I'm not going to take it personal, but why does this guy get so hype up over white females?

[Anonymous]

So, I love all people as a black African American female, I don't discriminate against anyone. But when it comes down to use to be friends with benefits/ neighbor of mines. He can be sweet and passionate, but lord knows he can be the devil and a hateful ass. I personally do think that he likes all types of women, but maybe prefer white girls. He's half black and half mexican, I've dated a Latino who was adopted by a white family. So he usually liked lighter tone females or prefer the blue-eyed blonde hair types. So that's understandable. But with this particular guy I'm speaking off. He has more then enough pushed me to the side, blocked me, or.. just giving up and leave me hanging. Yes, he is single and he can do what he wants, as he says. But my is: him and I never dated never had an real relationship other then just a sexually one. It seemed like he wanted a relationship back in 2019 with me. But I don't know I'm just assuming because he seems confused about what we were doing. And he was putting the energy out like he wanted more. Now I do know, that white women are known to be submissive to their mates and they don't talk back. Continue to keep reading...

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And (Some) have long hair or real hair or whatever. And some of them are very wise and educated and smart. And a lot of people feels, that white women are the life of the party, and they are sweet nice and are helpful. And Etc, shit don't get me wrong, I have a selections of friends. And I do talk to a lot of white females myself and they are there for me when I need them. Hell Yeah.

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Sometimes, it's sad that I can't even count on my own sister smh. But my point is, it irritates me because my ex was like that too. They wanted me around, but only just to fuck. And with this guy, he may have a different relationship with them, and feel at peace. Like he just do more for them, then he has with me. Smh.

[Mystic_Nova]

I'm a white girl, hiya!!

As for tour question, it's just either a preference and or a fetish.

It's the same concept as to why so many white individuals like to date poc, just reversed. People, just kind of like to be with someone nk different. and white women can be rude as hell love, a Karen if you will lmao. That kind of thinking we are submissive, is how men get in trouble🤷‍♀️

And I had a black coworker, who had a thing for me. I'm blond and have blueish, greenish eyes. My eyes tend to change depending on how I'm feeling.

I'm not interested in dating for a while, but, his reasoning as to why he liked me, stunned me. He kept saying g how much he loves blonde hair and how much he wants his kids to have them. He even went as far as saying how he doesn't date black women because of how rude and loud they are.

Now, I'm like you, I love everyone and have those of different races as friends, I love African American women and all women, so you know I'm about to blow up. But, instead I told him if he ever had kids with a white woman, they would still be black to society, as he already knows. Why, on this god gi ch en earth, would ANY woman, especially white women, want to have kids with a n, let alone have a relationship with a man, who thinks that way towards black woman? He shut the hell up REAL QUICK.

[Mystic_Nova]

I think it has to do with their upbringing. I think they grew up in an environment, where the women around d them made them feel bad and belittled them to the point, where they want to date and marry someone else. While stereotypes are ugly and dont speak for everyone, there are a lot who dont help the stereotype. These men grow up to hate black women or anyone resembling those w hi o hurt them, thus they dont want anything to do with them as they grow up.

Just find a man who can love you for you and don't worry about what anyone has to say! !

Black women ate beautful and passionate, and there are a bunch if black me who would agree with me!

[Asker]

Awe thanks luv. And I know Spanish guys love Caucasian women. But did confessed to me like last year how he adore lighter tone women. So it could be a fetish. And also it goes back into slavery time too. But I did have one black guy friend tell me that white females are easy and they'll do anything to keep there man happy. But another said, that they are freaks and whore s. I'm like that's not the right attitude to have. This world is so fucked up: it all goes back during slavery time. And yes him and I aren't compatible. There are plenty of mixed guys that don't act like that, smh. But imma be honest. I have white friends, that tells me that they would only get with a black guy b. c of his cocktail.

[Asker]

And that's not the right attitude to have. And with this guy: when he really likes a female. He puts his all and heart into it. But then they play him or the relationship is over. I'm the one that is there to listen to his crys or he'll post about it. Then when my feelings are hurt by him, he don't take them into consideration. It just makes me mad that he disses me the way he does. And yet I'm still riding the waves for him. Like wtf!! I tell him to leave me a lone last year. Not bc of this. But we just wasn't getting alone. But then a year later wants to come around to have sex with me. He's like, I feel like that I can come to you when I need sum. And I'm like.. Wow that's all you think of me.. Sure I giving him sex more then enough. But that's fucked up. Then when I ask him why does he like white women he gives me no answer. But watch: I am glad that he is happy right now and as he should be. But when she gets what she wants from him. He's going to come crying to me. And tbh most people would think that I am jealous of his preference. It's not like that, and No. I have been out with my bestie and her man who is black plenty of time and I have a problem with him dating my best friend that is white. But with him. It hurts my feelings that he'll do more for another, then his own kind. :( that's why I'm a black community we're falling apart because we're always going against each other for no real reason. Like, I do like him and haven't found my guy to replace him, with my feelings. And if all he wanted was sex from me he could have asked that person who he is seeing or with now. It's crazy how he is. But my best friend said, she loves black guys too. But she said, not this man. But my friends with benefits is very open to be manipulative he gives himself away to easy. Lol smh.

