My boyfriend doesn't want me to move in, I'm pregnant?

[PrincessLoveme2]

I'm pregnant and I dont want to move a baby in my parents house... he has his own place. I live in NC and he lives in NY. So thats 10 hours away. He said he doesn't want me to move in because we been having agruments a lot during my pregnacy. And I'm not a submissive girlfriend like the women in the bible. And that he's a man. No I'm not perfect and my moods been up and down... sometimes I can be a bitch. So I guess... im taking care of the child alone. :( ... I been depress laying in my bed... im just feel suicidal. :(

[btbc92]

I don't know what in the world is going on, but you may not have no choice. He chooses to fornicate with you, get you pregnant, and ever since you been pregnant he wants to have a squat fit. Now he's complaining about how he don't want you to move into his house because of what? He's embarrassed that he got you pregnant? You sure this guy is not messing around with other women, or been using you as a side chick so he don't want the real woman to find out that he got you pregnant? But that's exactly what that sounds like to me. And if that's the case, you need to let this person go. If he wants to take care of that child along with you, he needs to step up and be a man in your life. Because he's the one that did this if this is his baby, bad enough you both has sinned before the Lord with this, and this is nonsense.

He has no right to talk about how he wants a submissive woman according to the Bible, but meanwhile he gets you pregnant, doesn't want to respect, and whatever it is that's going on with you, it's bad enough you can't respect him either. You're going to have to learn to be submissive into the things of the Lord, and get yourself where you need to be at. Don't even worry about him with his crack. Because God is going to have to deal with him, and who knows what in the world he's been doing. In the meantime you can't worry about that, you got to be concerned about the welfare of your of yourself and your baby. Your baby need you more than ever now. And all you can do is just give this up to God and just let it go. You don't want to talk about this stuff while you're pregnant. Cuz all the things that you have going on that goes to your baby. You don't want to go because your child, get them sick, Etc. You have enough on your plate. I'm with this virus going around, that is more than enough to be contending with. He needs to step up and start being a real man. He should be there protecting you, and instead he wants to abandon you. Anything that he wants to judge you by, he's going to get judged the same way. You don't deserve that. So put the focus on your child most of all. Let God handle the rest. That guy needs to really grow up.

[Xoxocutekitty]

just going to drop this here. Just because you're fighting is not a good reason to leave the mother of your child out in the cold.

https://www.culbertsonatlaw.com/practice-areas/child-custody/north-carolina-child-custody-law-for-unmarried-parents/#:~:text=Child%20Support%20Law%20Unmarried%20Couples&text=It%20is%20the%20same%20in,North%20Carolina%20Child%20Support%20Guidelines.

[NortyRich]

Now after u read this look at ur amazing beautiful baby. Hold her or him. U now promise to do everything in ur power to provide a loving environment and I know any real loving mum will stop at nothing to do right. . Then u make the tough decision to return home and leave the farther of ur baby... there is no reason a farther would not hesitate to live with there kids and girlfriend.. unless he has a secret life

[MrNameless]

the hell.. did he really just quote the bible and say you aren't submissive enough for him? How old is he? The disrespect

[ha_ch]

What is he saying? Will he let you to move in after giving birth?

[asshole_]

So you're pregnant, pre marriage/wedding, yikes