My boyfriend hangs out with his friends everyday, is this normal?

[Anonymous]

I'm not sure if this is just being clingy or anything

My boyfriend either plays games with his friends or hangs out everyday (guys and girl) I am fine with him seeing friends and stuff. It's just it's EVERYDAY and I only see him 4 hours a week due to it. I told him I want to spend more time with him and he said he's fine with it but went back to his old ways.

I'm annoyed cause if I ask for more time he gets mad but will gladly play games with his friend for 6 hours? I've suggested to even play a game together, watch a movie online or just facetime etc. He always starts an argument and says he's no time because of after work (but will play games or hang out with hi friends everyday). I pointed this out and he just got mad at me and starts an argument. I remember saying he's hanging out with one friend very often and I feel kinda left out and he got angry and started saying how "You don't trust me with her, you think I'm cheating?" When I just used her as an example as he's spent everyday with her playing games or getting food.

I don't feel like a relationship, I just feel like we're friends with benefits. We'll talk, have sex and that's really it now.

I do love him but I don't want to break up, I don't really know what to do?

[ApplesandCarats443]

I understand how it must feel wanting to stay even though people say to leave. Thats a you decision now i can say be blessed he's on the game instead of out with girls but at the same time you just said he’s going out with girls and guys…. Him getting mad about you continuing to ask for time with each other is a sign he has no interest in doing so, and if he does its by force. If his guy/girl friends were to tell him that right now he would have no problem saying lets go out today! Am i correct? Yes understandable he works & needs time to himself , but come on. You can't spare two or three days out of your week for your woman? Now to get this man to change id recommend you to do your own thing do you have family? Friends? Do you work? Have co workers? People to hang out with? Go out have fun. If you have people you can be around do it instead of spending time with him decide that you can go out with someone else to shop eat drink whatever ! The more he sees your gone & not caring anymore the more he will think shit im losing her or think your out doing something he wouldent want you to be doing. As for sex , when he asks tell him no and dont ask him for it either ! He will get the feeling your looking elsewhere and will give him a sense of worry. Let him set his priorities straight.

[MTC29]

"It's just it's EVERYDAY and I only see him 4 hours a week due to it. I don't feel like a relationship, I just feel like we're friends with benefits. We'll talk, have sex and that's really it now."

Actually friends with benefits's normally spend more than 4 hours a week together. He wants to hang with his everyday friends, so you're just the benefits. He's set in his ways, so don't expect him to budge. Now it's up to you to decide if you can continue this totally one-sided relationship.

[boggboss]

If its not somthing he will change u have to decide if your happy like this if not move on as everyone has differnt levels off how much they want to be with someone it may just be he dont want to spend as much time with u as u want

[Asker]

I just feel like 4 hours a week isn't a relationship

[boggboss]

And thats completely fair enough most people would agree with you on that but if its somthing he won't change or fix then there is no other choices

[jahaims]

Yeah

[In_Trance]

Normal