I'm turning 29 this and I feel like a loser?

[Anonymous]

I mainly focused on travelling and studying my degree throughout my 20s and went travelling every year until now I'm. now 28. Many of my highschool friends didn't leave home but I feel they have so much more than me like a house and partner. I've been feeling like shit these days because eveyone is enjoying the sun with their partner and I haven't got anyone. I feel like it's so hard to get a boyfriend becuase they always just want nudes since they noticed I have a good body

[sixxx]

Everybody has his or her time to have a relationship. No one is too early or too late
The main problem is you get distracted by your environment and hence feel not confident to have a relationship.

If you have traveled a lot, I would say that's great and might even better than people who have relationships. Especially if you get used to with solo traveling to lots of cities and countries, I think you won't even worry about ur relationship as you are fine with yourself and you yourself could make you happy and no need relationship to make you happy.

So no need to get distracted, just focus on ur best interest, do the best and wait ur time to shine.

[CaptainRonnie]

If you DIDN'T spend all that time traveling and studying maybe you'd feel like a loser for staying around home like your friends. Hindsight can be a double-edged sword in some ways, plus you're only comparing yourself to some friends and their accomplishments rather than focusing on yourself and being proud of what you've done in your life. You'll be fine, and when you do meet someone you'll probably find that all that traveling made you a more interesting and complete person.

[Asker]

You could be right! Maybe I would of felt worse just sticking around in my home town. But it does kinda suck that I'm 29 and never really found anyone either

[Nicegirldaqui]

Get away from those type of guys, focus more on introverted guys, that don't go out so much, that also haven't dated many women. You have to know what you're looking for, don't open your heart to any guy that appears in your life just because you're desperate for one.

[Asker]

Yes I know seems like those guys are really cocky the one I'm going for.

[spartan55]

Hence why you are getting hit up for nudes. Avoid those douchebags.

[MTC29]

I went straight from grad school and into a job. No time for travel, other than a few weekends fishing and partying down in Mexico with my friends. I didn't get a passport until I was 31. While I was working, you were traveling and seeing sights in your 20's that it took me ten (or more) years to see. I envy you.

[Turtleneck22]

You have to get over that. You got to do more then most people have the ability or opportunity to even do. Travelling and seeing the world is priceless. And education is also great achievement. Be proud and done be upset over your choices.

[Asker]

Yeah it's just off putting to see everyone coupled up and enjoying the sun together on social media

[RingOfFire]

If you are meeting guys who want nudes, you are meeting the wrong guys. You need to meet guys with some substance. Improve your date picking skills.

[Luckycharms12]

I wouldn't call studying and travelling being a loser. Travelling is an amazing experience. And studying you had a goal you wanted to get.

[Anonymous]

why do you want to deal with all that bullshit for? be grateful for the things you do have. why give yourself extra headaches and extra heartaches if you don't need it

[poneglyphs]

Well, for me no one talks too me and I do feel alone sometimes. I also want a partner to have fun and hangout.

[Ragnaroockk]

you should just assume your decisions and stop complaining, you took some decisions wanted some things it is just how it goes.

[In_Trance]

So what are you actually asking here?

[Asker]

I dunno just feel rubbish about myself because everyone is in relationships and I focused on travelling for years

[In_Trance]

Alright

[moviedude714]

How long have you been single now?

[SamFromFL]

What a liar

[Asker]

Huh?

[SamFromFL]

You are a liar, just tell the truth

[Asker]

Alright...🤷‍♀️

[SamFromFL]

How old are you?

[Asker]

28 now

[SamFromFL]

Your profile says you are over 30

[Asker]

It's not my real age I just made this account quickly

[SamFromFL]

So you will need to make a new account

[Asker]

Really? It's a stupid site to ask questions to pass the time tbh

[SamFromFL]

Yes really. Gotta be honest online