[Mystic_Nova]

I kmownots crazy love and it just shows you how crazy people are. I'm not gonna say that thir aren't white women who are out there who will let them walk all over them and who are whorish. I've havd a friend who was that way, she was a heavy set white girl who had G sized beets cause she was so heavy and had plenty of black guys fall for her, because she was easy and had no self confidence and had men use her to feel better. I cut her off from my life, cause she was toxic, but I can say, men who think that of white women, are trash themselves

So, to me, I think they are perfect for each other🤷‍♀️ I really do t like seeing good people get hurt, but sometimes, you can only do and day so much, people are gonna do and think how they want to.

I'm never one to sleep around, I'm still a virgin, because I'm focusing on a career and my livelihood and dont need the drama, but I've had plenty of men trying to change that for me. I find it funny how much they think thir penis will "save" me lmfao!!!

Just be sure to be careful, because there are gross men out there who will even fetishize their own race and make you feel less to try and make you rely on them
And I'm not about to act like I know what it's like to be a black woman or what the black community goes through, hit from what I've witnessed with my own friends of color, just be careful love. Never feel like you are less of the wonderful person you are and always remeber that you are beautiful!

Just find a partner who sees the same thing you do, they are put there and they are waiting for you!

Also, you will find the yucky parts of the daying pool, till you get your pearl, but dont let the scum of the world blind you of the beauty of it!

[Asker]

Can you DM me. And that's awesome girl, that you haven't been with anyone and staying focused on yourself. ❤. And again this is not to bash anymore, I really do love all people. Like really. But sometimes, I feel like a fool when I'm dealing with this guy. Not because of my feelings for him. But I Chased after this man more then enough. And just the lack of respect he gives to me. And like I told him, he can be with whoever he wants. And I was being honest about that. I actually have been out with him and someone that was also white, I had no problems with that. I guess with me, I would think that he would give me more respect then this. I went to school with this man. But never expect it this from him. And also, let's be real. He probably does have a better relationship with white females. Like with him and my friend that is white. I love how they connect with each other and just vibes. She's that white girl that is a bit racist and can't stand black guys. She had a really bad experience with one years ago. But when she and him and I hang out. She's not like that. So it's really cute!! ND with him, he's the weird fun type of guy to be with. I know he just want chill positive people around him. And he should feel that way, shit everyone is crazy regardless of there skin. But it's just crazy, b. c he calls me crazy, but he hasn't really took the time to get to know me as a person. Smh. That's what hurts me a little, he only sees one side of me, because he has pushed me to the edge. But I have been there for him, when some white girl called him the N word and said that he was a peace of shit. Like.. Wtf!! And he constantly just comes off being a ass to me. But whatever. He can do what he wants, I'm just not going to keep socializing with someone like that. And when he comes around, I'm just not going to respond to him.

[JustADamnCrackhead]

I don't know why I stopped and read this but I just did, I don't long shit like this but after reading it all I just want you to know that your attitude is gold on this👌 I hope one day someone with your love interest will come into your life and just do more for you than just sexually.

[Asker]

Thank You!! and again it's nothing against anymore. But it hurts me that I have stick by this man and fought for him. But yet he'll diss me and just get rid of me like.. Wtf. But years come around wanna to talk or deal with me again. But his attentions isn't good with me. But then it's crazy how he treats me but don't realize it. Then when someone do him dirty white or black or other - he's all sad and shitty in his feelings. Then wants me to hear it. Or, times when I would go over to his house. He'll say randomly off the blue, oh she's pretty. Okay that's cool, but bitch!! STFU and just watch the damn tv show. And again, I am not jealous : I just gotta stop fighting for a little boy that's just not going to fucking care about me now or later. He says he do. But if you can just get what you want and then just be cold the next. Nawl f that.

[Anonymous]

Because it’s taboo for him maybe and less drama

[Asker]

Probably. But I don't bring drama to his life, he calls me crazy. But that's because he makes me that way. But truth is, I also have giving him the benefit of the doubt. And I have to stop doing that much.

[Opinion Owner]

He probably calls all women crazy

[Asker]

Probably. His Mexican ex girlfriend he ran her off with his rude disrespectful mouth smh.

[Opinion Owner]

He is just bad with women

[Asker]

Facts. But oh well, I'm done saving him