My boyfriend is dyslexic (Numeric & Lingual), is it wrong/rude of me to correct him?

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I swear, I don't correct him on purpose!
We all make mistakes sometimes & my family will correct one another, to us it's second nature to do so.

He called cupcakes "Muffins" & relish "Radishes", among other small things. I really try not to correct him, unless I can't figure out what he is referring to & blurt it out when it clicks (like when he called relish "radishes", we were talking about hot dogs, I don't know why is didn't click right away that that was the word he was looking for). He tickles me into submission when I correct him.

He mentioned it to me when we first started talking, he said people have always made him feel bad about it. I told him I don't mind, nor care, that sometimes this will happen from time to time. Sometimes he catches himself, stutters a second to correct himself, but I told him not to worry about it.

I didn't want to mention that my ex-husband was from Leon Mexico &, even though he had been in the US for years & was fluent in English, he would confuse words too.

I always feel bad when I correct him, because it just slips out. I never do it to be like "no, you're wrong, this is the right word". I'm trying really hard to watch myself & make sure I don't do it, because I don't want him to feel like I'm being an asshole or making fun of him.

Is there any advice on how I can work on this? I don't want to accidentally make him feel horrible or self-conscious, as I already feel like I've done this...
My boyfriend is dyslexic (Numeric & Lingual), is it wrong/rude of me to correct him?
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