My boyfriend's mom caught us having sex, does she hates me?

[Anonymous]

my boyfriend and I went to go get Starbucks and while we wait until the baseball game start which we were going to watch it at my house after that we were driving around; he saw on his maps that his mom was still at the Nail salon with her friend ( she told him that she was going to Nail Salon and then go shopping) ever since he got a new puppy he wanted me to meet his new dog but never had a chance to meet his dog, so we went to his house, his mom wasn't back yet so we just hanged and played with the puppy, after playing with the dog he gave me a house tour and leading up to his room tour. After few 30 min later his mom comes home and yell's my boyfriend name ( she knew that he was going to be at my house ) he goes to the kitchen as I hear them talking... I was so scared bc this is the first time meeting his mom... Which I know its stupid to meet his mom like this. Anyways as I hear his mom telling him that this is her house and she has to come out and meet me. I slowly walk to the kitchen and I introduced myself... she didn't say anything about getting caught, but I apologized for intruding her home like that, she said no worry, and we just talked normal for a while ( she invited me to my boyfriend's grandparent party next weekend ) and we left to my house. I know I shouldn't done that but should I go to the party, should I apologize again?

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any tips that can help me?

[Anonymous]

I would go out of respect if i was you and say sorry you didn't mean for that to happen and won't let it happen again and you had no intentions of disrespecting her household and just reassure her you sincerely care about your boyfriend and you apologize for that impression and if she really cares, she'll understand. I hope this helps.

[Opinion Owner]

If she knows your in this for the right reasons with her son and not just to fuck him she will come around. At least thats what i think.

[Asker]

thank you that helped me so much

[Opinion Owner]

You wanna be as generous and kind as you can after you feel things didn't go well especially as a first impression and thats personally what i like to do if i make a mistake or feel i let people down, i like to go out of my way. You seem like a caring nice girl not like some others that would get an attitude in these situations or mad for getting caught. Just make up for things here on out, effort is the key! Good luck to you and your boyfriend and his family😊

[Asker]

Thank you I do care about him and been friends with him since high school but started dating him in college which is funny since we end up going to same college. Like I said I am a caring person I really like him and will make it up. I learned my lesson. Thank you so much for this respond, it made me feel better and know what I should do to not feel awkward around his mom.

[Opinion Owner]

Don't let people try to misunderstand you either, sometimes we just get caught up in the wrong moment and we don't mean for things to happen. Don't blame yourself so much over this cause I feel like in my sense you were just trying to have a special fun time with your boyfriend and that's not a bad thing. You weren't meaning to break any boundaries or to disrespect her house and you didn't know so its okay :) and that is so lovely aww! Well just make her and the rest of his family feel content and a warm welcome from you and reassure them how happy you guys are and how happy he makes you and that should be enough for them. I am saying all this out of my heart honestly i never have been in this situation cause i haven't had sex with a partner yet but this is something id definitely do and im happy to help people that deserve. Best wishes💓💞

[rachel776]

yes she hates you, but don't worry about it because all boys' moms hate all their girls (even if they pretend not to)

[Tea-Spaghetti]

Wow you’re gorgeous 🤩

[Avicenna]

She probably doesn't hate you, but I think you should apologize again

[Tea-Spaghetti]

I guess a second apology wouldn’t hurt.

[CuriousMufuxka]

It sounds like you made some of this up.

[Asker]

nope this is all true

[Iron_Man]

She’s very angry at you for sure

[In_Trance]

Maybe a little

[Asker]

well...

[Snowman666]

Yes and yes

[Anonymous]

You’re so rude