy I currently like calling me all sorts of names and posting it on social media because we spoke very often and bonded well. So people may do it to not seem desperate, but also it’s a deep insecurity for some you know.
I always liked talking to them every day or as often as possible. I prefer to actually see them in person that often. I'm talking about a partner or someone I'm dating. Talking to a "crush" (someone I merely like) every day might be weird.
Well when i say crush, i meant the one you're on the verge of dating. Not the one who doesn't know
Married. So seeing and talking daily is kinda the point.
But if you're single and not in a serious relationship , or just hook up every now and again, it's not going to be a biggie of you don't talk for a while.
HOW u gonna get to marriage if u hardly talk
Very true if that's your aim. It isn't always though.
If I could see her every minute of everyday I wouldn't miss one.
It's not about obsessions more about the fact that being with her makes me happy and so I see no reason to deliberately avoid her.
I agree
I'd say space is important. It's coming up with fair boundaries for both, even when they see each other daily. But for example, on a vacation with friends, phone time should be limited to focus on friends
I don't live with my girlfriend yet. We need to see each other everyday. We love each other and ultimately want to marry each other. Sometimes we feel a few hours with each other everyday are not enough.
Aww this is beautiful
Parting ways with her everyday is the toughest part.
I don't mind talking to them everyday and seeing them often, but I also value my space. So even if we end up living together, I'm gonna take time to go out by myself and such.
No, space is fine. I often take at least 3 hours a day to myself anyways. I just meant for people who dont want daily communication
Daily communication is fine. Doesn't have to be all day tho.
Yea i never said all day. I just meant each day. And what was your thoughts on the Challenge?
I know what you said...
And I'm annoyed that they keep cutting around Dee. It screws the episodes up. But I'm not a fan of Bayleigh, but I waa on her side. Kaycee is foul and Nany does this every damn season.
I was so glad Nany got sent home lmao. I feel bayleigh may not make it to finals since she lacking a skull but im hopeful. And yea its messed up how bad they cut dee but its so funny. This last ep, all we got from her was a headnod lmao
Yeah Nany irks my life. And I want MTV to start banning all the racists. Like Johnny and Jordan. I can't wait to see this final.
So glad u said jordan! I dnt care how good of a competitor he is, that boy is racist
Yeah, Jordan falls under the category. Nia forgave him, but he still was too comfortable saying that and he also talks crazy to people.
I think it's more a concern of people early on in relationships, well before the "living together" phase. They're afraid of coming across as desperate or needy and scaring the other person away.
I know people who still had a prob witj it well on into their relationships
Then I don't know what to tell you. Maybe they're just insecure.
I always assumed people like that are afraid of commitment. I’ll avoid those types at all costs
Depends on person to person and bad is not the correct word here , I guess it's " giving extra attention to someone" the reason why you might feel bad is when u give extra attention to someone he or she doesn't value you much , your value decreases in his/her eyes
WOW thats prob true
Yes mam it probably happens with everyone one day
I don't know if people really say that. Anyways, the hell with what others say. It's your crush, enjoy your time with them however and whenever you want to.
Im talking crush or prtner but a lot of people say that about theirs
I believe some of them put it this way because in reality they need room to check up on their secret background lover.
This is not to say, that "having time to miss" is nonsense or having some private me-time is wrong.
I slick agree
I don't know 🤷♀️ Everyday was always good for me.
Same here
I love talking to him everyday. If I could I'd see him everyday but I can't.
Tbh, if he said move in with me I'd do it in a heart beat, but yeah... covid
At least you're making an effort. Thats all some ask
Boys/girls think its being clingy if you dont live together
Probably
You wanna know about your crush better. Talk tk them daily and dig it out. 😂😂😂
I dont have one. But i agree
I didn't have the courage in my school days. I dont have one now. 😂😂😂
Many people believe the relationship may get boring
Lack of communication is what would bore me and make me drop them for someone who has the time
To each her/his own 😊