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Have you thrown in the towel and accepted your reality of not having a life long partner? (Page 2)
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Some I feel like doing that. I'm about 80% of the way there.
Freaking same
There should have been a times after the some.
But I completely understand. And I get tired of people trying to set me up or saying something stupid like, "I know someone who would be good for you."
I just want something to naturally happen or not happen.
Yea. I'm just dont settling and u think I did with all my previous relationships... Haha now im never gonna settle again. To afraid to fall for the wrong guy who will eventually break me
I feel as though I've gotten to the point where the woman is going to need convince me that being with her is better than being alone.
I need a guy who is willing to show me that I matter and is worth it... Lol guess we can stay in our half broken corners. At the point where I realized everyone is done trying. I'm so tired if carrying the weight of a relationship and most guys feel the same. So we stuck in no where
If she shows that she wants me enough I'll shoulder my part. But if she's overly aggressive I feel like there's something else going on.
Wdym overly aggressive?
When she's like trying to fast instead of letting ease into a relationship.
Oh yea. I had that recently happen. That really drove my anxiety high. Nice and slow is the best way... Plus it's way better to build that connection without putting so much pressure
Exactly. Even at 35 I want something that's worth taking the time to build.
Yea he was 34. And never had a relationship past 11 months. He was super focused on my body and looks and wanted to move to fast. Lol all red flags.
Yeah I know about red flags.
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Precisely.
We all are alone in our own ways. So that didn't really surprise if I am going to die alone with the little zoo I'm going to have in future.
You could at least charge admission lol. Make some money off of it.
(I would visit!)
🤣 yeah sure. Maybe I'll die rich and with my zoo. You're so welcomed.
Yea, sometimes I do feel that way. But, I doubt there’s not one person that is compatible with me.
Yes I have. I feel much more comfortable with that idea than I used to.
the undertone of the question and the poll options seem to suggest you see something wrong in being single but the simple fact is that many of us choose that life and its not a case of ''being left on the shelf'' at all.
I'm 35 was married early for 11 years had a couple serious relationships after I still believe there's one more out there at least.
No! That is a defeatist mindset.. believe in yourself, seriously!
If someone dumps you, write it off as their loss. Have some confidence people.. you need it pretty badly.
Naw.. ill kick it in the gutter. Don't need confidence either.. I've accepted my solo life
Is that what you *really* want?
Nope but I'm pessimistic
Pessimistic thoughts end up becoming self fulfilling prophesies because you sub consciously sabatoge yourself.
Thinking positively and maintaining motivation helps. Be proactive and keep an open mind.
Yup I know. I'm basically cool with it... I have enough positive aspects of my life... Don't need to share it with a man who won't give to shits. Lol
On my owwwwnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn
On my OWWWWNNNNNNNNNNNNNN
Too late in life to go looking for an SO, used to being by myself doubt I could put up with an other in my life now.
Nope i haven't but in reality i'm living a lonely life without even a girlfriend, things doesn't always work the way we wish...
No, but it really isn't a huge priority. I wouldn't mind, but I'd be just as happy with a series of LTRs
No. I don’t see it happening, but I haven’t thrown in the towel.
🙌 Yup I’v cast my net and got a boot every time, I think I’m ready to call it now. The fat lady is singing and if I wait any longer she’s ganna have baby.
i am 24 still single. yah some times. i just waiting for right one
At least I grew comfortable with the thought of eventually being left again.
Yes I have many times before. I honestly don’t know anymore I’m so confused
Not yet ill check back with you in 10 years
Adding it to my calendar 📅
Yes. Relationships are a lot of work for very little reward.
I have it's crazy how easy it is to find a lady but a good one is near impossible now it seems
Yes, i think i have, people are just so shallow with me, i can't say for everyone but i seem to get replaced so easily.