Guys, Is this too much to ask for?

[lanadelrey25]

"i just want a man to buy me lingerie and shoes, pay the bills and give me babies, and I will do all the cooking, cleaning and give him the best sex of his life whenever."

Too much

Perfect

Too little

[MCheetah]

"... And I will do all the cooking, cleaning and give him the best sex of his life whenever."

If you want the man to be the man and the woman to be the woman, then that is perfectly fine (even if it's not exactly what *I* want).

The only time this is a problem is when she says "I just want a man to buy me lingerie and shoes, pay my bills, and give me all his money, and he'll sit there and take it while I cock-tease him and give him nothing in return." You know? Simps. THAT is unacceptable.

[GingerGuy]

This day in age, yes kind of lol. I mean, clothes and shoes can be costly enough on their own! But you just have to find a guy that's ok with this, and some will be. And he'll have to have a REALLY good job to afford it all, which is narrowing your search quite a bit. You need a rich guy for that these days, and not many are.

[lanadelrey25]

Oh I already have a man

[DJB72]

It's unlikely you'll find a guy your own age these days who's OK with it. Thanks to the uber-left agenda pushing against the more conservative guys over the last 40 years, most younger guys have been taught its unreasonable to want that for their lives.

It's been hard enough at 49 to find a relationship where I could become the breadwinner. It's still a work in progress.

[lanadelrey25]

haha my boyfriend is 49 so no problem. i don't date younger guys, no attraction.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

No, it's not asking for much but I know from growing up, my grandma would work cleaning and doing laundry for people she knew cause she simply wanted her own
money to buy things that she may need and my mom took on babysitting jobs
while we were in middle school cause simply my dad had no job and refused
to go find one so in middle school, we had to wear whatever clothes and shoes
my parents could afford and it was not much

[slatyb]

You can ask for whatever you want, and some men may be happy to accommodate you. At least you know what you want. But choose carefully, because if it doesn't work you'll have no work history and a hard time supporting yourself. You'll want to meet a lot of men before you settle down so you can make an informed choice. I would advise waiting until about 25 before marrying.

[BCA6010]

The picture also implies ironing. Is there ironing involved?

[lanadelrey25]

uh duh

[MotorcycleMan]

All relationships are different. One person might hate it and expect something different. Another might absolutely love it. Good to know those kind of expectations up front. Communicate!

[TheSpaceGnome]

For some guys? Yes, thats asking too much. I wouldn't want that kind of arrangment with a wife because I don't want kids and I prefer cleaning and organizing my own stuff, so in that situation she would be getting money and stuff and housing from me just for doing nothing, and thats being a gold digger, which is an automatic nope.

For guys who want kids? Nah, you being a stay at home mom and maid is fair.

[ohshee]

If you add be his best friend love him will smile and be happy but he has to love , me deep then it would be perfect

[Dragonpurple]

That is actually sort of old school, but I don't see why not if he agrees to it and your good with it.

[hahahmm]

Not a good deal in these modern times sense most women:
*Can't cook well.
*Can't clean well.
*Aren't loyal.
*Will divorce the guy and take most of what he's worked for.

[hahahmm]

*since

[lanadelrey25]

yeah I can do all those things bc I don't have "modern" values. so stop generalizing all women.

[NathanDavis]

and the safest SUV out there, that will be a need as well, especially with kids around.