Can simps truly love the woman they are in a relationship with? (Page 3)

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My thought is no. My brother has always been a simp/incel and desperate to find a woman. He used to say he isn't good enough for anyone and "bohoo nobody likes me". Now he is in a relationship with a woman who controls every mive he does, demands he does all the chores, makes dinner and does favors for her. He showers her with gifts and flowers and treats her like a goddess, but I think he does that because he thinks she is the only one he can get. That's not love. They don't even have anything in common. She doesn't even let him play video games or hang alone with his friends. It makes me sick.

Anonymous · Answer

Doubtful; infatuation is more likely. Which is easily confused with love.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

It would appear to me that he is her "pet." I think he probably does love her. But she doesn't love him.

RoastedToast · Answer

You fundamentally answered your own question there.

Liam_Hayden · Answer

SIMPs ultimately only love themselves and think that by being the way they can eventually manipulate women to like them.

MountAverage · Answer

Wait a second, since when is "simp" and "incel" synonymous? Usually it's the hateful, bitter, women-hating incels who call other men "simps".

Anonymous · Answer

Isn't it interesting how we view guys who settle for women who treat them badly as pathetic "simps" and "incels" yet we view women in the exact same situation as victims?

havingfun101 · Answer

Love is just neurotransmitters; arguably, simpering people are more in love than others.

certifiedalphafemale · Answer

No, tell him to respect himself first and stop being desperate for a relationship. by the way, is your brother younger than you?

scooogy · Answer

Yet as soon as a man is in touch with another woman, "his" woman gets jealous and he gets looked down upon.

Anonymous · Answer

While i agree, some people are just people pleasers. They get a high out of pleasing others. And ALL relationships are power struggles

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, I mean, they’re probably better at it. The issue is that it’s not what women like, so don’t do that shit if you actually want a girlfriend.

IlluminatiExposed0 · Answer

This is a very interesting question and the truth is: I don't know.

tHISpLACEiSbONKERZ · Answer

You're just a jealous twat who wants to be pampered but no one wants to do it.

TallAnon · Answer

A simp is defined as such because the target of their affection doesn't respond back.

Pulseofsulfur · Answer

That's not love it's a sugar daddy and she's the brat that expects 5k a month

Whuuutever · Answer

This relationship is toxic af.  He must really be desperate for some pussy.

Protein_mate · Answer

Yeah, they've just got to grow a pair of balls.

Dave31989 · Answer

does she do anything?

Twenty2 · Answer

Maybe that is what love is for him.

Nahid1707 · Answer

Yes and love is a strong word

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