I'm a submissive guy (mostly non-sexually), and I always hear online about how dominant women are awful to date. Either because of fetishes that emasculate the man (cuckolding, feminization, BBC, etc), or because they're nagging and disrespectful (The "henpecked husband" trope). Or at the very least, they're portrayed in the workplace as a wretched female boss. And according to MGTOWs I've seen, they'll get tired of a submissive man and cheat on him with an alpha male ("Alpha fux beta bux" is what they call it).
As for me, I have a best friend who I'll refer to as "Coyote" to protect his identity, and he has a younger sister ("Wolf") who's dominant. She's a year older than me, by the way. But she's actually doesn't fit the "ballbusting bitch" or "woman who henpecks her man" stereotypes at all.
Wolf is dominant in her relationships and daily life, and is the leader out of 5 children (She's the second oldest). Coyote's the oldest, but he's passive and easygoing. Anyways, Wolf is actually pretty benevolent. She always makes time to help her family, and gets along with her co-workers as long as they're not lazy. When she does date, they usually fail not because of her being an emasculating bully, but because of her boyfriends' egos. In fact, Coyote says this is a recurring theme in his sisters' love lives.
And Wolf actually knows about me, since Coyote mentions me to his family a lot. Because I'm a Sub and shorter than her, she often calls me "Puppy" as an affectionate nickname. She never disrespected me, asked me to be careful during the COVID pandemic, encourages me when I'm dealing with personal issues, and even called me surprisingly handsome. She even said my shortness (She's almost a head taller than me) is cute.
TLDR; Dominant women are portrayed as being tyrannical and disrespectful, but I've met one who's a very good and caring person. And I'm asking if any other men have to. If so, what were your experiences?
Although I resent her at times, she never stopped loving me.
Why do you resent her? And what were your experiences with her?
She's much more successful than me and won't let me work or pursue a career because she says I'm too delicate for it.
Experiences are she helped me out of many bad situations, even dirtied her hands for me.
She thinks you're too sensitive to work? Sounds like total gender role reversal--not that there's anything wrong with that. What's your girl/wife's job, anyways?
She's a nurse.