I'll repeat what I said in the response of deedeevour. What did you tell her its her fault for? For bringing up her past with her ex? That's like completely out of left field and doesn't make sense. She was opening up to you dude.
Maybe its not your forte, but it's an important skill to learn to be tact. Don't be a problem solver with women in these kinds of sutations. Listen. Don't tell her its her fault for bringing up "bad memories." Tell her things will get better and she'll find someone. She just wanted a shoulder to cry on. She might have feelings for you, or not. But it doesn't even matter. Anytime someone opens up to you like that, you don't shit on them. In the end, what's important in this world is human connection, not inatimate objects. True friends are hard to find.
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A lot of women have trust issues. Your roommate spilled the beans about a critical time in her life. Now, she feels vulnerable and regretful. Unfortunately, that's gonna eat her up inside and you can't help her except tell her you feel sorry & somewhat responsible that you brought back a painful time in her life although you truly didn't intend to stir up any ill feelings. After you tell her that, don't try any harder. Just go about your way as you usually do. Let her process her emotions on her own.
Fair warning: This isn't gonna be easy.
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